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File: a688e5944ff7513⋯.jpg (32.57 KB, 408x604, 102:151, 994a6c4790ff2bed675cb41ec6….jpg)

 No.1132[Reply]

How do I stop feeling angry at every damn thing I perceive to be wrong with the world? You may say that it's normal to get angry at bad stuff but I get angry at things that modern society is fine with.

I get angry at the rampant cannabis use by young people. I get angry at this consequence-free promiscuity going on everywhere. I get angry at the faggots and their pride parades. I get angry at all the minorities getting special privileges. I hate the political system, I hate fashion trends, I hate the media, I hate the majority of modern culture, I hate what the internet is turning into… so many things.

I am full of resentment and I don't want to be this way. My entire worldview is shaped not by the things I'd like to see happen, but by the things (and people) that I despise and I feel that I'm too far gone to undo this.

It probably also doesn't help that my life has been largely devoid of love and positive emotions for as long as I can remember.

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 No.2793

>>2773

Why yes, yes I am.


 No.2796

>>1132

Move to a small city, not bigger than 80k people.

Get a job and get hobbies, like learn agriculture and plant some stuff, potatoes, carrots, stop using so much internet, avoid tv and meet people…or not.


 No.2808

>>2796

Moving anywhere isn't really an option.


 No.2940

>>2808

yes it is. if it's money save up. if it's transportation get a bike. if it's parents, fuck em and move out already most states let you do this at 16


 No.2975

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>>1132

Actually go out and find people that are honestly trying to make a change, find voluntary work to do on your area for exemple.

Get out of your zone of comfort and actually engage with people you find interesting, discuss the things you wrote on this thread because chances are that they would want to talk about it too.

In essence I say: Go out and interact with society and find likeminded people so both of you can achieve comfort with each other, that`s how you make a place for yourself.




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 No.2603[Reply]

>Be Me

>24, virgin, autistic as fuck

>Graduate at 18

>Work a bunch of shitty jobs for next the few years only to get layed-off/fired at each one

>Finally land a "good job". Doing CAD design

>Eventually become company engineer after other guy quits

>Automate tons of things, saving Mr. Shekeljew tens of thousands of dollars

>Ask for something better than $17/hr

>But anon, youre young and you dont have a degree. I have no reason to pay you anything.

>Finally get sick of his shit and walk out the next day

>6 months later

>Still unemployed

>Have become aware of the NEET lifestyle

>Have had some money fall into my hands so I can get my own business going

>Currently am building a machine that will literally turn a profit within the next 2 weeks

>Constantly getting calls from mom

>"ANON! You NEED to get a job"

>"You have to move out of your dad's house"

>"Here, this shitty back-breaking (((job))) pays $13/hr part-time. You should have no problem paying rent and bills with that"

>*Practically ignores business that I am currently starting*

>Dad also constantly hounding me with shitty jobs he sees on craigslist

>I've already been through this a bunch of times

>Ill take the shitty job, do OK for about 6 months, realize I'm pissing my life away only to enrich Mr. Shekelgoldbergstein while getting barely enough to eat, and eventually quit or get fired, and end up in the same spot im in right now.

Why must wagecucks force us to become like them?

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 No.2894

>>2603

>Currently am building a machine that will literally turn a profit within the next 2 weeks.

>Post is 2 months old.

How's the machine going OP?

Legit wondering


 No.2939

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>>2603

Just show them videos of all the robots that will do those 13$ wage cuck jobs OP.

Then maybe they will understand the robot you are building.


 No.2946

>>2939

OP's not building shit, he probably thinks he's gonna get rich mining cryptocurrency with a bunch of nvidia tinderboxes


 No.2947

It could be worse, OP. I work an 8 hour job five times a week only being paid 11.50 per hour. I don't know what I want to do with my life, so I said "fuck uni" and even after I get home my mother still gives me shit when I say I don't like my job. She expects me to do this job for the next 50 years. I'm honestly thinking suicide is the only way out at this point. I've lost control of my life and everyone I hate has taken the wheel.


 No.2973

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>>2603

Go on welfare.




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 No.2747[Reply]

So I stopped drinking (1-2 wine bottles / night over 5 years) and after just under a week I feel tons of energy, clear headedness, the lack of balance on my feet is gone. But now with the clear head I feel less emotional and more confident and clear thinking about suicide. It's not a dramatic or fearful feeling like it was when I thought of it before. I'm not saying this wont change in another month or 5 months etc of sobriety, but it's really like the fog cleared and oepened the way for this

Has anyone experienced this before? I don't want to explain my life situation, just broach this specific issue (sobriety / unemotional assuredness of suicide)

Vid related

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 No.2942

>I feel tons of energy, clear headedness, the lack of balance on my feet is gone.

do sprots nigger and excersize and shieet


 No.2943

>>2782

Call it what you want, it's still what they do


 No.2948

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>>2753

>>2943

Ballfag is back

So again. After a few months of self developmen, I find myself in another rut. I've accepted that some things are outside my control, yet it simply just sucks, especially when it's outside theirs as well. At least my work gives me purpose, even if there's a decent chance of me being fired for not being normalfag enough. Sure, I may be intoxicated now, but I was a flea's nads away from ending it without the happyjuice.


 No.2951

>>2752

>>2753

>RSD on 8ch

Wow, never thought I'd see the day…


 No.2955

>>2747

Get a hobby. Find something that you enjoy doing so much you don't want to die.




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 No.2869[Reply]

Anyone dealt with a partner not wanting sex until after marriage?

I've been going out with this girl for about 6 months now, we've had some discussions about the relationship. She at some point talked about not wanting to cage me and saying that if I found someone else, she'd be fine with it; of course, the same would apply to her. I convinced her to not open our relationship, kinda. She still doesn't like referring to it as 'dating', because she feels 'caged', but we are exclusive.

Two days ago, she talked about not wanting sex until after she got married. We've done some stuff, she's received oral and I've touched her to, presumably orgasm, but she refuses to even see my penis, let alone touch it or suck it.

From what I've gathered this is a religious matter, but she just said it 'feels right'.

Now, we're both virgins, but there's a big age difference between us (19, 29). I really feel like I love her and that I could probably wait, but there's also this feeling of having already waited for so long, and I just can't keep myself from thinking about it when we're together.

I don't know what to do. I feel like it'll be bad either staying or going. Like I'd either be a monster that only wants sex and throws away potential life-partners because he's not getting it or an idiot that bends over backwards to accept everything she wants because I'm scared of being alone.

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 No.2938

File: f07b89813c4b9a3⋯.jpg (927.6 KB, 4000x2922, 2000:1461, chackra system 1.jpg)

Hang yourself you degenerate. No sex until marriage, don't fuck up your chackra system bro.


 No.2944

>Into open relationships

>Doesn't want sex until marriage

She's obviously full of shit, stop being cucked.


 No.2952

>>2881

>her companionship for the rest of our lives

This is unlikely anon. Either of you will cheat or file for divorce. (statistically she's more likely to do so)


 No.2953

>>2875

>six things

>16

>thinks this is a lot; expected 24

Oh anon, you're so cute.


 No.2960

>>2871

>Last time I checked, the bible doesn't say anything specifically about handjobs

this kind of attitude is why everyone hates the Jews, God included. Spirit of the law, not letter of the law.

sage because off topic




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 No.2882[Reply]

Hello guys. Some things in my life have recently come up, and I've neglected this board.

However, I still believe in the mission. If anyone wants the username and password to the mod account, please shoot me an email to godjira5@tfwno.gf expressing your interest.

Basically, all you have to do is convince me that you care about this board and that you want it to survive. If you can refer to past posts that you've made, that would be good as well.

Plus, if you just need someone to talk to, let me know. I'm here for you all. We're gonna make it ;-)

 No.2934

fuck you faggot




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 No.2728[Reply]

>make about 1250$ a month

>spend about 1200$ on bills a month

>clothes and shoes falling apart

>can barely feed myself

>in more and more pain as i work as my shoes become tatters and i cant afford any medical care to see if there's any issues

>had no time to actually save to get a cheap car, current one was wrecked

>had to settle on whatever the dealership would give me RIGHT NOW

Would it just be easier to kill myself lads?

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 No.2826

Penny pinching isn't gonna help you here. You need to find some type of work that will give you a lot of overtime.


 No.2885

Learn how to budget and what you can live without.


 No.2912

>>2885

This.

Cut ALL unnecessary expenses, including the cable bill. Learn to live without a smartphone, and get a cheap burner phone or jitterbug instead. Learn to cook frugally instead of going out to eat. If you can, ride a bike to work instead of driving… or at least to the store. Whatever you can do to cut back, cut back.


 No.2919

>tfw my anual spendings are ~6000-7000 yurodollars

>tfw I'll retire in 10 years or less

>tfw I'll be the ultimate NEET


 No.2921

>>2728

>>spend about 1200$ on bills a month

Nigga how. Explain this one specifically. Buying cheap food from cheap stores is fine and dandy, but this one is important.




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 No.2897[Reply]

For five years, I've hung out with a severely depressed person.

He is mean, stubborn, often unresponsive, unhelpful, selfish, … unwilling to get help.

We have no common interests and nothing to talk about because he does nothing all day.

I care about him a lot and I don't know why. I abandoned him for a year once recently and I missed him so I came back.

He tells me he loves me and I believe him. I know he cares about me but his disability prevents him from showing it or doing jack shit for me. I can't even call him a friend but I love him and he loves me, too.

I don't even know what sort of advice I'm looking for here.

There is absolutely nothing I can say to him that will make him get treatment. I have tried. Do not waste my time.

Why do I care about him? Should I force myself to tell him to fuck off forever?

depression makes some people inhuman

 No.2898

>There is absolutely nothing I can say to him that will make him get treatment. I have tried. Do not waste my time.

It's up to him to get the treatment, but that's not easy to do. Even with treatment, when depression sets someone off, it's going to put a dent on them.

>I care about him a lot and I don't know why. I abandoned him for a year once recently and I missed him so I came back.

That didn't help him at all knowing he got ditched by someone he cared about. He should have come back to you. I hated people who ditched me only to come back because it made me think no one really gave a shit about me or what I go through with my depression (I'm just saying from experience).

>Why do I care about him? Should I force myself to tell him to fuck off forever?

He was your friend, and someone you might have seen as a partner, but both of you can't drag each other down. It'll only hurt both of you in the end.

>depression makes some people inhuman

No fucking shit, Sherlock.


 No.2899

>>2897

>Should I force myself to tell him to fuck off forever

Yeah, you should do that, ASAP. If he's not willing to work with you to make your relationship work, then it's never going to go anywhere. You can't have a relationship with another person who can't or won't do what is required to keep it alive. Do yourself a favor and cut him out. If you're concerned that he's gonna off himself, then you need to get someone involved, like his mother or something, and let them know what's up, but don't feel guilty if something happens because there's nothing you could've done anyway.

In short, cut them out of your life if you can. If not, then gradually distance yourself from them until you're at the point where you can confidently break it off.


 No.2902

>>2897

The man is in love with his own misery, whether he wants to admit it or not. His depression is his body pillow, his crutch and ironically, his motivation to stay depressed.

The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step but if he doesn't want to bend a toe for himself, nevermind for someone he claims to love, in order to get well then you need to move on.

Relationships are a lot like travelers with large, heavy satchels. We all have to carry our own baggage and its nice to help each other with them, but far too often you find yourself walking behind someone who doesn't see you or the work you're putting in.

Let us know how it goes.


 No.2916

>>2897

You'll do what you want to do in the end. Just make sure he knows why you're dumping him, if you end up doing that.

Also you're making it very hard to give concrete advice by being vague about both your friend's story and the things you've tried to help him get better. It's clear that you're just venting, and while there's nothing wrong with that, it's no surprise that you'll get vague replies in return.




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 No.2907[Reply]

so my landlady is kicking me out in about a week, and i still haven't found a decent place to stay

i can always leave all my stuff at relatives in the city, but ideally we'd just leave it where i'm gonna be living rather than leave it at one spot and months later move it again when i'm back for the next semester

i've been searching through different sites today and considering that i'm on half the budget people my age usually are, i'm only finding shit that's already been taken, or shit that's on the edge of the city which would kind of be a problem considering i need to actually get to my lectures on time

wat do, do i try and get the ones that are too far?

and i'm talking like an hour long travel distances with a car, and i don't have a car

 No.2909

>>2907

Bite the bullet. Dump your shit at a relatives.




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 No.2842[Reply]

How do I get over my fear of failure and really low self-esteem?

I hate myself and constantly punch myself while reminding myself of my failures as well as my parents reminding me of how much of a loser I am for not following through in trying to become an actuary and making $100,000 to $300,000 from the start.

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 No.2857

It's good to be hard on yourself. You are the only one who can really keep yourself in check. You are the only one who can set standards for yourself.

However there is a fine line between self discipline and self hating. Do not hate yourself. Instead of speaking to yourself in a shit or rude way, speak to yourself the same way you would speak to a trusted and dear friend asking for advice.

It's not good to keep patting yourself on the back for no reason. Be hard on yourself but be fair to yourself. Set your goals, set your standards and live bro.


 No.2863

How do I deal with depression that came from my fear of failure and self-hate?


 No.2866

>>2863

Understand that your depression, whether a part of your normal mental make-up or induced by constant negativity, is not YOU the total person. It is simply an aspect. Managing depression can only be managed if you admit to yourself that having the blues doesn't mean you've failed at life or aren't deserving of love.

The best way to conquer your fear is to recognize it for what it is; a thought. Simply a thought. Thoughts can't hurt you. It's the decision to deny yourself happiness because you think you might fuck up or look like an ass. In whatever you do, do it because it makes you happy. Get dirty. Take chances.

Always know it's never about the crashing and burning and always about rising from the ashes.


 No.2890

Any quicker and easier way of dealing with depression. Been feeling like shit more and more often. Been insulting and looking down on myself more.


 No.2893

>>2890

Yes. View negativity as an internal critic that you can ignore and tell to fuck off. Smile at yourself in the mirror. Change your diet. And most importantly, talk to your doctor.




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 No.2864[Reply]

Hi all,

About a year ago I met an amazing guy thru a fucking gay board and we hit it off really well. He asked me out about 8 months ago, and it's been amazing ever since. We prepared for a con so that he could come up to where I live (He lives in OH I live in Ontario, Canada). Passports and all that shit. So excited.

We finally met about a week ago and I can honestly say I've never felt so much love for a person in my life.I've dated before but it was just… It was overwhelming. Between actually feeling loved for who I am and not being pressured to lose weight or change my personally, I think i've fallen extremely head over heels for him. It was the best 5 days of my life from the time I picked him up from the airport to the time I brought him back. Leaving him at the airport was probably t he hardest thing in my life- He was late for his flight so I couldn't kiss him goodbye. I stood at the gate and watched him walk out of my sight through snot and tears.

I've dated guys before, but I've never felt so strongly about someone. How do I go about surviving now? Whenever I wake up I think I feel him against me- holding me, but he's not. I catch wiffs of his cologne off of my travel bag, I feel him wake me up from night terrors only to be alone in my room. I've been crying every night since and I can't sleep.

I guess TLDR I love this man so much I'm scared of getting hurt. It already hurts just being away from him. Whatdo?

Thanks all

 No.2865

you're definitely the bitch in the relationship.


 No.2867

>>2864

>How do I go about surviving now?

Keep in close contact and if its serious enough, discuss your future.




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 No.2831[Reply]

it's around 4 am and i just spotted a giant cockroach on my floor, it was like an inch long or so

smashed it with a shoe till it could no longer walk, but the think is still moving

i put it in my trash bag and figured that that would be the end of it, but the fucking thing is still alive and making noise in there even though it's legs should be broken

i can't just go outside to throw the trash out in the middle of the night, and i can't sleep with this fucker in here

wat do

 No.2846

Smash it to death with your bare knuckles next time. Make sure it's dead. Maybe cut it up.


 No.2858

Everytime you smash a cockroach they lay their eggs in the smashing object. Your shoe now has lots of cockroach eggs. You can't smash them. Throw the fucker out with your shoes and the bin bag lad.




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 No.2832[Reply]

I don't trust people. I can't, really. I can't see a single reason to trust them anymore. I'm naturally clingy and caring, at it seems like society's only goal is to hurt those like me. So I built up a defense around myself, an attitude of dismissal and mistrust in every conversation.

Should add that I'm incapable of IRL conversation anymore, and this mistrust is directed towards online communities, where I can still sort of converse.

This basically makes it so that I, unsurprisingly, have no friends. And part of me wants them, but everything in my mind is saying that any attempt at companionship will only end with me being hurt.

Even if I wanted to less of an asshole, even if I wanted to be nice, I can't anymore. It feels so fake, feels like, by treating people nicely, I'm lying to them. And lying is one of the reasons I can't trust society, a big reason I despise them. I want to be better than that. I don't wanna wear a facade, I don't want people to befriend an empty shell of me.

I just want to find someone trustworthy, but it seems impossible.

Should I just give up and swallow the bullet?

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 No.2849

>>2848

What an incredibly evil thing to say.


 No.2850

>>2849

Welcome to 8chan. Enjoy your stay.


 No.2851

>>2849

Yeah, he just wants to gas all jews and purge the world of 'subhumans', who am I to judge him?


 No.2852

>>2851

Where the fuck did you get this from me, you retard? /pol/ would label me a fucking degenerate if they knew anything of me.


 No.2853

>>2851

Even so, don't you think his life situation might have to do something with him adopting some strange beliefs or other? I don't think he's evil even if he does believe these things (which he actually doesn't as he himself stated). You have no idea what prolonged isolation can do to a person. It can break a mind as easily and as profoundly as actual physical torture.

So for you to say that OP deserves it is actually pure unadulterated evil.




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 No.2727[Reply]

First time posting here, but I feel like a goddamn mess. I can't do anything creative like draw or anything else that's artistic. My imagination used to be good, but it's slowly died. I can't work with my hands to build or make something. I'm not all that bright even if I did graduate with a degree in actuarial science. I still wonder how I managed that. Most of all, I often freeze up if there's a chance of failure. I'm depressed most of my days, hate myself, constantly call myself a worthless failure, and end up spending most of my time after work just sitting or laying around and doing nothing or mindlessly ticking away at a puzzle.

Is there any way for me to reliably fix myself or get over my fear of failure? Or should I just suck it up and kill myself already?

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 No.2794

>>2733

nofap is bro science tier shit and you should feel bad for believing it actually works


 No.2819

Your attitude sounds like your undoing man, you simply can't be always telling yourself you're worthless. Image a friend comes up to you and asks for your advice. Would you turn around and say 'You're fucking worthless man! Why don't you just kill yourself?'

No I doubt it. So why would you speak to yourself this way? If you don't respect yourself nobody will. Sounds like you're just dissatisfied with your life.

Why don't you buy some books surrounding the area of self improvement and philosophy. You want to create shit with your hands? Read up on it.

Everything comes with small steps man, but you have to accept that you and only you are the one who can bring about positive change in your life.

You are your own responsibility. Good luck with your stuff man.


 No.2823

>>2819

Aren't self help books a scam? Is there any more effective way if helping fix myself in a short amount of time?


 No.2824

>>2823

>Is there any more effective way if helping fix myself in a short amount of time?

No. Building a more fulfilling lifestyle and changing your mindset take lots of time and constant effort. Killing off bad habits and replacing them with good ones is not easy.


 No.2825

>>2824

Well, can I at least get a good way to not be depressed so often? One that works?




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 No.2788[Reply]

How to deal with jealousy?

I went to a bar with my girlfriend and she danced with a clearly gay dude. He knew how to dance and so does she - I've not had any classes. They danced very close together - kind of lambada, something like that - and did some moves and shit.

I felt like it should've been me making her feel great there. My first instinct is to learn to dance so that I can do that.

I've never had a girlfriend before, is this normal? How do I squash the feeling? Why the fuck am I thinking this over a gay guy?

 No.2789

>>2788

>I've never had a girlfriend before, is this normal?

Jealousy is perfectly normal, especially in this situation. Assuming your girlfriend is even reasonably cute, she's probably getting hit on all the time even when you're not there.

>Why the fuck am I thinking this over a gay guy?

because all your brain sees is your girl dancing intimately with another guy in a setting where hookups usually happen. it's your brain going 'OOH OOH SOMEONE'S STEALING MY PUSSY.' dancing is basically one step away from fucking which is why if a guy dances well a girl assumes he's good in bed. and all your brain is registering is: other guy + your girl + dancing = guy trying to fuck your girl.

>How do I squash the feeling?

I'd say learn how to dance as intimately and as well as that gay dude. then dance with your girlfriend instead of some random guy. or dance with other girls if you want her to feel some jealousy too.


 No.2790

Dancing is for faggots. If you're really upset though, you could ask her to teach you to dance, preventing that situation from happening in the future. If she's a bitch she might just find the suggestion pathetic though. If she's not, you might have fun together and it could bring you two closer.


 No.2797

Hey, try this book:

The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida




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 No.149[Reply]

So I've been going out with this girl for almost three months now, and I was struggling with whether or not I should ask her about us being serious partners - you know, defining the relationship. I decided to postpone that, and, last friday, she asked me some questions to seemingly scan my opinion on open relationships.

"I watched this video on youtube about a couple that has an open relationship, it's pretty interesting". She asked what I thought about it, and I told her my first reaction to it is negative; I've not been in a serious relationship before and the longest one I had before her was about a month long.

"Well, I think I couldn't do that, being held up to just one person." I didn't answer after that, I kept quiet because I was burning up inside. It wasn't really rage, just shock at what I heard and a sense of impending doom.

Anyways, a week before that, I was introduced to this girl by a friend. One of them told me she was definitely into me, laughing at every joke, etc. I hadn't noticed because I was still in the middle of deciding to postpone my question about defining the relationship.

So, after that, she asked me to her birthday party, with just a couple of people that were my friends. I went there this monday, after my date had told me about the open relationship thing. We drank quite a bit - about three pints of beer - and ended up making out a bit twice, we didn't have much alone time with our friends there.

She mentioned something about us going out to drink some other day, which I don't really know if 'us' meant me and her or our friends as well.

The weird part is I thought doing this would make me feel like absolute garbage, like scum. I believe the fact that my date kind of dismissed the importance of our relationship has to do with that. This made me think of maybe going with the open realtionship stuff.

I don't really have a specific question for you guys (and gals) or anything, I just need some experience talk and some generaPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

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 No.539

>>149

>what do u think about me fucking other dudes

>what u think its bad? IDK fam i personally could never be with just one dick

You're dating a whore who has told you she wants more than you. Dump her and take the new girl who actually wants you. Women speak through projection, just like leftists, her asking you about it is essentially seeking permission, which is why she just had to let you know sticking to one cock is a near impossible thing for her.

>i believed this would make me absolute garbage

Why? Even your girl said she doesn't think she could be monogamous so why should she expect you to be? Get her out of your life and go get this new girl.


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 No.2774

Being in an open relation is a prerogative of people which are totally open and honest to each other. Normally you would not have shut up upon knowing the intention of your girl 1, but started talking about girl 2: which is what girl 1 already BTW probably knew and wanted you to be open about.

You failed miserably. An open relation can open interesting perspectives: who knows, maybe your girl 1 was liking girl 2 too.. too bad you are a cuckl


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 No.2786

>>2774

Joke's on you, I'm in a closed relationship with girl 1 now.

Also, you didn't get what happened, she talked with me first, then I got nervous and went out with g2.




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