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How do I explain something like this to my sweetheart? I don't think she's wrong or lying, nor can I see why people dislike her, but she's really having trouble with this stuff.


>why is it when people act like assholes, it's somehow cute and endearing, and everyone loves them to death?

I don't think that's true. I think people are mostly averse to rude demeanor, and have a generally low tolerance for people who want to behave that way. However, there are people in your life that you have to get along with for various reasons, and therefore you have develop methods of coping with their idiosyncrasies. Some people will change their perception of someone so that they can observe everything they say in an absurd or humorous way. This is sort of like a type of rationalization, and maybe it's similar to the idea that people tend to make fun of things they don't understand or are afraid of in order to cope with those things.

What I'm saying is, maybe you've got it all wrong, and the people that you think are warmhearted towards a person who you also consider to be an asshole are actually choosing to approach and react to them with some sense of irony? I don't know.

Without more contextually specific information, it's sort of hard to make a judgement about the situations your sweetheart experiences. A person's reaction to another is influenced by a multitude of different factors, like their relationship status, their sense of humor, various aspects of their identity, their current emotional state, and so on.


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Jesus, raise your vibration. Gossip is the most braindead unfulfilling shit. It's barely above being an apathetic couch potato which I imagine comprises most of your life.

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