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File: cce757b7d8025d2⋯.png (188.33 KB, 622x570, 311:285, cce757b7d8025d202655e983e9….png)

 No.3328

>try to approach a woman

>not even mildly attractive, a fat feminist with a bunch of piercings that only drew me in for her tits

>get her number

>picture of her with her boyfriend

This just keeps happening, I don't want to add up to the reasons the modern world goes to garbage by cucking the guy. Why does this happen?

 No.3331

File: d4ef125b8e3ecb6⋯.jpg (930.82 KB, 1024x724, 256:181, Samus is cute, CUTE.jpg)

>>3328

Well OP, I have to wonder why you would bother going after a woman who by your own admission is

>not even mildly attractive, a fat feminist with a bunch of piercings that only drew me in for her tits

I'd tell you to look elsewhere but I'd also tell you that you shouldn't hesitate from cucking the guy if you get the chance. People who enable women like that are just as bad as the women themselves. But I hope you don't make casual sex a pattern of behavior, you'll become fairly miserable in the long run if you do.


 No.3334

File: 223f5811c4fce62⋯.jpeg (210.77 KB, 2048x1152, 16:9, 223f5811c4fce62f1e4b130b6….jpeg)

>>3331

>Well OP, I have to wonder why you would bother

It's mostly virgin thirst at this point I think, but the idea of taking the demons of a fat feminist out of her, making her slim and attractive without piercings was also a factor.

>I'd tell you to look elsewhere but I'd also tell you that you shouldn't hesitate from cucking the guy if you get the chance. People who enable women like that are just as bad as the women themselves.

Nah, I'm not that deep in the shit. I'd just like to find somebody to have a relationship with but since I've never been in one and heard that after the first one attachment to a person wears thin I'm kinda wary about it.


 No.3335

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>>3334

>I like the idea of fixing her

It's a good goal to have, no doubt, but I think that's probably more wishful thinking than anything you would be able to achieve. In my experience, it's incredibly difficult to get other people to change themselves in positive ways. I've never seen it happen before. I'm sure it's possible and I wouldn't say that no one can do it, but replacing someone's bad qualities with good ones isn't something I think you should go into a relationship expecting. Because if it doesn't happen, then you've screwed yourself.

>I'd just like to find somebody to have a relationship.

Well, that's pretty respectable, I just wouldn't want your first significant relationship to be something you'll end up regretting.

>after the first one attachment to a person wears thin

In my experience, given enough time, this isn't that true. If you get into a really important relationship with someone and then she ends it for example, yes, you will have trouble finding attachment with other people for a while, but spend enough time apart, and you'll be able to move on and be able to love someone with just as much passion as you did with the previous person. Mind you, the time it takes for this to happen can take years, depending on how you feel, what kind of person you are, the nature of the relationship etc.

The only thing I think you should be careful about is your first relationship being really really bad, because that probably will colour your perceptions of romance and women in the future in a very negative way which would be a pretty shitty thing to happen.


 No.3349

>>3331

Desperation


 No.3353

>>3334

You can't change someone who doesn't want to change without diving into emotional manipulation. At that point you're not helping them, you're abusing them. I especially don't think you'll be able to change a hamplanet feminist. You need to redirect that thirst towards women who are (or at least look like) decent human beings.


 No.3361

>>3353

This. The amount of effort you spend trying to fix someone else would be much better used improving yourself. Exercise more.




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