No.113933
fresh OC
we were only acquainted in high school and this is the last time we ever talked, after about a week of me being blatantly interested in her.
i figured you guys would enjoy shitting on me and my spaghetti.
obviously we never did hang out.
No.113935
You shouldn't have waited so long.
No.113937
>>113935
a few days later
"so when do you want to hang out? this saturday?"
no response
because looking desperate immediately instead of later on is less cringey?
No.113938
>>113937
I was assuming that maybe she quite using Facebook. How did you meet this girl in the first place?
No.113939
>>113933
this is good had a laugh thanks, how old is this?
No.113940
>>113938
friend of a friend of a friend.
also i'm 100% sure she's been fairly active since that started
No.113941
>>113933
>hola
what the hell?
Well, I've seen done worse
No.113947
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The hell kind of name is "Maile"?
No.113949
>hello
>hola
lol this wasnt even that bad bro, shes just a cunt
No.113953
You know anon, one thing I realized about women is that they hate men without initiative. You there are just doing the question like "tell me plan to do pls" and "I have these days free, we can do something if you want", and they hate that, because they hate to think or do shit, they want people to do everything for them because they are worthless.
So next time go directly with a plan, like this day, at this time, we are going to do this. Yes or not. If she says no and does not give you any alternative or tell you about other day she will be free, it means that she doesn't want anything from you, probably because you're ugly, manlet or any of that shit, if she says yes there you go.
No.113964
>>113939
8/8
Next hello, 8/28
Then a desperate "hola" ringed in 11/7 .
>>113953
This is probably the best advice. What OP is doing is asking if she can hang out, when they can hang out, and where and what activity to do.
It sucks, and you're probably raised in a very feminine way (not meant as an insult, more of a common trend amongst young males today).
You "respect" her, and assume you can come to an agreement, and both parts will have the same expectations, the same experience and the same everything. When infact, she's a woman, you're a man and you will experience it differently (it will be assumed that you think you have the "better" experience if you air this assumption to people :^) - muh misogyny).
However, hope you've learned from it, OP
No.113968
>>113964
>you're probably raised in a very feminine way
this is accurate. i hate feminists but i don't like to impose on women. this is probably going to make you guys cringe more, but in middle school i actually had an intense fear of being perceived as some sort of rapist or sex predator or "creep" or anything along those lines, so i've learned to just avoid women as much as i can and only approach them in the most non-threatening and non-imposing ways like this. i actually have a legit fear of being caught on the business end of a false rape allegation. that's probably somewhere beyond beta (omega? gamma? sigma?).
No.113969
>>113933
> really?
That is the first cringe in a series of more cringier cringes. You should seriously just cut your dick off at this point and get a pussy installed.
or start going to the gym and quit being such a whining little pussy
No.113972
>>113953
>they want people to do everything for them because they are worthless.
No, they just don't want a clingy guy who is dependent on them for all of the decisions in the relationship, that is what a child does, not a potential suitor. You can ask them if they want to do something, but you have to have that something thought out in advance.
No.113975
>>113969
am i supposed to disagree with this?
No.113976
>>113968
It's how males are raised (or current generation were).
You were shamed. Shamed for having agency (this is probably the key point). Any individuality, masculinity and so on pose a threat. It's so ingrained in your own self (internalized shame :^) ) that you compare yourself on the wrong scale.
>Everyone else is better, and you're a fucking idiot for not becoming even better, but you will be provided no tools apart from the shame, and the shame of being ashamed.
Can't win ;-)
No.113995
>>113933
Some friendly advice, from one Anon to another. I'll let you know know where you went wrong, why (if possible), and what you should have done instead. I'm no casanova but hopefully this helps you out a bit in the future.
No.113998
>>113969
I'm not about to take any advice from somebody with blue hair.
No.114006
>>113995
Not OP, just some loser anon here. This helps, specially the bit about being assertive when setting a date. Thanks
No.114044
>I like eating food, racing, bowling, movies, games, I'm easy going.
No.114047
>I'm trying to make new friends.
Holy shit, you can't just say that. Girls are likes dogs, they can feel your insecurity and weakness.
No.114065
>>113947
her parents wished she was a boy
No.114069
>>113998
> hating on Ramona
Enjoy your hand
No.114075
It's still not too late for Shock & Awe, i.e. you must "poke" her, Anon. Armed with our advice you must log on and "poke" her to get back in the game. Be assertive, tell her what's going to happen, when it's going to happen, then come back here and thank us.
No.114084
>>114047
Define Insecurity, I think that word has lost meaning to me.
No.114096
>>114069
>not loving knives
>going for a purple haired hipster whore
No.114098
>>114065
Maile is a boy's name?
No.114099
>>114098
It sounds the same as another word meaning "boy"
No.114100
>>114098
It's actually a Hawaiian girls name. Google it. It's pronounced like "miley"
No.114113
>>113968
I know we regularly give people the business on here but in this case it actually isn't your fault OP.
You are yet another victim of the Feminized society we live in. Taught only shame and fear of your masculine identity they have robbed you of your birthright as a man. I am truly sincerely sorry for you and I don't mean that in a condescending way.
Take a listen to these anons
>>113953
>>113995
Also look into psychology and learn how to recondition yourself into the traditional archetype of a man. Almost everything that modern feminists claim to hate about men are traits that secretly turn regular women on. So that is a good place to start.
Some simple basics:
>Project an image of strength, competence and assertiveness
>Best way to do this is to condition your mind and body to be these things
>Never love anyone more than they love you
>Never care about something so much that you couldn't bear to lose it
>Never take women's suggestions or feelings seriously, this leads down the dark road of betas and cucks
>More often than not women don't know what they want or they are playing shitty mind games with you
No.114150
>>113972
>they just don't want a clingy guy who is dependent on them for all of the decisions in the relationship, that is what a child does, not a potential suitor
Oh my, that's exactly what all women do. That's my definition of worthless. They want stuff from men, but men never ask anything from women. They are worthless as people, they just have value as vaginas.
No.114162
>pls respond
Poor OP, doesn't realize she's already moved him to the undateable category.
Are you on the autism spectrum too OP? I am.
No.114163
>>113972
>but the woman can act like a child all she wants
Spotted the beta cuckold.
No.114165
>>114162
>Are you on the autism spectrum too OP?
i hope to god that's a rhetorical question.
No.114166
>>114084
You know what it means. Every person on the planet is insecure in some way or another, they just learn to hide it or mask it with something else.
One way of dealing with their own insecurities is to make fun of or shit on other people for their insecurities. Welcome to human nature 101, we still animals n sheeiit, barely outta da jungle mothafuka.
No.114169
>>114165
Are you OP? Have you considered the possibility you may have a form of autism?
No.114170
>>114169
yes i'm OP
what i meant is that i thought my autism was blatantly self-evident
No.114172
>>114170
Depends on your severity and circumstances.
>>114170
Maybe take some online screening test and bring back your results here.
I'll get you started, fam.
http://www.aspietests.org/raads/
http://www.rdos.net/eng/Aspie-quiz.php
No.114174
>>114172
i was professionally diagnosed with spergs in elementary school
No.114175
>>114174
So you ARE a sperg???
No.114178
>>114175
>So you ARE a sperg???
what the fuck did i just say
No.114187
>>114170
>>114178
My bad. Failed to read that first post correctly.
No.114188
>>114178
>>114187
All that being said, enjoy being single or cuck'd the rest of your life. The odds are stacked high enough against "normal" males, autist like us have no chance unless we get decent jobs and willingly become cuckold beta providers.
No.114191
>>114188
i came to that same realization a while back and i've given up on dating entirely. i wish i was delusional enough to have a waifu.
No.114194
>>114191
I dunno man but fuck waifu shit, totally pointless and nonsensical. Just find a way to earn decent money and flash your cash to women and they'll jump on your dick. It worked for me.
No.114195
>>114188
Either that or we man up a little bit more, become dicks, and use bitches for sex ie my 20's
No.114202
>>113933
>immediately makes some excuse about not having a phone or not knowing when they are free
was never gonna happen, "hello hola" was just nails in the coffin, sure those messages were months apart, but they're still right next to each other with no reply
No.114204
>>114195
>become dicks
Son, you do realize we're autist right? I don't know how far into the spectrum you are but I can only disguise/hide so much of my behavior and symptoms.
No.114334
>>114204
>son
I'm 30.
Just be a rebound for some fat emo bitches, if you're older you can bullshit and it's 60/40
No.114367
OP here. so there's been a new development.
i posted that image on a facebook page so people could have a laugh at my expense. i honestly didn't think she would ever see it because i never see her doing anything on facebook nowadays so i just assumed she doesn't use it anymore, but now she's talking to me. i'm pretty sure the only reason is because she saw it and feels bad.
i don't know what to do other than just keep humoring her and continuing with her pity conversation. she's asking me about welding because i posted about a destructive test that i passed today at school.
if i just say "i know you don't actually give a shit about getting to know me and are only talking to me because you feel bad for me" but i'll sound like an asshole. this is actually making me feel worse than the original events.
i didn't intend for this to happen. what should i do r9k?
No.114370
>>114367
"listen, sorry about that whole image thing.. It's cool if u don't wanna talk, I got other friends lol"
so yeah lie
No.114376
>>114367
>i'm pretty sure the only reason is because she saw it and feels bad.
Once again you are wrong. She doesn't care about you, but she cares about other people thinking she's an asshole because she won't answer your messages.
That's why she talks to you, she cares about other people (specially Chads) thinking that she's a whore (she is) that was just laughing at your expenses.
Now if you get somewhere with here what you must avoid at all cost is mention the word pity, don't even dare to say it. And no, don't even feel bad, SHE'S a whore, get that in your fucking brain, she's a bitch that sucks Chads dicks everyday and was only checking on you to see if you could be another Chad, you weren't so she forgot about you.
If you want to have any minimal chance to fuck her pussy be clear and concise, say something among the lines "I'm gona do X this Y day, you can come if you want" and if she goes just fucking fuck her, if she doesn't (that she probably won't) it will only confirm that she's just saving face in front of her facebook (sex) friends.
Treat her like shit, and she will love you. Yeah that's how women work. Grow up.
No.114384
>>114376
this doesn't even make sense.
ignoring you insisting that she's a whore (because there's no reason to assume that) how would her sending a few private messages to me affect anyone's opinion of her but mine? its not like this shit is getting posted publicly in her social circle.
she literally has nothing to gain from this, aside from trying to make me feel better, which arguably isn't even a thing to gain.
No.114395
i finally said "fuck it" and this happened
me- "are you only talking to me because of that self-deprecating thing i posted on that page?"
her- "No?:.. My boyfriend and I are working on a car and I need a couple pieces that need to be welded and maybe a piece or two fabricated"
tune in to see me an hero
https://www.twitch.tv/smemmy/profile
No.114417
>>114384
Not very bright, are you? She saw you posting that picture in facebook, and now probably thinks that more people is seeing that picture and thinking "woah, that girl is an asshole, the guy was asking all nicely a few things and now she's ignoring him". Have you never seen pictures in "private facebooks" leaking and going all viral in the internet? Facebook is not private, is not "closed to circles", thinking that is stupid.
If she starts talking with you then you will stop posting things like that in facebook, and you will stop being a threat to her whore life and feelings. Heck she may even be thinking that behind her back you are just saying shitty things about herself for ignoring you. For women the most important things are appearances, how they look to the world, and you are somehow breaking that. Get a clue.
The only other option is she may need something else as you mention in >>114395 and that's why she's using you. In any case you are even less than 0 to her right now, and you still can't see it. Still women lie all the time about everything so don't believe a shit she tells you.
No.114447
>>114395
This should be self-evident at this point, but don't do anything for her.
No.114448
>>114447
i couldn't anyway. i moved to a different state
No.114456
Anyway, if you're a legit sperg (as am I) I would heartily recommend that you disregard bitches.
Normalfags have enough trouble with them, but we're naïve and easily manipulated, and that attracts the worst kind of girl (namely, cluster Bs).
You'll never be anything more than an attention dispenser.
No.114495
>>114456
Buh…buh…but anon-kun I still want to cuddle ;_;
No.114518
>>114376
Yep this poster is correct.
If the anon wants to date the suddenly-interested girl, he should have a fun thing he already plans to do and then tell her she is welcome to come along if she wants.
The problem is that it doesn't sound like he does fun things for him. Some people like seeing shows, or events, or games, some people like "going downtown," or taking trips, whereas I like nature and outdoor activities. The problem with this cucked generation raised by feminists is that they were never allowed to do what THEY wanted, so they have no idea what that is.
No.115489
>>113933
I think we just found a specimen.
No.115493
>>113995
Your advice is to sound for the person he is going for. For her to actually have him added, for her to actually reply to the first message with agreeance means she's not looking for some alpha stereotypical chad. Your advice would work with stacy. But who the fuck wants a stacy as a robot. It's why we chose to be robots
No.116044
>>113972
> implying women aren't worthless clingy children themselves who've been served dick on a gold platter since they entered puberty
No.116048
>>113995
Thank you professor women, it really helps having someone translate plain, normal, human text to bitch language.
No.116050
>>113933
a lot of beta things in this chat OP
saying "really?" and then proceeding to be shocked that it worked (like youve never been blunt to a girl before, even tho this is exactly what they want). screams inexperience.
you also asked her what she wants to do. your the man, your the plan.
No.116061
what do the numbers mean?
No.116064
i'm probably just bad at talking to people
No.117510
>no brownies
>no cocoa
no wonder you didn't make it to the friendzone
No.117543
>>113933
That's not Original Content, moron. It's just a screencap.
You have to actually CREATE some content before you can call it– well anything, really.
Communicate correctly or don't communicate at all.
No.117556
>>113968
>i don't like to impose on women
why are women special?
maybe it's just because i'm a massive faggot, but i don't want to impose on ANYONE, even when I'm threatening them I don't want to be imposing or scary, just make them see that rationally i have the best hand and i'm making them a benevolent offer because i could fuck them up if i really wanted to (i'm still a faggot, the only time this ever happens is in online games, and usually i'm just the negotiating monkey for someone stronger, but still.)
the only difference in how i act to men or women is that i'm suspicious women might think i want to fuck them (i don't) or suspicious that their behaviour has a different motive to a man's that'll come out of nowhere. essentially, the only ways i treat women differently are those that are a reaction to how others treat women differently.
>>113976
both men and women did this to me, i don't see how it's a symptom of a feminized society. (if anything i'd have done worse in past generations where my faggotry would be even less appreciated.)
if anything i'd say the problem isn't a feminized society, but a sexualized one. men would be in a much better position to spurn feminists if they'd stop thinking their cocks need a flesh-hole and just bought a fleshlight (or made peace with their hand.) and women would be in a much better position to respect as equals if they stopped taking the easy route of selling themselves as fuckholes.
No.117573
>>116064
level 2 severity ASD sperg here.
my score was 192. you might be a lvl 1 sperg.
No.117575
>>114395
>I need a couple pieces that need to be welded and maybe a piece or two fabricated
I want to tell myself that people like >>114376 are wrong and that normies aren't predictable automatons but human beings, but jesus fucking christ.
How much did the "…" cut out? Did you take that line verbatim, or did she at least make a token effort to go "No… I want to talk to you, I'm sorry, blah blah blah, fix my boyfriend's car."
At this point I'm starting to think my "idealistic" view of normies is just a defence mechanism so that i don't have to realize that normies *are* predictable and I'm just too dumb to predict them.
Sorry, Anon.
No.117580
>>113933
Why the fuck are you trying to be friends with a FAT CHICK?
No.117599
>>114376
>Treat her like shit, and she will love you. Yeah that's how women work. Grow up.
As Tom Leykis (a man you all need to make your personal Jesus) says:
>Nothing makes a woman hotter than when I put her on ice.
And
>Treat women like crap and they'll come back for more.
No.117621
>>113933
>really?
>well awesome. i didn't think being blunt would work that well
This is where you fucked up. Don't show off your insecurities.
No.117631
>>113995
Take this with a grain of salt, and don't analyze it that closely.
The fact that conversations need to be fleshed out instead of you getting the intuition of how it's 'flowing', even if it's going badly, is a bad sign.
Signing off, can't stay in this board.
No.117634
>>117580
Hey buddy, everyone's gotta start somewhere.