>He comes back after a few days
>starts up shit with me in a PM
>just flat out fucking lies about me, and starts complaining about shit that I never said or did
>compares me to some bitch coworker he has
>I ask if everything is okay, since this isn't like him.
>Refuses to budge, just has a sort of "fuck you" child tantrum attitude.
>Explain how he should know by now that I have crippling social anxiety, and anything beyond a text chat drains me rapidly
>"Yeah but you could still stop by occassionally."
>explain how I could I don't want to, and proceed to ask why my opinion on it doesn't count.
>says the same thing again
>start fucking losing it and just "going into the blackbox" of shit I lock away in my brain. Explaining all the self hatred and general issues I have.
>go on a small tirade just pouring my fucking heart out.
>just says I should do it because "were frens :^)"
>repeat, this time with gusto, that I don't want to, the back and forth continues for a little
>get tired of this, say in the main chat that he's back and messaging me
>niggaboo says he got sent an ASCII middle finger
>different unmentioned yet friend says "maybe he's upset about the money he spent."
>Go back to PMs, ask if this is true
>"A little bit"
>at this point he'd wasted nearly three hours of my time dragging me along with this shit, taking forever to reply and never doing anything but repeating his points.
>Go fucking HAM on him since I'm actually legit furious at this guy for being such a whiney little bitch.
>Literally every single point I had been half heartedly suspecting he'd been doing was just proven true. He really had been singling me and the niggaboo out because we're online the most. He really had been lying about me to try and shame me into joining this shit. He really had been using the other guys who stream but don't complain to me that I don't join as a shield to prop up against criticism.
>Everyone in the main chat just moves on and starts talking like normal again
>Just bewildered that everyone is just ignoring this shit, pretending nothing happened.
>message him back the next day that I'm fine with moving on, but you don't just get mad, leave, come back, try to start shit with someone for something that you did, and then just get to drop it the instant the person you're accusing figures it all out.
>Radio Silence.
Yes I'm fucking mad at him, but it's not like when an autist gets trolled or other pointless internet bullshit. This was one guy I've known for years now having a fucking tantrum at one of the most benign statements I've ever made at him in the least confrontational way possible, wasting 3 hours of my life, and then everyone pretending that it never happened. You know what kind of message just dropping shit like that when you've fucked with someone sends? That they don't matter one god damned bit to you.