/r9k/ - ROBOT∞

I dunno dude just find some common ground or some bullshit to talk about/do.

I know parents talk about stupid shit and ask dumb questions, but that's how you sound whenever you try to talk to a girl, think about it.

Make an effort with them and things will get better

Are you honest with your dad? If not, well then what the fuck?

Have you talked about your position in life, where you'll be after he's gone, etc? Talking about this with some random fucks on the internet isn't gonna help.

If you want to get closer to your dad just spend more free time with him. You don't even have to put much effort into it, ask if he's up for some hiking or something.

>>96884

I am like this with my family, and I'm the same as you except 24. I'm friendless too, so this is the only IRL human interaction I ever have.

Feels lonely man.

>>96884

Khhv?

>>96892

Not OP, but it means kissless, hugless, handholdless, virgin.

>finals coming up

>neet

I dont think you know what that means.

>>96904

maybe you're a closet tranny

>>96904

You mentioned how you were looking into canvas fingerprinting in web browsers, but said you weren't doing anything.

Try to be more open with your parents, I get that it sucks having leftist retards regarding politics for parents since I do too, but you'd be surprised how much people will listen to you talk about.

The fastest way I got my Mom to stop bugging me every day about "doing nothing" was beginning to explain in agonizing detail all boring the shit I'd done on the computer that day (barring NSFW stuff).

Neither of them ask me about it anymore.

He wouldn't have checked up on you if he didn't care and want to help somehow.

His problem at the moment is that he doesn't know how.

>>96904

maybe I'll write a thought-out response later but:

OP is always a faggot, sorry.

I understand the faking interactions shit, it's just a means to an end and I do it too, feeling nothing for the plebs. At least try to mean it with your family or lie your ass off if you have you because if your family cares then you'd probably make them happy, cause they probably feel like shit you're always this way and maybe you could let them know you appreciate them, even if you don't feel it 24/7.

I guess this turned into a thought-out response.

I, too love trannys

>>96909

>said the expert on relationshit

they'll be dead faster than you know. might as well fake it and try once, so you have at least one memory of interacting with them.

>>96884

evoking the feeling of sadness anon, your pretty good at it.

My dad is sadly worse off than I am, but mentally we're just so far apart, he still has optimism for me and believes that if I jus bee myself everything will turn out okay. This is why I don't see him often.

Ironically my SJW mother understands me a whole lot better, we bump heads a lot but if I mention something that she can't relate too at least she'll admit that she can't relate and try to make things better other than be useless.

Cousins are all Chads (other than the girls) except for one who I suspect is a robot in the making.

>>96988

You need to make mistakes to gain experience in anything and who else can you be other than yourself? As hard as you try to mask it, your real personality always shows

>try to talk about my father about things that bother me

>it's just because you hate us right, you feel like you are too good for us?

He's sort of a robot, always bitches about normies while being a petty asshole himself.

>>96884

Heh, that was basically me and my dad before I moved out. Now I almost never talk to him except when I turn my phone on about once a week.

Feels bad to think about it. He beat my ass for getting Cs when I was fourth grade, divorced my mom after getting cucked, mellowed out for my teen years, and as of late he got engaged to and brainwashed by some leftist feminist fedora-tipping cunt. All in all it's just hard to talk to him.

>>96884

>My dad comes in my room and talks to me

At least you have a dad. Mine was a total chad who barely even acknowledged me until he died off. Be grateful you have one. While you might think he doesn't care about you or what you do, you have to put yourself in his shoes; he works all day and comes home only to find his son shut closed in his room. He might think you don't care about him.

Just go in the backyard and throw a ball, man, socializing doesn't have to be hard. Play a board game or have a coffee. You do not know how lucky you are OP.

>tranny porn

Glad that I'm just a weirdo who wants to fuck monster girls.

That said, I could be more open about myself as well. But 90% of my conversations now are about computers, and it's gotten worse since Windows 10 came out. We tried Linux so my family could stop bugging me but it only works for one family member really. It makes me wish my family would just get Macs or a gaming system so I would spend less time troubleshooting random shit. Never have to worry about Linux or BSD based systems.

>>96884

>dad comes in my room, sits down on the bed

>"what's up?" he asks

>"nothing"

>silence

>"so how were your finals?"

>tfw he just wanted to talk

holy fuck.

>I love you anon

>ok mom

>>103588

>wasted Hitler dubs

>Dad comes into my room

>Hands me a beer

>I force a smile and say thanks

>Ask him about the beer pretending I'm not familiar with the beverage, "how strong is this? 7%, nice." etc

>He sits down on my bed

>Doesn't say anything

>Just staring at my PC screen

>I pull up YT and desperately try to think of good car vids to look up so I can discuss them with him

>Find some japs racing around in tuned cars

>I comment on the sound and performance of the vehicles, "Look how fast that x car is, these japs are crazy about their cars…"

>No response, he's still sitting there in the same position

>Increasing levels of awkwardness

>Click a related vid

>Car crash compilation

>Watch like two full minutes of it before he says anything

>Cars crashing and flipping and shit

>"oooh wow"

>Doesn't follow up on it with any other comment

>For literally like 25 minutes we just sit there in silence without moving watching random videos after I give up trying to get a car conversation going

>Eventually turn and glance at him for a split second

>He's not even watching the video, looking down at his phone instead

>Eventually gets up and leaves when my mom calls for him for something

>Just sit there numb and wondering to myself why I haven't got a job and still live here with these people

He knows cars to some extent, I figure that's a good thing to discuss. He could just go "wew how much horsepower does that make?", and that would allow me to go on a 5 minute explanation of how forced induction works or the power capabilities of x engine.

But instead I literally have to give it all and sit there awkwardly trying to think of how to diffuse the situation.

every encounter I've had with family members has been negative, except my brother who I live with.

>>103760

>tfw cry at the thought of my dad dying.

I honestly don't know what I'll do when he is dead.

Who /compeltay drink / here? Im lying in my bed and im fugginndrunk

>>103840

Barely any idea what you're asking, but here goes..

I hate spending time with my parents - even if I live at home. I have nothing in common with them, and I was pretty muich raised on television since they both worked when growing up.

I have no connection to them, they are people in the house - owners, infact. But other then that, I feel nothing to them.

My father? some pathetic loser who lost his job a few years before retirement, who desperately seeks something to do and is pretty much me 40 years in the future.

My mother? Some cunt who is pretty much an entitled child with a (good paying) job. It's impossible to communicate with her, since everything is either about how she is right, or how we must respect her feelings if she happens to not be right.

If my parents were to die, I would wake up tomorrow feeling as today more or less.

>>96884

The fact that your dad (and my dad) see our disinterest and frustration and don't ask us about it, is proof that no real relationship exists.

Early on when you were a kid, you probably were very up-front about things that excited you or bothered you, and idk what happened with your dad but he was probably either aggressive or neglectful in regards to your thoughts and feelings.

I know because I can see it in what you typed.

>>96885

Except after 25 years of being around the people that gave BIRTH TO YOU, you should feel comfortable talking to them.

>>96904

>my life is a living lie. I'm not honest with anyone in the world.

Same here.

I usually don't tell much of what I do because most of the time, my parents either wouldn't understand (if I say what I do in class), or ask weird questions and have weird assumptions (especially my mom), and I have to explain everything and it's just painful.

>>103963

how about just stop being a pussy

you do all this shit, stupid shit you hate, why

to fit in? you're posting on this website, don't kid yourself

imagine how much better people's lives would be if they just lived

not worry about bullshit and conformity

but you be dead soon enough and after that i suppose it really never mattered

>>104006

I want children too, but we aren't meant for it

Find a surrogate mother

>>103970

Sounds like a cool guy.

There's a language barrier between us since I can barely speak the mother tongue; only really able to communicate the mundane with them. I'd like to speak English but they've gone their entire time in this country without even bothering to learn it, relying on me to translate/interpret for them, so that's out of the question.

It's just one of many reasons why I feel so disconnected from them, as there was really nothing they could help me with in this country. Growing up certainly felt lonely.

>>103970

>Of course he also had to give me a primer on who Stephen Hawking is, because naturally I'd be too retarded to know of such an 'obscure' figure

I think this is just a dad thing, honestly. Mine does the same shit, explains extremely simple concepts to me as if I were still a child. I went on a health kick for around a year not too long ago and a year later he's trying to explain basic nutrition to me again like I don't understand it. I always just brushed it off as him being desperate for conversation since we don't connect at all and he can never stay silent around people.

It's always awkward when your parents go into your room. Just go out of your room and it'll be a lot easier to talk to them because they aren't looking around the place you sit in all day and silently judging you. At least that's how I feel.

>>108093

>family applies for the job for me

that's how i got my first job i had for 3 years

i have to arrange an interveiw tommorow wew cash i can killmyself with

google things to talk about with people

it can be fun. I try to ask for stories from youth, or test out weird ideas, or try to get ideas to better myself

I just stare blankly at anyone who talks to me without proper reason unless I find the topic amusing. I just don't feel awkward, instead I just feel shame for not having anything to talk about when someone really tries to connect with me. Just stare indifferently.

i've tried to connect with them on topics that concern me

"oh you're just being paranoid"

"there's not much we can do about that"

"blah blah blah we're not gonna change for you"

so yeah i tried, at least it's alleviated most of the shame of still living with them. i guess i can settle for that.

>>96904

>fapping to trannies and probably does even worse things

>wonders why he has those indifferent views towards everything

why does it have to be our responsibility to talk to our parents?

so it's completely my fault that I didn't form a strong bond with them when I had no idea it was important?

>>112965

Yep, the joy of being in our situation is that we're to blame for it too.

I mean, didn't you raise yourself properly growing up? If you are so smart, why didn't you see what you should've been doing then :^^^^^^^^^^)

My dad is pretty great. We talk all the time about his motorcycle or my hobbies and he is a very nice guy.

My mom treats him like shit because he is sorta beta and my conversations with her are like your conversations with you dad. She says she cares about me and is interested, but every time I talk to her she doesn't pay attention and starts staring at her phone. She complains I never spend time with her but every time I'm there she doesn't want to do anything with me and she goes out wasting my dads money on fast food, hair appointments, and visiting other guys.

My dad isn't the smartest or most alpha guy around, but at least he cares. My mom never asks anything about me until her friends are around so she can act proud in front of them or berate me in front of them.

>>113021

>and visiting other guys.

Oh, poor guy.

>>112657

>she was like that because she was worried you would lower her social status if you died

>you seriously think she gives a fuck

:(