66b1af No.281
How does /sad/ cope with hopelessness? With loneliness? With the thought that you're not good enough, or attractive enough for a partner? With seeing people better than you succeeding in life?
I really can't cope much longer. All I do is sleep, and vidya
66d1d8 No.282
Lately I've been funneling all of my bad feelings into work. It works, until I stop working. Late at night when I'm still up, like now, it ends up hitting me like a truck. I wish I had fulltime at work so I could take doubleshifts and not have to think about how much I hate myself.
e1cbea No.286
Smoke. All i do is smoke.
It helps
13c062 No.298
I don't.
e68be6 No.307
Memento mori anon. It's the only comfort I have.
910767 No.308
I make music to try and forget about things. It only works well when it's good, most of the time I end up making something that might sound good to others, but I always am constantly doubting myself/ hating everything I make, which makes me even more depressed. Occasionally I will be proud of something. But the feeling doesn't last long enough, I need a new outlet, any ideas?
b28e9a No.311
>>308>I need a new outlet, any ideas?Do you read much? I know it may sound weird since it's not something "to be proud of", but with reading, you an use massive amounts of time, you can learn a ton of shit (some of which can impress females, or so I've heard) and can give you a sense of accomplishment once you finish each book.
910767 No.312
>>311I read very rarely and was thinking about getting more books and reading on a regular basis. Might give it a try, thanks for the advice.
698220 No.331
>>281Nothing works anymore for me either OP.
825cb4 No.343
How do I cope?
>trap Porn
>whisky
>vidya
>the few friends I have
>sleeping till 3pm
I really need to get a job again. Too bad I'm worthless.
b1523c No.345
OP Here.
Had to clear my phone of pr0nz and junk so that my younger sibling could use it in high school. And I came up to the text messages which were stored on the internal SD Card.. Here's a green text, sorry for potential miss formatting etc.
>be 18
>finally have felt confident over the years to develop feelings for a girl
>in my eyes she's perfect.
>10/10
>lives 5-6 hours away
>one of my friends is best friends with her and plan to do a whole meetup thing for me and her
>feelsgoodman.psd
>we text constantly
>she rings me 3:03am every morning
>she has a tired and soft voice, confesses her love to me over and over, night after night
>friend who is bestfriends with her tells me that she loves me
>we have plans to meet up regularly
>set dates in advance so that we can spend time together
>weeks go past, everything is perfect
>not dating, but very close.
>get more hours for work
>money rolls in
>notices she texts less and less
>i'm tired, and I don't get phone calls anymore from her
>she never picks up my phone calls
>on the train home from a gig one night
>11pm
>receive text message from her
>"Hey anon, i just hooked up with a few people, i probably just ruined you're night, or year ahhaah"
>pain sorta set in and froze for a second
>didn't cry
>just sat down on the train and fell to the next chair to my right
>days pass
>weeks pass
>find out she pushed me away intentionally because it was easier for her to cope
>lose friendship with initial friend who introduced us
>lose hope in studies
>drop out of uni
>vicious cycle of sleep, minimal work, fap, thinking
>severed all connections between her
>find later down the track she has a boyfriend months after this happening
>be 19
>wipe phone for sibling's use
>come across texts
>weep
What the fuck did I do? I saved all the texts we had together and I jitter and throw my phone looking at all the lies she said and I fell for.
66d1d8 No.348
>>345>she pushed me away intentionally because it was easier for her to copeYeah… nah
She's a whore
9b2870 No.349
>>345>"Hey anon, i just hooked up with a few people, i probably just ruined you're night, or year ahhaah"When I'm in charge, she gets the gas.
09caa8 No.350
>>348>>349I was so angry, like as if she had to make a dumb fucking excuse to ditch me.
She might be a whore, but I didn't know that at the time. I don't think any guy knows that.
66d1d8 No.354
>>350Hindsight is always 20/20 m8. Just don't let that bitch ruin future relationships you might have
66d1d8 No.356
>>354oh yeah and also
Never get back together with her. You may really want to and you may think she's changed but if you want to prevent it from happening again you
will not get back together with her. Getting back together with her would tell her that she can do it again with no consequences, but the reality is that she is a no good whore and she does not deserve to be in a relationship with you.
09caa8 No.357
>>356I'm not dumb enough to get back with someone like that. She lives half a days drive from where I live.
But damn, she made me feel like I was something important
f6f60b No.403
>>345How do I cope OP?
I COPE WITH ANGER.
e587c5 No.509
>>356>Getting back together with her would tell her that she can do it again with no consequencesGenerally spoken, that's a sad thing.. You can't teach the other one a lesson and make them take you seriously
and forgive and go on with the relationship after cheating happened.
Even if they are truly sorry and it didn't mean anything to them. They should've thought before doing that.
It makes me so fucking sad, why do people have to be this way?
>mfw I still love my ex so much I was considering I should endure being somewhat cucked.. 66d1d8 No.511
>>509Don't
Believe me man, you deserve better.
e587c5 No.513
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>>511I'm not OP and ex actually did nothing wrong.
Sometimes I just begin to think that it's my fault and that I shouldn't be so complicated..
I guess one can never really overcome mental issues even if life changes for the better
66d1d8 No.514
>>513I know you're not OP, we have IDs here. >ex actually did nothing wrong.
Didn't you
just say you were cheated on?
e587c5 No.517
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>>514I said
>somewhat**well
she chatted with others, being really sweet to them while neglecting me
and lying to me every time he felt he had to
sighhe told me he's tired and doesn't want to talk to anyone, getting angry at me for worrying about him
and while he told me he has no time because he's at work, he recorded something for a girl where he sang for her
and while he told me his camera broke, he sent a selfie
it was a really tough time for me
so yeah, actually did nothing wrong
and every time he made me feel like it's my fault that he feels shit
all I wanted was/is that he's happy**
e587c5 No.518
66d1d8 No.519
>>517other than the freudian slips (silly homo) it sounds like he is more to blame.
e587c5 No.520
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>>519Thanks.
What I've learned is that humans will always be humans, no matter what they tell you, no matter what their values are. In the end feelings come and go, people come and go. Nothing is guaranteed in life.
why bother
66d1d8 No.521
>>520Well congrats on figuring out how leftism is impossible at least.