I don't want to let anyone close to me because I'm afraid that I will hurt them, but I really want someone close to me that I can talk to and hold onto me and make everything feel better....why haven't I found a girl yet?

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Anonymous 09/24/14 (Wed) 01:48:55 bae659 No.42

I don't want to let anyone close to me because I'm afraid that I will hurt them, but I really want someone close to me that I can talk to and hold onto me and make everything feel better….why haven't I found a girl yet?

Anonymous 09/24/14 (Wed) 02:11:48 a06bf2 No.43

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Why are you afraid that you'll hurt them, OP? And if you could, give some more background info on yourself; let's see what we can dig up that may be contributing to this.

Anonymous 09/24/14 (Wed) 02:24:07 bae659 No.44

>>43
Because I drink and I'm mad at myself and I hate myself. I hate everything about me. And I just want to hide that hate from everyone thus not wanting to let anyone inside because they'll see that and think I'm a freak

Anonymous 09/24/14 (Wed) 02:26:44 bae659 No.45

>>43
I'm an 18 yearold community college student and I've never had a girlfriend because I went to a school, for a majority of the time that had very few girls and the of those girls they were all stuck up.

Anonymous 09/24/14 (Wed) 04:36:17 aa1eb4 No.46

>>44
Why do you consider yourself a freak?
>>45
Do you have any friends? Do you go places outside of school? Honestly, a girlfriend can be nice, but right now, let's focus on you first.

Anonymous 09/24/14 (Wed) 05:02:33 81ef7e No.47

>>46
I have no one I can turn to. I'm a fucking freak I don't belong. I don't know why I just don't. I have one friend and I can never turn to them for anything because then I would lose them

Anonymous 09/24/14 (Wed) 05:34:00 81ef7e No.48

>>46

I have to drink or I start remembering things. Bad things. Sad things. Things I can't talk about. Things no one would understand. Things I can't even remember but at the same time tear me apart inside. Why can't anyone see I'm hurt and just care…for once. Why doesn't anyone care. Why can't I have a friend who says they'll be there for me until the very end and then follow through instead of just flaking out after a few months. I didn't tell them everything at once. Oh god I'm a monster

Anonymous 09/24/14 (Wed) 06:53:35 aa1eb4 No.49

>>47
Why do you think you're a freak? It's completely normal to feel like you don't belong; everyone has that feeling at some point - fortunately, there is a group of people out there for everyone - sometimes it just takes longer to find them.

How come you don't feel that you can turn to your friend for help? Why do you think that you'll lose them?

>>48
I know that it's hard to talk about things, but just remember that at least here, you're anonymous - if you think you'd like to try to let some stuff out, you've got an audience that will listen.

Have you thought about talking to someone like a councilor at your school?

Anonymous 09/24/14 (Wed) 06:57:02 81ef7e No.50

>>49
Because that's what happens when I lean on people. Even a little bit.

The councilors don't care. They give up on me and understand that because I'd give up on me too

Anonymous 09/24/14 (Wed) 07:44:43 aa1eb4 No.51

>>50
Can you please give some more details? It's difficult to help without some more pieces to go off of.