/sad/ - Depressed

Remove as much shit as possible of her out your life. Any messages or pictures remove it all. Only thing you can do.

>>793

I agree with this except for this part:

>"Only thing you can do."

This is untrue. You need to improve yourself, OP. Part of why people take breakups so hard is because it's kind of a reflection on them and where they are in life. Feeling bad about your looks? Here's the perfect time to hit the gym like a god damn animal. Feeling like you're not going to be able to get another chick? Hit the gym, learn an instrument, etc. - they'll both distract you from her and it'll give you some more confidence. Do you best not to sit around; the more you're stagnant physically, the harder it will be to move on from her because she'll always find a way to creep into your mind. I'm not just saying "lol get over it, faggot", but trust me from experience: if she wanted to be with you, you wouldn't have been here writing that post - you'd be with her right now. All you really can do is make things better for YOU or sit around letting her affect you.

>>794

I don't think I'm insecure about myself or something, I'm just scared that I'll never meet someone as great as her. She also was the only one who I could talk with about how I felt and stuff, I don't have any real friends and my parents are assholes. But thanks for the advice, I'll try that.

You ain't alone. I'd still do anything for my ex, it's been about 3 months since she dumped me too. Now I'm being told she's dating a good friend of mine. Tonight I went on my old account just to look at her messages. The anon who said to remove everything of her from your life is right. It's how I've avoided feeding myself a lead slug these past months, but tonight I fucked up hard reading those old messages from when we were still together. I didn't realize looking back would hurt this much…

>>801

Yeah, I read our messages from time to time too. It feels horrible but I just can't stop, sometimes I actually smile when I read something sweet she wrote back then, it makes me feel happy for a couple of seconds.

>>801

You'll stop doing that eventually, Anon. I used to do it on Facebook occasionally for about a year. Then I blocked her so that I'd never have to look at her and I haven't looked at our conversations now in a loooooong time.

>>801

I was the one who told you not to. It's hypocritical of me because I still do the same. It makes me want to cry but I lost the ability to do that a long time ago.

I had a relationship for like a few weeks over a year ago and I'm still not over it.