>>3245
Most of the time just pay attention to electron density. Which atom has decreased, which atom has increased electron density, either because of bond resonance or because of electronegativity differences. A large portion of organic reactions is when an atom with increased electron density (a nucleophile) bonds with an atom of decreased electron density (an electrophile) of another (or sometimes inside the same) molecule.
Also, whenever you have the reaction partially done (in intermediate stage), think if there's any possible bond rearrangement. Is there a π-bond adjacent to a p-bound pair, and if you can shift the two pairs.
This might help you memorise some stuff, understanding what's behind the process.