100 results in /kind/ - Random Acts of Kindness Friend 03/24/16 (Thu) 11:53:34 No. 28847
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Friend 03/24/16 (Thu) 10:05:10 No. 28845
I've been slowly adapting to the fact that I'll spend the rest of my days alone, so I've been also cutting down on the lewd stuff, as little of it as there was.
I've spent enough of my life as a hopeless dreamer. About time I faced reality, as tough as it might be.
Friend 03/24/16 (Thu) 09:13:11 No. 28844
>>28829
Going to check out the SS13 server and see what's up.
I need more Momiji in my life.
Friend 03/24/16 (Thu) 09:10:39 No. 28843
>>28816
>keeping logs
NSA please go, I just want to talk shit with people without needing to filter what I say for fear of getting nabbed by secret police.
Friend 03/24/16 (Thu) 08:47:07 No. 28842
My urge to cuddle is low lately. I feel like I could cuddle anytime, but I dont experience the strong desire to cuddle like I used to. I havent fantasized about lewd ear whispering in months. I didnt read any romantic books lately either. I dont think I am in the mood for lewd discussion OP
Friend 03/24/16 (Thu) 07:55:41 No. 28840
I have a bad case of chronic daydreaming, how do I get rid of it?
Friend 03/24/16 (Thu) 07:46:15 No. 28838
>>28737
>They might just go away
That won't happen, like any addict enabling the addiction only makes the addicts cravings harder. That said I wouldnt mind them on a slow board like this, they might spark interesting discussion in their efforts to be noticed.
Friend 03/24/16 (Thu) 07:35:59 No. 28837
Friend 03/24/16 (Thu) 07:00:06 No. 28836
What do you want to know, friend?
Let's talk about lewd stuff. Friend 03/24/16 (Thu) 06:37:47 No. 28835 [Reply]
I wanna talk about lewd stuff.
Friend 03/24/16 (Thu) 06:33:53 No. 28834
>>28832
'Tis the nightingale Romeo.~
Friend 03/24/16 (Thu) 06:29:24 No. 28833
>>28618
Well slap my titties and call me Henry.
I can't say I don't know how she feels (though as a dude and the other way around) but I also understand the betrayal. It's tough though, how does someone like that even find people to love them without trying to put up false pretenses or just being afraid to admit it? The dating game's already tough (or so I empathize despite being a forever alone virgin) with people of the most common compatabilities. It's not just a matter of having interests or attitudes often associated to a gender though, the whole bag can be pretty screwey despite common patterns. I will say though if I ever netted a great girlfriend I'd sure not want to scare her off by suddenly saying I wanted to be called Erica or something.
Friend 03/24/16 (Thu) 05:53:55 No. 28832
>sound
Birds singing at midnight and revving engines.
>taste
Chocolate and cheesecake.
>smell
The fresh smell of wet grass after raining.
>colour
Black or dark blue.
>texture
Never thought about it. I like when my cat rubs his face on my feet.
Friend 03/24/16 (Thu) 03:06:50 No. 28831
>>28813
Well I don't know how to get in touch with you, so that's a problem.
Friend 03/24/16 (Thu) 02:36:11 No. 28830
>sound
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vlcieFSFhZI
>taste
lemon
>smell
blueberry muffins
>colour
teal
>texture
wooden floor or brick wall
Friend 03/24/16 (Thu) 01:38:20 No. 28829
>>28824
byond://68.184.37.81:420 for the /kind/ SS13 server.
Friend 03/24/16 (Thu) 01:35:55 No. 28828
YouTube embed. Click thumbnail to play. Is it okay if I shill a charity fundraiser here?
So the Amazing Guy-Who-Put-A-Banana-In-His-Butt-That-One-Time started a fundraiser in response to a prominent pseudofeminist e-begger to show that we can donate money to help third-world women who need it, instead of first-world ideologues.
It's raising money for the International Women's Health Coalition, and it's currently at almost $80,000! It's even raised more money than the pseudofeminist crowdfunding campaign it's responding to! So if you want to help women in third-world countries, or just want to see first-world feminists humiliated further, it's definitely worth donating to.
https://www.crowdrise.com/extraordinary-people-daring-to-actually-help-women-
Friend 03/24/16 (Thu) 00:56:45 No. 28826
>>28824
Neat. It'd be fun trying to learn that game with /kind/. I'll play when I wake up.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 23:59:27 No. 28825
>>28821
Danke schoen friend.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 23:48:52 No. 28824
-OP again still cleaning but I looked into it a bit and it's pretty easy to set up so I got the SS13 server compiling now should be ready once everything is clean~
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 23:48:35 No. 28823
>>28777
Nice trips friend. Been there already so i don't make the same mistake again.
>>28776
Work hard and earn your own money. You'll be happier and more content that way. Also I don't have $ to give away.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 23:44:39 No. 28822
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>>28814
OP here I'm a bit busy cleaning my apartment atm but once I'm done with that and other stuff and find out what space station 13 is I'll try to set that up~
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 23:26:20 No. 28821
>>28818
>that fucker has turned into a stronger, better, more confident, more "normal" person than me
I hate to see friends with a bit of a low opinion of themselves. You seem like a smart person! I hope you can be more confident, friend.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 22:54:26 No. 28820
>>28729
>the smell answer
That's a close second for me, friend!
inb4 stop shilling the gay agenda
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 22:16:45 No. 28819
>>sound
music I make
>>taste
salty+sweet things. Like, chocolate-drizzled bacon, for instance. Sometimes I'll go to a fast food joint just for chocolate softserve and fries.
>>smell
Rain
>>colour
Blue. Deeper blues, though. More like the ocean than /kind/'s standard background.
>>texture
cat belly, probably.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 22:05:34 No. 28818
My brother is professionally diagnosed as on "the spectrum" of autism. I suspect I also might be… We have a lot of similarities. My parents were young and broke, so it's entirely possible I was just never looked at
With some help through the school, we set a card system up for him. He would hold onto four plastic binder cutouts - green, yellow, orange, and red - and each one had things he liked written on them. "Nintendo" was written on the orange one, for example. "RC Cars" was on the green one.
He would always start the day on Green, and every time the teacher had to ask him more than once to stop disrupting the class, she would take one of his cards away. That night/weekend, he was only allowed to play with what he had left written on cards. If the green one was taken away, no matter how much he wanted to race RC cars with me, he couldn't because the teacher had that card.
A child psychologist recommended that system to us for two reasons:
1) It was a standard and consistent system, so even with his issues my brother still grasped what was going on. This is opposed to the seemingly arbitrary nature of "when I did this my last teacher only gave me a warning, so why am I in trouble this time?"
2) It directly tied "acting out" - doing things that hurt others - to things that hurt him.
The logic was that he'd understand that it wasn't cool to disrupt class because it made everyone feel bad just like when he can't race RC cars. I still don't really know if I buy that, but that fucker has turned into a stronger, better, more confident, more "normal" person than me, so take that for what you will.
So, barely on-topic tangent aside, >>28770 this anon is right, and given time the question can become a moot point. Until then, though, it's important to keep in mind that even though you should show them a little grace, too much leeway will lead to nothing improving or even getting worse in some cases.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 22:04:43 No. 28817
birds chirping
fishsticks I guess
my own cum
purple
warm gurl skin
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 21:45:22 No. 28816
Web irc is fine but a dedicated client is better for keeping logs and stuff
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 21:40:30 No. 28815
I'm not being a non-asswipe ironically. As someone who has benefited from bawww threads in the past, I genuinely know the importance of having a place like /kind/.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 21:04:32 No. 28814
Mentioned in IRC, but we could make a /kind/ SS13 server.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 21:03:40 No. 28813
>>28634
Probably the best way to do it. Maybe. It'd help a ton.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 20:15:06 No. 28812
ok terraria server (world name /kind/) should be up at IP 68.184.37.81
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 19:56:45 No. 28811
>>28809
It's been empty most of the time, as far as I've seen.
Also been kinda screwy today, to the point of being unplayable. Kinda comes and goes. I do drop by every now and then.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 19:49:37 No. 28810
>>28795
>>28799
You're actually cute. Not even trying to mock you.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 19:41:34 No. 28809
and hikutechy is on the minecraft server a lot being really cute and nice to people I can't get on myself but you guys should try to get on minecraft sometimes and give him some company for being a great person
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 19:40:05 No. 28808
nvm found it I'll set it up when I get home
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 19:39:14 No. 28807
how do I set up a terraia server/world? I'm pretty sure I have it on steam but I don't think I've ever played it
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 19:37:40 No. 28806
oh and in regard to the server the mob spawn limiting plugin I added last night seemed to really bring the lag under control so barring more issues with my apartment situation, internet provider, or some kind of massive hardware failure it should be running pretty stable and near constantly from now on
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 19:34:37 No. 28805
and I'm not too informed on this myself but I know PSO2 can also be played on PS vita and it's on the same servers as PC so if your computer isn't really good for gaming you can still play this with us if you have a PS vita
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 19:32:31 No. 28804
oh and My friend invitation system code for pso2 is 13072342 I think it gives you and me some stuff when you start don't worry about it much tho cuz I don't actually remember what it does
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 19:27:10 No. 28803
>>28793
OP here try it and report back please a lot of people have been asking this and I don't actually know
>>28768
>>28797
go here~> http://arks-layer.com/ to get started getting the englished patched version of PSO2 I'll help you guys with how to play and what to do and whatever is still untranslated
don't get the SEA (south east asia) version it has an offical translation but one that translation is terrible, two the sever is years back on content, and three unless you set up a really good proxy and VPN you'll get banned or worse if you use those servers outside of the region where as SEGA of japan doesn't care where you use the jp servers from
but for now the most important thing you should remember is for the servers or "ships" ship 2, 6, and 10 are the only ones which a lot of english speaking players ship 2 having the most
my best character is on ship 2 I also have one on 6 and plenty of slots for new characters
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 18:47:09 No. 28802
I'd like to bump this thread because it's been the most interesting I read lately
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 18:39:22 No. 28801
>>28796
He doesn't have to go out in wilderness to live on his own. That's the beautiful thing about the modern world. The Internet allows one to make a living from home just fine. Just go to whatever country that has cheap rent yet is relatively safe, so "second world countries" eg. Czech, Poland, if you are adventurous and brave you can risk China. You settle there and can afford very healthy food and roof over your head for very cheap. You make one website or art commission and you live for half a year off that. When you work and live in the West you're wageslaving 3x as you should for the opportunity to go to Lady Gaga concert. To set yourself a freelance income on the Internet is 5 years worth of work. Whether it's drawing, programming, music, or twitch gaming stream, you can set yourself up in 5 years and make a living off anything you enjoy to do. Live the dream, because until the next financial crisis or some happening, we're living in a great and fair time. It's inevitable some happening will take place in our lifetimes, but until then, you're in the best position humans has ever been
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 17:55:36 No. 28800
I just want to be a nice guy and help people.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 17:51:48 No. 28799
>>28798
Kike is a slur, calling things kike is /unkind/. Please stop doing it here.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 17:32:50 No. 28798
>>28795
Hello Jewish friend
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 17:32:23 No. 28797
>>28759
>you can definitely be heal friend in PSO2
If I see enough anons gather to play game like this, then I'll probably join y'all. It's how I did it with Tera on some other board back when it went free2play. Most anons got bored after 1 and half months and from 30-20 people only few were logging in… but these 1,5 months had been so much fucking fun!
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 17:31:43 No. 28796
>>28719
>For example, if you don't work, they take food from you, and make you hungry and suffering.
This is honestly such a weird way of looking at it. They don't take your food away. You are an animal that is lucky enough to be part of a species that has built supermarkets and given you opportunities to work that do not involve an extreme risk of starving and dying.
If you don't like it, go out into to the wilderness and live on your own. You will die and more successful people will make a movie about it.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 17:00:41 No. 28795
>kike this kike that
Please stop.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 16:50:19 No. 28794
>>28773
The more you delve into the actual research papers, the more you realize what "placebo" actually is. It's easy to get caught in the reddit bubble of college rationalists and believe in what you want to believe. Placebo doesn't mean it isn't real. It is real, because placebo has measurable and enormous impact on reality.
The feeling you get that makes you unable to work is the same feeling you get while pouring freezing water on your body. Your subconscious, animal self is making you suffer so that you stop working/pouring cold water on yourself. The subconscious is just doing its job, and there's no one to blame. Not you, no "other humans" either.
>They treat us like slaves. I'll make them pay for what they did.
But if there was no civilization, you'd have to hunt all day anyway. It could have been worse.
Just go into the bathroom and pour water on the coldest setting on you for at least 4 minutes. If you have no control over your body, your mind goes numb and you escape from the water, then bind yourself with tape or whatever like Odysseus who tied himself to the boat so that he doesn't get mind-controlled by the sirens' song and go into the waters.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 16:36:28 No. 28793
Can I play on the server even if I have a YO HO AND A BOTTLE OF RUM version of minecraft?
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 16:08:30 No. 28792
>>28655
>>28656
If your'e going to Finland, go midsummer.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 15:20:11 No. 28791
Also, here is why I unkikescribed to this guy
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 15:19:53 No. 28790
>>28778
I've just watched the vegan trashtalk video from your chart. Vegans represent the exact same patterns as the gym enthusiasts. World is ridiculous and we all are trying to find ways to improve ourselves and become "better than others". It's competition thing. Whether it's lifting or eating vegetables, or both, we're clinging onto these things to provide meaning to our lives and that's fine. All interests of everyone in the world work like that. Life is a silly game like that. If people aren't constantly reminded by that, the camps of vegans and bodybuilders, or even camps of people with different body physique will start killing each other in wars. This is what wars are
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 15:11:17 No. 28789
>>28771
>Screencap your recommended videos on jewtoob or wherever else has recommended things so we can all share… something. I dunno, just another template thread so we can be all cozy and chummy with each other. Damn does that sound gay.
Okay, sounds like a fun idea really. I don't think fun is for plebs!
I play BF4 quite a bit and I love it, so I've seen quite a few videos of people doing stunts and stuff. The gun recommendation is because I recently started browsing /k/ and they must have linked me to a video before. I wouldn't be surprised if the Wolf Brigade video is for that reason as well.
I watched a video that venerated the immortal emperor Trump, so now I'm apparently a nationalist.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 13:21:36 No. 28788
-have health insurance
-go to ER at local
-explain problems
note: depending on bureaucracy and if hospital stuff are incompetent results may vary and/or be unreliable
-if mentally ill you will receive a diagnoses
-if paranoid you will be sent on your way
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 11:16:28 No. 28787
>>28750
It might be better if you were to use an irc client instead of a browser. I'm currently using hexchat. It logs back on it's own when I wake from hibernation/sleep.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 09:07:37 No. 28786
Okay… im not trying to sound uhm, egocentric or selfish, but i cant really see a way to build trust in me so… ill start with this:
Im studying psychology, im about to finish, and the best way to describe myself is like that one nerd guy who actually cares about the classes and does the reading and shit. And i understand that finding a good therapist is really complicated, im studying in mexico, and basically as in everyother career, like 3 out of a group of 40 psych students are actually good, i consider myself one of those 3. So yeah, thats the best way i can think of right now to introduce myself and build some sort of trust.
Now, from what you're saying, you've been through some shit therapists, for example, that note you had to introduce yourself is actually very helpful at the beginning of an interview, specially if you're a patient that doesn't talk much, if you're a good psychologist you'd get a handful of info from it. However, you'd eventually need to talk to continue to the therapy. To answer your question about getting a good therapist… honestly the best way to find a good one is getting into the career and learning what makes a good therapist good, cause you're probably full of the stereotypes and shit… im not just gonna leave you like that, i'll try to explain how a good therapy should work out:
First, you're supposed to get an interview, the objective of the interview is to get general information about the patient and the issue.
After that, i believe another interview would be needed to make a "functional analysis" which basically is determining what happens before, during, and after the problem(s). Then the psych should make an hypothesis of whatever you're dealing with and measure it to see if its accurate, and to measure it they should apply psychometric tests, if they apply projective tests (make you draw shit and explain your behavior out of the drawing) GTFO from that therapy, thats an obsolete method of doing. Something really important to do, is try to find a Cognitive Behavioral Therapist (a psychology therapy obviously), thats the good one, ask them if they know that therapy, if they dont, run, because thats the most backed by scientific evidence therapy. Anyway, what sPost too long. Click here to view the full text.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 07:14:10 No. 28785
>>28740
>try setting up small goals for yourself and promise rewards after you finish. It should help orient your focus towards the future and positively reinforce your approach through having something nice afterwards. Try not to see the task as a hassle, but focus on the reward after. You've described the wait as endless, but by starting with little things with perfectly achievable goals and clear and near immediate rewards it will help your defeatist attitude.
I used to be able to play complicated fingerstyle songs on the guitar. I've been trying to relearn the ability, but it's just frustrating instead. I used to be a 10k runner almost every day, but then I got fat largely from medication issues.
It feels pathetic to set goals like "just pick up the guitar at all" or "just try to go run again at all." I've had therapists say stuff like this to me and it just embarrassed me. I guess I expect too much out of myself?
>But I have a hard time believing that there's nothing that makes you happy, or that you don't know what it feels like to be happy.
I guess that's true to some extent. I remember being happy on opiates. That's probably the only thing I can remember that makes me happy. Everything else is just a distraction.
I don't want to be an opiate addict though. I just remember trying them and remember feeling actually happy.
> but what do you mean by your physical/mental issues?
whining incoming.
I have had depression, anxiety, and derealization (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Derealization ) issues since i was maybe 11 or 12. I have tried so many medications and none of them help, and recently I had something else pop up on me that just made all the other problems worse and now I'm basically unable to leave my house or work and my doctor sucks and thinks I'm full of shit just because I'm not an idiot and know how medPost too long. Click here to view the full text.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 06:53:16 No. 28784
>>28783 (continued)
What I'm looking for is PROFESSIONAL, SPECIALIST help, and I have no idea where to go to get it because I have little specific idea about what the hell is wrong (or right?) with me except vague symptoms and nameless negative (neutral/posititve?) emotions and desires like:
>All my life I've felt like I were wrong to my very core, like I don't belong in this society/on this planet. My values, wants, needs, and such are completely at odds with those around me; they don't understand mine and I don't understand theirs.
>I don't know how to lead a conversation.
>I often feel an overwhelming urge to create things, anything from writing to drawing to animating to singing to sculpting to painting…
>I can't reconcile the want to belong and the want to be left alone; this cognitive dissonance makes my brain hurt if I try to dwell on it.
>I find interacting with people beyond the superficial (e.g., grocery store clerks or passing by a coworker) for long leaves me mentally and emotionally drained and I can only recover by sitting quietly and doing 'nothing' in seculsion for a while, and if I don't get my alone time I start going neurotic and short-tempered.
>I have nasty and violent fantasies about people who slight me.
>People keep ignoring and talking over me, then asking "wat's wrong?" and "y so quiet?"
>I hate myself. I don't want to live anymore. Why? See above.
And so forth.
Who's to say if some of the things I've listed are actual "defects" in my being or are just personality traits/quirks that are incompatible (or I just don't know how to make them work "correctly") with the surrounding society I just so happened to be born in and need to learn ways to route around them like two pieces of electronics that have no way to connect on their own so need an "adapter" of some sort?
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How, exactly, does one get a "real" diagnosis for aspergers/autism/whatever? Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 06:52:50 No. 28783 [Reply]
I've known all my life something is wrong with my head, wrong with me. What specifically, I don't know and have little idea on how to go about knowing. (Hence this post.)
The only two hard facts I have are:
1) I was shaken as an infant
2) Like a handful of you I grew up severely bullied and socially isolated which only fucked me up even worse.
I have many, more "soft examples" of my many social dysfunctions and unproductive proclivities which I'm sure a handful of you habe experienced too but I won't go into them here. Blah-blah HKV, yadah-yadah vidya only friend, le attention-whore suicidal and le edgy homicidal thoughts, you know the same old story.
Though I will say I was put in the special education classes all my school years. I've been "diagnosed" (i.e., "fuck if we know, let's just stamp the dumb child's forehead with SOMETHING so we can toss him in the sped room and fuhgeddaboutit until the next time his mom or dad comes bitching at us for not doing anything, fuck actually helping him and fuck his nagging cunt parents too" ) with just about everything from retardation, down's syndrome, schizophrenia, sociopathy, autism, asperger's… That last one seems the closest but still not quite (I understand empathy, I don't have a laser-focus on pointless shit, and so on), but I'm not going to trust any "diagnosis" from minimum-wage-paid middle- and high-school counselors. Especially since the idea about asperger's came from my mom watching Oprah of all things. That alone is enough to trip my bullshit meter.
Anyway, post-HS I've tried several generic therapists and counselors to try and get help but they don't really listen. I think they expect me to "just bee myslef xD" and treat my introspective tendencies like it were a disease – some of them were quite frankly insulting, dismissing my 3-5 page "this is how I feel, this is a short history of my painful upbringing, these are what I think are wrong about me," self-introductions since I suck at verbal communication; that one asshole refused to even take it from my hands, calling it "just information" and "I wanna hear from the 'real yoPost too long. Click here to view the full text.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 06:24:10 No. 28782
>>28781
I'm surprised corporal punishment (or whatever it's called) is still a thing anywhere in the US these days. People make a fuss over hearing their parents have spanked their kid a single time anymore from what I hear. -but yeah, that's screwed up to hit someone for something they can't help.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 05:15:59 No. 28781
In many states the guideline is to beat them.
It's okay to beat kids in those states as apparently children aren't human there yet.
So I guess if you are in the south you just do that.
If not try get the child's parents involved to determine the best course of action on a case by case basis.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 04:10:16 No. 28780
>>28757
>I have no damn clue what to do with my life anymore
I know that feel, broseidon god of the brocean.
I've turned my back on video games, I'm more or less done with heavy metal and music in general, I keep losing the will to try and teach myself Japanese because I'm still a huge weeb but I barely watch anything anymore, I spend most of my time not working on pointless waste of time sites like this instead of dealing with the huge pile of dishes and such which just feeds my depression.
The only thing that I've been doing with myself is keeping myself from going crazy/depressed while trying to not be a fatass anymore.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 04:06:39 No. 28779
>>28765
>Don't they have guidelines about how to deal with cases like this?
Mine didn't.
I'll say no more to avoid opening those old wounds.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 04:04:56 No. 28778
>>28758
Screencap your recommended videos on jewtoob or wherever else has recommended things so we can all share… something. I dunno, just another template thread so we can be all cozy and chummy with each other. Damn does that sound gay. *wink*
>>28771
>What kind of idiot asks this?
There is a huge number of weightlifters, powerlifters, etc. who don't do cardio and think it "killz gainz".
No seriously, Scooby alone has made dozens of videos and articles trying his damnedest to debunk it! Look at Scooby's pecs, his abs, his traps, his quads, etc., and know he's been doing like 5-15 hours hard cardio a week for over 30 years . Considering Scooby has piss-poor muscle-building genetics (took him 10-20 years to reach his natty genetic potential), that alone should be enough. But it isn't.
My guess is fat powerlifters and other /fit/ards are just lazy excuse-seekers and/or like you said, emulating some roider who died of a heart attack in his early 20's because he only cared about aesthetics, not health.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 03:53:12 No. 28777
>>28776
Since this is an image board (i.e., autist central) I know my between-the-lines point is going to go right over pretty much all y'all's heads so I'll say it straight without sarcasm:
The giving kind of person, is almost always rewarded by someone who is taking .
That is, they'll just see you as a Nice Guy, and use their l33t social skillz to butter you up just enough to turn you into their unwitting personal doormat.
When you find out it will devastate you. It will emotionally distress and possibly destroy your trust in others if it happens often.
Source: me, a former giver who has hardened up with walls of ice and resentment around his heart who would love nothing more than to open up his heart once more but is paralyzed by fear and memory of what has happened so often when I do so.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 03:49:42 No. 28776
>>28739
>And my happiness is impacted by whether or not I can make others happy.
You can make me very happy by giving me lots of money.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 03:48:03 No. 28775
The OS-tan of the best version of Windows is adorbs.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 03:32:45 No. 28774
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Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 02:39:07 No. 28773
>>28720
>Why wouldn't you want to be "fixed" when even something as simple as potato peeling is exhausting for you? Improving yourself and becoming a better person does not mean losing yourself.
Because my objective is not to be a potato peeler or typical person-robot that just go to work and is worker. While I can't peel potato, I can do other stuff which I do. But sometimes I need down to earth shit like potato peeling or working for money - that's for what I need drugs, so they temporary make me able to do this.
>There are no magic drugs, all of them come with side-effects that are at least as bad as their benefit is good.
Let's see, let's try.
>You haven't tried, you admitted that already.
Yes, I did, in past.
>>28722
hard cardio is dangerous, unhealthy. especially for me.
And stupid exercise only makes me fatigued for week.
>>28723
>You know what, forget anything I said. After reading more of your whining, you're just another attention whore bitching about your White People Problems. Boo hoo. Why the fuck anyone who sucks that hard would be afraid to "lose themself" is beyond me. If I failed that hard I'd throw myself in the garbage and replace me with something better.
Because I only fail at stupid down to earth stuff that stupid world forced me to do. I only want to temporary activate abilities to do that stuff. Normally I want to be as I am now and do tasks I like.
>As you are, you will never amount to anything.
Yes, so I need drugs so they temporary makes me able.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 01:20:29 No. 28772
Im a terrible person that´s trying to change. This affection I feel towards anon is real (closest thing to a friend and family ive ever had) but it happens im an autist who can´t help but be a dick to the people he loves and gives the impression of not giving a rat´s ass about your feelings and has become quieter over the years, it´s just who I am.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 01:14:10 No. 28771
>Will Jogging Make My Muscles Disappear?
What kind of idiot asks this? If people are so desperate to become like their fallen idol zyzz they should get on roids without asking silly questions.
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 01:11:16 No. 28770
A proactive & engaged parent > the most well trained teacher
Friend 03/23/16 (Wed) 00:08:02 No. 28769
>>28768
you could also be a robo loli or a demon loli
Friend 03/22/16 (Tue) 23:57:53 No. 28768
>>28756
I feel like I could fall into that. -and being a cute girl is just icing on the cake to my image. Little healer loli knows she can never be the best or most obsessive player but her role in helping will always have been a factor to their success.
Friend 03/22/16 (Tue) 23:29:17 No. 28767
>>28765
States and districts have guidelines on this, yes. As far as the philosophy behind it goes, I don't know.
Friend 03/22/16 (Tue) 23:17:26 No. 28766
>>28756
Thank you heal friend for always getting us out of those huge fuck ups we cause due to our dumb mistakes.
Friend 03/22/16 (Tue) 23:12:55 No. 28765
>you're a teacher
Don't they have guidelines about how to deal with cases like this? I'd assume the state would in order to avoid getting in trouble.
Friend 03/22/16 (Tue) 23:03:08 No. 28764
-OP here
had some time to play built a little magic (brewing/enchanting) station in front of my house for people to use
added a plugin to limit mob spawning should cut down on lag immensely as I understand
still no clear answer if I should add mods
Friend 03/22/16 (Tue) 23:00:18 No. 28763
>>28619
It's cool. Ill keep it. I didn't expect much but maybe other people will work on it too. Thanks!
Friend 03/22/16 (Tue) 23:00:15 No. 28762
That's a tough as shit question. I know I should be more forgiving and open to interpretation but I think of most people as incapable of acting competent already. I think it comes down to your outlook of the world, how you honestly feel about everyone's significance to the group. Now obviously I'm not saying put someone beneath someone in your place of authority (you'd best not be screwing around with your idea or responsibility) but ideally everyone is a part of the group and as such need to be held accountable despite understood accommodations. What does that mean? Fuck if I know, I'm autistic.
Friend 03/22/16 (Tue) 22:27:32 No. 28761 [Reply]
You guys won't give a chan-bias if I ask here, so:
Say you're a teacher and a child acts out.
This child has autism/
This child has downs/
This child has tourettes/
This child has anger management problems/
This child has bipolar disorder/
At what point do you wave the child off because of his mental issue, and at what point do you punish him like any other child? How severe does the disorder have to be to be waven off? Is it even okay to wave anything off because of a mental disorder?
Friend 03/22/16 (Tue) 21:55:21 No. 28760
A bit of a TV cliché is that everything would have just worked out if you cast aside some of your pride and asked for help. Putting aside how those characters are already respectable enough for you to like I disagree in such a hopeful safe message. As someone who has no real amount of pride I say more it's a fear of losing dignity which is a very legitimate all-around concern. If you feel like a mess and you don't see a way out there's still that much to lose for no gain. Everyone around surely knows that I'm a dreary person but when you put it into words or obvious actions that outright make a statement people inevitably judge or won't leave you alone and you cant stop them without really losing it and getting agressive and driving them off and adding a personal hurt to their lives. I already have so little connections that keep me safe, no part of that process is acceptable just to vent so that's why I'd like forgiveness for perpetuating a sorrowful atmosphere here even if only within this lone thread.
-but that's a foreword of sorts really, should I remember what I had to bitch about I'll be back. Brain problems.
Friend 03/22/16 (Tue) 21:42:28 No. 28759
>>28756
you can definitely be heal friend in PSO2
Friend 03/22/16 (Tue) 21:36:45 No. 28758
I have no idea what you want me to do friend
Friend 03/22/16 (Tue) 20:53:44 No. 28757
My goal is to figure out a goal, because not doing anything for a week is driving me to near insanity.
I have lost enjoyment in anything and everything at this point, so I have no damn clue what to do with my life anymore. Nothing seems appealing, either.
Friend 03/22/16 (Tue) 20:46:05 No. 28756
I only play games where I can be the heal friend. I love to stand back and quietly support players while they do their own thing.
I've been reinforcing this pattern of behavior to the point it became a mental disorder, somewhat. I need my dose of daily supporting or I start to feel anxious. This whole thing is weird. I even only play passive supports in games like League of Legends, even though this playstyle is harshly discouraged by Riot. It's the same in other games. Being a heal friend is my addiction
Friend 03/22/16 (Tue) 20:31:35 No. 28755
>>28747
I'm sort of thinking of getting The Legend of Zelda: Tri-Force Heroes but I''m sort of doubting it would be all that fun. Not too many multiplayer 3DS games I guess.
Friend 03/22/16 (Tue) 20:08:21 No. 28754
>>28747
I only play PC and have Minecraft, Terraria and some Source engine games.
>>28749
Hosting on a laptop is generally not a good idea but its better than nothing.
>>28752
Yes but as it is I've only seen like 1 or 2 players on at a time
so it might be better to hold off on that until we have more players
who be interested in it. Its more fun to play with others even if it
doesn't have mods, also mods wouldn't help with fixing the lag.
Friend 03/22/16 (Tue) 17:26:44 No. 28753
I don't know if this is mopey, to be honest. I'm moreso confused than sad. I was kinda sad for a while there, a week or so now, but at this point, confusion has taken over.
What the hell is wrong with me?
To explain this in the best way I can, I have not been able to do ANYTHING right in the past few days. Not a damn thing anymore.
I can't fall asleep properly, I can't play vidya, I can't even shitpost without fucking it up. I keep dropping things for seemingly no reason and everything I say to everyone has been the worst thing I could have chosen to say. There's more examples, but the main point is simply that I have not been able to accomplish anything today without some sort of fuck up, no matter how major or minor it is.
The one time in my life when I need things to go right, everything goes wrong. Fucking typical.
Friend 03/22/16 (Tue) 17:11:13 No. 28752
also does anyone still want me to add mods to the server it was brought up a bit at the start of the thread but hasn't been since the server actually went up but are people still interested in that?
Friend 03/22/16 (Tue) 16:49:39 No. 28750
I still don't really get how to work irc. It seems annoying to me for a lot of reasons, but mostly because to close down every time my computer goes to sleep or I close my browser. There anyway to just keep it running or have it automatically open a certain chat?
Friend 03/22/16 (Tue) 16:45:28 No. 28749
anyways I'll be back online after work and I check the server when I get home as I usually do so if anything is wrong with it it'll be fixed as soon as possible, but do please let me know although I can't do anything about it now, and I'd probably find out on my own anyway. But it still might be good to know what and when something happens so I can try to prevent it
I know last night when I woke up at 4 am I checked it before breakfast and it said the server crashed while I was asleep because a single tick took literally 2 minutes so I'm still working on the the issues with latency and random bouts of lag
Friend 03/22/16 (Tue) 16:40:15 No. 28748
I also like strategy/tactical games both in video game form and games like chess or shoji
Friend 03/22/16 (Tue) 16:36:39 No. 28747
so yeah basically why don't we all state what games we like to play and/or have access to
games I like: RPGs and JRPGs, visual novels, metroidvania games, and bullethell but I've played pretty much anything if I found it fun at the time I also like horror games but can't really play them cuz I scare easily
systems I have atm: nintendo 3ds, PC
money situation: not good but I wouldn't mind spending a bit of money to have fun, free to play games would be best tho for this kinda thing since anons generally don't have lots of money to burn
Friend 03/22/16 (Tue) 16:25:55 No. 28746
I mean in a way this board is already sort of a friendly /b/ so how come it can't also be a friendly /v/?
Friend 03/22/16 (Tue) 16:24:50 No. 28745
I'm an intern librarian/teacher/photographer/web designer/robotics expert at a charter school atm and considering that and my disposition I kinda just switch between being super busy and too tired/lazy to do anything. So I can't speak to how often I myself can actually play games with you guys.
But like with the minecraft server I'm happy to help get things set up so you all can play games together and then when I have a chance to I have a nice place to go to play games and maybe with nice people too.
So if anyone has any ideas I'm happy to do leg/ground work to get things set up. Tho I dropped them pretty quickly I've tried out and gotten good at a bunch of MMOs (i.e. PSO2, firefall, spiral knights, Rift, that weird star trek one, etc.) since I liek games and get lonely easily so I can help you guys set up accounts and learn how to play and create a guild or whatever since it'll always be pretty similar to something I've tried even if I haven't seen that game specifically.
as far as single player games as long as it's something we all agree on we could just do something where we all play the same game for like a week or a month and have this thread be a discussion board about that game.
idk I'm open to ideas and putting a bit of work into them if need be I just kinda wanna hang out and play games with /kind/ anons