/spank/ - Spanking

I used to get spanked all the time for everything, It hurt SO bad. If I disobeyed, I got spanked, if I did something my parents didn't agree with, I got spanked, if I lied, I got spanked… I thought it was terrible, I hated it so much. I hated the word, I hated the humiliation of it, but most of all, I hated getting spanked all the time.

However, years later when puberty hit, I started not hating the thought of it so much… I really have no idea what triggered it, but the thought of a spanking was no longer the worst thing in the world. I still got spanked for everything I did that my parents disagreed with, and I still hated it then… But the whole idea behind it stopped being completely negative.

Eventually, butthurt anything would even seem kinda neat… Like when I played things like Mario 64, seeing Mario running around with his butt on fire after falling in lava started being actually kind of amusing and not the metaphor of terror that it once was.

Eventually, this "that's neat" turned into spanking == boner, so of course I would look into it.

The rest is history.

I wasn't spanked, but I always had an unhealthy obsession with spanking other kids or getting them into situations where they would be spanked. I was drawing spanking since age 5 and had some semi-sexual experiences spanking girls who grew up in my neighborhood. I didn't really understand that it was a sexual fetish until I was about 11.

Since then I've basically just tried to shoehorn it into my sexlife whenever possible. I've yet to find a girl who's completely into it, but most have been willing to indulge me, knowing it's my biggest turn-on. I'm a pretty forceful guy and I tend to attract submissive women, so I have hopes I'll find a true spanko someday.

>>300
This image reminds me of a girl named Sarah for some reason …

>>334
Do share some stories. How did you get others spanked?

>>335
As for my part, I enjoyed annoying some people, but spanking fascined me ever since. I don't really know why but the earlyest thing I remeber was this scene from "Biene Maya"(a childrens cartoon about a bee) where she stuk in a hole in the hive or something.
In high school I got into a kind of sado-maso friendship where I tended to randomly slap my friend and he was kinda ok with it. As for my part it hadn't anything to do with sexual arousement but it somehow made ma a sadist, my firend wrote something like that in my yearbook profile…
For now I'm 3-year lasting, healthy realationship. I discovered pretty early that she wanted a sadistic bf so were getting along quite well, especially on the mental way, the one I prefer. Even thou spanking is my greatest kink, I also enjoy tieing her up and other stuff.
Sadly she isn't that much into spanking but knowing my kinks, she is ok with it and I think I'm getting her slowly into it so far. I'm able to spank her on a somewhat regular basis (less than I'd like) and she slowly seems to enjoy it more.
The best spankings by far are thoose special ones I get when she has a guilty conscience.

Growing up in the south I got spanked a lot by both of my parents. With their hand, a hairbrush, a switch, or the belt you name it they probably used it. I think I've always have had a capacity to be fascinated by it, even when I was little and me and my cousins would play house we would spank each other. My most distinct memory in my fetish shaping was when I was around 12 and there was a Dragon Ball Z episode where ChiChi spanked Goten and something about it struck me. The next time I got spanked after that was by my mom and it was the only spanking I remember not crying or anything it was strange. When I got up I actually had a boner and my mom gave me a weird look and I never understood why she looked at me that way until I reflected on it when I was older. I didn't really know what a boner or a fetish was. The last time I got spanked by someone else it was by my dad with the belt when I was 13 (which was excruciating and not arousing at all I might add).

But probably the big thing was the first time I masturbated when I was 14, I spanked myself in the diaper position with a hairbrush when my parents weren't home and I started fapping. Needless to say I was really confused and scared and had no idea what the fuck happened. I remember hiding my clothes until I discovered what the phenomenon was and the rest is history.

OP, why are you posting one of GM's shitty pictures? If you have to post an image, at least use one which is anatomically correct wasn't drawn by a registered pedophile.

>>300
I've started spanking and slapping myself for fun and just because it's mildly satisfying. It makes me really want a bitch to spank and slap, and for her to reciprocate at times.

Last time I did anything sexual, I did assert some dominance by kinda smacking her thighs numerous times. But it was more of an in-between thing, like a gesture.

i spanked my english teacher in secondary school once

i don't like to talk about it because it's at once really implausible and incredibly dull, it really does sound like a bad literotica story

but i'll explain a little bit if you guys ask

>>996
You're such a tease.

>>996
>i don't like to talk about it

Oh yes you do. And it sounds weird enough that I want to hear.

>>996
Even if it's completely un-erotic, I want to know just out of curiosity.

Hi, I've found an interesting alternative to spanking for red-butting so I'm sharing.

I love to get spanked but because I live in a house full of other students I can't get spanked or spank myself because It would make noise, so I think I've found the perfect alternative. I call It "The Mexican Sunburn"

1) Take a good hot bath, (this is to soften the butt's skin and make it more sensible)
2) Use a sharp cheese gratter to vigorously scratch your butt (this is to create micro-wounds to increase the efficiency of the next step)
3) Apply an irritating liquid on the butt (I use Tabasco sause, thus the "Mexican" in the title
4)…
5) ENJOY THE HEAT XD (thus the "Sunburn" in the title)

It's completely silent, very efficient (I love this burning feeling) and unlike traditionnal spanking, the pain last for much longer and is constant, witch if delightful when you make love/fap after that because once the pain is there, you don't have to "refuel" the pain, you can fully focus on the love making/fapping.

As Irritant, I use the Tabasco Habanero Hot sauce, but you should start with a weaker liquid like normal Tobasco dilutated in water, vinager or lemon juice if you're sensitive. Any liquid with alcohol is nice to begin with becaue the alcohol vaporates quickly (within 10 sec) and so the pain stops almost immediately.

Note that the use of chili pepper based irritant like Tabasco Sauce makes the skin much more sensitive to additionnal pain/heat, witch makes It an interesting foreplay for spanker/spanked as well as closet self-spankers !

IMPORTANT : if you're using chili pepper based irritant, note that the capsaicin (the chemical molecule responsible for the "burn" feeling) doesn't react to water. Therefore if you've been to generous with Tabasco sauce and want to reduce the pain, pouring water won't do much. Instead, use milk or yogourt, this will destroy the molecule responsible for the pain, so make sure to have cold milk next to you before trying the Mexican Sunburn (and keep that in mind when eating spicy food as well ^_^)
(Learn more about the irritant effect and gradation of chili pepper here : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scoville_scale)

One last thing : be very careful when using chili peper based irritant not to unintentionaly touch your eyes/nostrils because it will hurt a lot. The use of chili pepper based irritant on erogenous body parts is very pleasureful (it hurts well and long) but start with veeery small quantities, have milk around and try on yourself before doing it on somebody else !

Please, share with other spanking/bdsm forum/sites and I'would love some feedback from those who try this ;)

>>1020
I once tried chili pepper in conjuction with an ordinary self-spanking. After some warm-up, I wet my bottom and sprinkled some chili powder on, then proceeded to "spank it in". Repeated this a couple of times. Of course, the wetness increases sting too, but I just loved how the chili created a long-lasting burn. Pulling pants back on made it more intense, and sitting, oh yeah. I'll have to do it again sometime. The cheese grater sounds like an interesting idea.

>>1020
>>1025

Skip all the extra work and use capsaicin cream.
http://www.walgreens.com/store/c/walgreens-capsaicin-arthritis-pain-relief-cream/ID=prod4021863-product

Be super careful not to get any on your junk or anus unless you're into that.

>>1025
" but I just loved how the chili created a long-lasting burn"

Exactly ! Just like a strong sunburn righ on the ass ! Also, just pouring mild water will feel incredebly hot ! Try with a Tabasco sause because I think in liquid form, the Capsaisin is more efficient and better enters the micro-wounds created by the cheese gratter.

>Skip all the extra work and use capsaicin cream.

I tried but the Tabasco Habanero sause is much more powerful.and I like It hardcore ^^

>>1030
Oh yeah, the water… I realized that because I tried taking a hot shower afterwards. It quickly turned into a luke-warm shower I tell you.

Maybe I'll try Tabasco with the grater trick, but when using an implement, the powder feels cleaner. Wouldn't want to scrub sticky sauce off my favorite brush.

>>1031
Personaly, I cheese gratte my bum, then apply the hot sauce, wait about a minute or two (for the heat climax) and then remove the hot sauce with a wet paper tissue so that no hot sauce get on my sextoys or the bed sheet/underwear.

>>1033
The once spread on the bum, the hot sauce's heat effect last for quite a moment so removeing the excedent sauce is recommanded actualy. Also, It's safer to not have this sauce not lying around your body because if it directly gets in contact with your anus/genitals… I like it hardcore, but not THAT hardcore…