>>9866
"Perfect" here just means fitting in and not setting off crazy/asshole-person warning bells. Contrary to popular belief, it's universal thing.
It's not just about being offended. It's about being stuck in between a rock and a hard place.
The reason "hot chicks can get away with everything" is because the hot chicks that do are actually good with words and subtlety. They can easily put on an image that gets them what they want. Guys can do this too; it's just that physical appearance isn't as big of a factor in social acceptableness.
But what about when you DON'T have a silver tongue? You can't just point at your boobs and say "Look. Titties. Now do what I say." That's not how it works in the real world.
Instead, you get treated like a threat by other hot women (what, you think THEY'RE gonna be wooed by your attractiveness? HA.) playing a dumbass game of Clique of Thrones since you're shit at manipulation or they manipulate you themselves. The ugly women are gonna think you want them to be your "fat friend" and nothing else. The others will think you fake everything and want nothing to do with you.
The guys who approach you want only sex without any kind of meaningful relationship. The other guys are too beta to do anything. But no one wants to just be friends. You think you find someone who's a friend, but then they throw a hissyfit because you won't be their gf even though that's not what you signed up for in the first place.
So what are you supposed to do? "Find decent people that mesh well with you" is the obvious answer, but they're hard to weed out among the bullshit and false appearances and if it was really that easy, us lonely scrubs on the internet wouldn't exist in the first place.