>>7195
Same situation, I live with roommates who, while I've never discussed it outright with them, have one way or another become familiar with what I do. I still really don't want to involve any of them in it though, so I don't tell them to gtfo "for a shoot", so I need alternatives.
Using their place works, but it helps if they've had experience with it already, most (but again, not all) people will be a bit hesitant to have an otherwise stranger in their house, much less binding them. If you find people who have already done fetishy shit in the past, though, that eliminates that. Truth be told though hotels/motels are way better than you'd think, you're out at least $40 but the place is yours for the day, for the most part you'll never get loud enough to draw attention, and it's a good neutral location. Feeling really ballsy? Why not go to the park and do a little non-bound session? Not too hot outside? Put her in the back seat of your car and give her a good old driverseat punishment like vid related?
As far as finding them? A bit harder. Craigslist has worked for me, but as a "modeling gig" where they would get paid for videos, haven't tried as an outright personal 'lets just have fun' type thing. OKCupid and PlentyofFish have resulted in a few sessions before, but if you're having trouble with nerves I doubt that you'd wanna just jump headfirst into that. Other people have luck with FetLife, but that depends on your area. Mine for instance is terrible and in all the years I've had it haven't met a single person around me.
I guess I do have to qualify all my advice by saying at little less than half of my experiences have been as an 'amateur producer with a model' type thing, which may skew the results. Kody, Miss Morgue, Bri, and some of Kara's shoot were all paid, wheras Kel, Lulu, and the Ticklish Game Nerd where all just 'Hey wanna try something fun?' situations.
What's you financial situation? Could you spring for a camcorder and $50 a session? The "guy with camera" thing is looked down upon by people, but I gotta say it's been nothing but a thrill ride for me. Befriending kinky models (all of who I've remained 'actual friends' with after the fact, by the way), making my own weird fap fodder, fun stories to tell, if it's even the slightest bit doable I'd say give it a go. Even if you don't want to spend money EVERY time you do it, people are more willing to play around with, like I said before, a "professional" who is experienced with what he's doing. Tell me what you're willing to do, and let me see if I can imagine up an approach.