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 No.906

Ok, so I assume most of you on here know that half of the posters/lurkers here are disillusioned men from /pol/ (like myself). But do any of the females here have any advice for the males? Like where to find traditional girls, good skills to know, dating , appearance, etc. Any and all help is appreciated!

 No.911

Yo man, I feel you, because I'm on the same boat.

The best advice I can give you is to increase your standards so as to avoid the thirst that afflicts the average male nowadays. The moment you start to screen out women based on your high standards, you'll realize that only very few women out there are worth of your attention, love and commitment. Screen out the alcoholic ones, the promiscuous ones, the ones that are too old, too ugly, too fat, too stupid, too ambitious, too boyish, too boring, too dull, too ignorant, too entitled..you get the idea.

But also work on yourself. Become a better man. Lift heavy, take up a new hobby. Become more charming. Be more religious, and be the kind of man other men would admire.


 No.916

>>906

>But do any of the females here have any advice for the males?

Hold yourself to the same standards that you demand from women. I hang on /pol/ quite a bit, and I'm sick of "traditional" men bitching about women being fat, being race traitors and just not being feminine in general, while I in the next threads see men writing why race mixing is OK for men (because gooks are superior and white women are mean), why it's OK for men to be fat or to dress like shit, to be weak and unfit, and why women are gold diggers just because they demand a man with an OK income that can afford to raise a family. I wish I could find a traditional community where men are actually traditional themselves, because /pol/ doesn't cut it today.


 No.918

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>>916

There's definately a lot of hypocracy on /pol/ today, the only other major board that's somewhat traditional is /christian/, and they're not perfect either. But best of luck on your search for a traditional community, there's not many places left to turn to.


 No.919

>>916

first of all, /pol/ is not one person as I'm sure you know. Whenever I see those sort of double standards you mentioned, I tend to call them out but for whatever reason not many others do. Just keep in mind that they are most likely a vocal minority.


 No.920

>>919

I just ignore that shit for what it is, shit.


 No.925

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The best advice I can give you is to find out what your ethical views truly are, then look for a group/organization that reflects those views, and begin your search there. At least that way you know you have certain things in common with the women involved in that group. Once you find your center, and start living in a manner that allows you to feel confidant in your path and in yourself, you'll find it's easier to screen out the unnecessary and negative activities and people from your life.


 No.928

Sup brah. Fellow man here. Yes I do have a penis, but if anything I'm not the typical male on /tradfem/.

Tbh I'm pretty sure this is a roleplay board, but if you're looking for traditional conservative cuties they're not concentrated in one area, they're dispursed all over the place! If you want to snag one you need to be a high-status male. No woman wants to be a stay at home for some beta faggot postal worker making $30k a year. Really all dating "advice" is stupid, because people are so dynamic, especially women. Different women prefer different styles and lifestyles. The only thing that is consistent is that women would rather share an alpha male than have a beta to themselves. So if you want a conservative girl be the best darn conservative man you can be. Get your house paid off, kick ass at your job. If your job is shit, get a better one. Get a decent car paid off. Nothing gay and flashy like a diesel truck or corvette. Get something conservative and respectable, like a 5-series or a an a6 or any other luxury sedan that doesn't take itself too seriously. Don't be autistic. If you are autistic I'm sorry, but you will probably never find a conservative qt. Groom yourself. Get a nice haircut, nothing too swaggy, but don't go for the "le classix gentle men" slicked back part either. Read books is the advice I give to everyone who can't get laid or find a decent life partner. Not shitty crime dramas, read American Classics, and pop psychology. Go to the gym. This is non-negotiable. You probably won't be the next Rich Piana (COME ON!), but lifting weights increases your testosterone levels and makes you confident. On that note, no looking at porn. Whether it is a placebo or not women will notice you more and you will have an easier time looking at them. Napoleon Hill has written a few excellent excerpts in his books about managing your sex energy.

Any other questions? I would be glad to help.


 No.931

Don't ask for advice from women.


 No.932

>>916

Well I think a lot of that is just pol is an open community and scum do come to troll. Beyond that though, what about advice, mainly as in where are the most likely places to meet to some degree a traditionally minded girl?


 No.936

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>asking women for advice on women

>asking a woman how to pick up women

they dont know what they want faggot


 No.939

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>>936

Quite.

>>932

> where to meet

Dude, the answers are always the same.

Church is a good go-to claim, but its not very reliable - many of the church-going women I know, esp. younger ones, are some of the worst offenders in terms of anti-traditional views and behaviors.

Any place you seek to find a concentration of traditional women is going to be a failure, because there are - as far as I am aware - no places where such women concentrate without a similar and oft greater-in-magnitude concentration of non-traditional women (either masquerading as of a traditional bent for the purposes of attracting a mate, or simply present for social signaling purposes or the like).

There is no one place you can go and find them, there just isn't.

Go out and enjoy your life how you see fit, and if you meet a woman you're interested in - and I know I'm going to get flak for saying this - then go about investigating her, and in such a fashion as you would investigate someone you believe is lying to you (that is to say, sans trust; for trust is something someone ought to have to earn, not something to be given away so freely - which, in my experience, women generally hate the very notion of, for they [esp. the more cunning and manipulative] rely upon the trust of others to achieve nefarious ends).

Early on, observe social media and more generalized social interactions.

Ask questions, especially about the past - but be subtle, patient and do not given the impression of harsh judgment forthcoming (even if such judgment IS forthcoming).

Talk to friends.

Talk to relatives.

Most importantly, talk to the woman in question - women love to talk about themselves, so its comparatively easy to get them to start; but women are also very canny, and so be watchful for signs of information being withheld (and be mindful of which topics bring about such withholding, and subtly pursue those topics in greater detail).

These are the best routes to identify if a woman is actually worth pursuing - and there is no quick-and-easy alternative that isn't rife with hazard.

Women hate to hear it, but the truth is, the best means for finding a decent traditional woman is to go to places where there are lots of women some of whom may be of a traditionalist bent, engage those women, and when you engage them, do so from the perspective of one who does not, to any appreciable degree, trust in the person to whom they are speaking to tell the truth.


 No.944

>>916

Not sure everyone on /pol/ is as you described.

Me personally, I can't stand coalburners, but I don't really view nogs as humans, in the same way as indo-european and Asian people are.

I think that saying there are three "world races" is in itself a little inaccurate, as the genetic distance from negroes to whites/asians is much larger than between europeans and asians. I mean Asians in the american sense (Chinese/Japanese) here, not in the British sense (Pakistanis)

Therefore, I don't think you can directly compare coalburning to weaboos.

The other difference here is that Asians (men or women) are not inherently destructive to western culture and ways of life in the same way as Muhammad and Jamal from the dark continent are, so the chances of an Asian husband or wife fitting into western culture is more likely, even if they will never be genetically western.

Me? I don't mind the odd Asian weekend pussy, but I sure as hell wouldn't marry one. When I'm done pissing off the local "diversity" dudes, I plan to settle down with a white woman and have as many white children as I can afford.


 No.945

>>936

>>asking a woman how to pick up women

This anon gets it.

If you need to wire a house, you don't ask the electricity how to do it. You ask the electrician.


 No.948

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>>916

> hang on /pol/ quite a bit, and I'm sick of "traditional" men bitching about women being fat, being race traitors and just not being feminine in general, while I in the next threads see men writing why race mixing is OK for men (because gooks are superior and white women are mean), why it's OK for men to be fat or to dress like shit, to be weak and unfit, and why women are gold diggers just because they demand a man with an OK income that can afford to raise a family.

Do you know what "shills" and "bait" are?


 No.949

>>944

>indo-european

Indo-European is a linguistic group you dumb fuck. Linguistics =/= ethnicity

The term you're looking for is the Caucasian which includes everyone from Nordics to Syrians


 No.950

>>949

>Implying indo-European cannot be a group consisting of smaller groups.

Come on bro, surely you're not this autistic. I was not implying that Indians are white or similar.


 No.951

>>949

Also,

>Implying Indo-Europeans are not both a people group and a language tree.


 No.954

>>951

>>950

As far as science is concerned no. You need to also include the true Semites (kikes haven't been semites for around 1500 years), as well as Kartvelians, and Uralics and others.

Or are Finns and Hungarians not white...?


 No.955

>>954

Yawn. You seem more bothered about these very unimportant details than the overall message of the original post. If you need to "win" this point then have at it, I'm not that bothered about this.


 No.966

I have the problem of not knowing where to find guys? I want someone who shares my values of basically being a reactionary but in the UK there seem to be few, and it's obviously considered "beyond the pale" to admit to being racist etc.


 No.970

>>966

Where in the UK are you?


 No.972

>>970

North West


 No.973

>But do any of the females here have any advice for the males?

No woman on earth can tell you how to be a man.


 No.976

>>906

A hunter asks other hunters for advice on how to catch his prey, you dumb ass. You don't ask the deer how to hunt her. Women aren't in the business of finding and seducing women, so they don't know how to answer that.


 No.977

>>949

While the overlap isn't perfect, it is also a human genetic clade.


 No.979

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>>976

That might be true, but there's not a lot of hunters today who don't use some sleazy methods to get girls. Plus I think the females here (some of them) care to help males in need. Its not easy for anyone today, we all have to look out for each other.


 No.983

>>936

Yes we do, but it's usually more simple and open-ended than many men looking to find a woman want.

Get a decent job, make yourself look good, BE CONFIDENT, and put your heart into something (it helps for me to see that the guy can be passionate), and cultivate interests outside picking up chicks.

Basically, improve yourself and you'll find one.


 No.984

>>939

Jeez, have you had any success acting so suspicious of women in general? Will you have any success in marriage afterwards? Women can be generalized in some ways, but each one of us is different -- you know like all men. Because we're people.

Personally, I couldn't manipulate my way out of cardboard box because I hate lying so much. There are also many manipulative men (who don't generally have very happy marriages, I might add). I can tell you that if a guy approached me treating me like a liar because some random internet weirdo told him that's how you need to treat women, I would never consider even dating him.


 No.985

>>944

*sigh* I believe you'll also find racist attitudes are a big turnoff. Especially considering more traditional cultures also happen to be made up of people of other races.


 No.986

>>976

Not exactly hunting animals here, Nimrod.


 No.994

Stop being a nazi.


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 No.1035

>>1030

Is this shopped? I can't tell by the pixels.


 No.1061

>>983

>Get a decent job

No, not a *decent* job. A *decent* job will never cut it if they intend to support the lifestyle they want with theirs as the only source of income.

If you want the girl to be the traditional wife for you, you better make sure her and your children's lives are more comfortable than having her earn her own money.


 No.1062

>>928

Yeah this. The kind of girls this board wants won't go for some autistic imageboard shitposter. You know how you all like to complain about modern women? The girls share similar sentiments about modern men.


 No.1065

>>1061

I disagree.

Your mistake is in the assumption that a traditional life is as costly as a modern wageslave life. It's possible for a traditional couple to raise children quite comfortably while only taking a job for part of the year, and even to have money left over for old age and education for the children.

Do not forget that the work of a housewife has monetary value on par with that of a full time job. Through repairs/alteration of clothes, gardening, cooking, etc the family does not need to earn as much money. Neither does the family need to pay for childcare, as the children are cared for by mother and father. The children also learn the skills necessary to run a household; money and property may be stolen, skills may not.


 No.1066

>>1065

>It's possible for a traditional couple to raise children quite comfortably while only taking a job for part of the year, and even to have money left over for old age and education for the children.

Right. How?


 No.1070

>>1066

Don't live in the city. Have a garden, have some chickens, hunt. The work is rewarding because it's not abstracted at all. If you kill three geese you get to eat three geese. If you grow a lot of really great garlic you get to enjoy it. If you've never met anyone who lives like this and you live in north america then I'd advise you to do some traveling and meet people like that just so you can see how they do it.

If you want to live in the city (why?), even having a decent job paying 50-60 grand a year is perfectly fine if you have someone to take care of the house. Don't be so pessimistic.

Maybe you have this attitude because you have no skills and don't think you can find a job capable of sustaining a family. There is a great opportunity in trades right now. All the old tradesmen are dying off and the young people are mostly not interested in that kind of work. Do a few years of trade school as a machinist or plumber and you'll find you can make good money running your own business. It takes patience and attention to detail to succeed but you can learn both of those traits.

It's not all about money, trust me. If earning more money meant you'd get a wife then I'd have like 4 wives by now. Money matters but at the same time it doesn't.


 No.1071

>>1070

The first option is not easy at all and you cannot afford to raise a whole litter of kids with the second.




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