>>10167
>It's not nearly as dire as that, though I grant the true nature of /pol/, the far right, and sexuality is hard to get a handle on.
Sexuality can be hard to get a handle on. The far right, though, is not so nebulous. /pol/ tolerates these elements to the extent that some of its members get off on certain things and have little incentive to come down on themselves as degenerates (of course many still do and struggle with the cognitive dissonance of realizing they are what they hate), but ideologically /pol/ champions a set of ideas which openly and firmly oppose transsexuality in every form. That isn't to say that OP's quest is impossible, clearly it isn't, but OP is appealing to a group of people whose codified belief system believes people like OP should simply not exist, which you are quick enough to point out. That makes /pol/'s behavior fuzzier and out of sync with their stated ideals, but their stated ideals are clearly against any form of sexual or romantic relationship outside of one biological man with one biological woman who can produce racially pure children, we all know this. /pol/ members who are not attracted to traps or other men have little patience for it, and by their own standards, they make the rules long before anyone with a newfound or, God forbid, Jew-supported sexuality does. OP needs to find the exception to that rule that can still be as close as possible to ideological purity while still knowingly subverting that standard which many hold as the fundamental cornerstone of traditional society. A backbone and sense of self-sufficiency even outside of other NatSoc associates is absolutely a requirement, not simply for finding a relationship like the one she describes, but especially for keeping it.
>The entire alt right is filled with people who are into every form of extreme sexuality.
Yes, and this has been historically true as well, but it's also been historically true that they lose to their socially conservative former allies, or else keep their sexualities as secret as possible. A transsexual national socialist had better hope she passes or that her partner is in enough of a position of power that it won't be rejected outright. This was true from the beginning; the NSDAP would never have attained the power it did if it were not for its earliest militant arm, the vehemently gay brownshirts. Rohm was a hop, skip, and a jump away from Hitler's position and in large part, gay men won Germany for the national socialists, who then did their best to purge Germany of the gay men who just fought for it. Since then, there has indeed been a constant subsection of fascism which flouts its own sexual codes, but that doesn't mean fascism in practice is any kinder to its members with alternative sexualities, many of which, as you pointed out, are quick to distance themselves from their sexuality and even to reject it wholesale.
If the alt-right movement is to succeed, its members with differing sexualities–and there are a decent number of them–should take special precautions to defend their own families and ways of life unless their goal is to bring about a NatSoc state and then die as degenerates who at least helped to rid the world of people like them. It was not a mistake that the homosexuality of the SA was used to justify its enfeebling after Rohm's execution; whatever the personal tolerances of those leading Germany and even Hitler himself, they had no real issues purging most or all of their homosexual members once they had served their purpose. If OP wishes to keep her family for the long haul and is genuine in her devotion to her newfound politics, if she is a 'true believer,' she would do well to keep this in mind.
>Thankfully, the growing alt right movement is changing that.
If it does, it does, but there's no guarantee of that. The sexualities of the supporters of an ideology don't necessarily have anything to do with whether that ideology supports them. National socialism is about preserving and advancing the race above all else, certainly above the comfort and lives of its supporters, which is one reason why when it was put into power, it lasted all of twelve years before its leaders were mostly dead or powerless. However, we don't live in a world where national socialists are in power, and for the time being, its less-savory characters only pose a threat to OP if she's being purposefully self-destructive. /pol/ members are kinder on boards like /trap/ and /cuteboys/ and boards which explicitly cater to alternative sexualities, but it's selection bias. I may have misspoke earlier when I said OP should ask /pol/. OP should probably be asking here first and foremost and then let /pol/ users come to her instead, which filters out most of the national socialists there who are very much against it. This is probably the best place to ask about this sort of thing anyways and she'll get the most bang for her buck.