No.84
Dear fellow wizards,
as the post says, Im just too scared of screwing up , neither Sex itself, nor women but way too fucking scared to emberass myself completly. I had a coupe of chances to have Sex with different girls (not too ugly ones either), but i just chickened out. Its always the same way, i meet a girl, be charming confident and a little crazy (add variing period of time, 2h- 3weeks) and voila we are making out and POOF all of my previous confidence is gone and my anxiety wins over resulting in me on my heels i n full flight with the Excuses like: Sorry i have no condoms on me, I'm I'm sorry, mostly senseless stuttering. Afterwards i sit at home get smashed and or High and hate myself. What to do about it? am i alone with this ?
PS: Im drunk and high as fuck and english isnt my mothertongue so pls excuse my bad language skills
No.85
Sounds like 'love-shyness' rather than general anxiety. You could try Brian G. Gilmartin's book if you can ignore the stuff about Kirlean auras.
Unfortunately it looks like wikipedia has deleted all of their articles on the subject, which were where I started in finding out I wasn't the only one in the world. They wont be getting any more donations from me.