>>32546
> I literally dont know how to go in and kiss a girl, when to do it, how to move my head, what to do with my hands
The basic pattern is this:
1. raise her attraction. You can do this by being witty (making her laugh) or being popular or advertising your good genes (by having a good body, or being an athlete, or even dancing is good).
Pro tip: if a girl expresses attraction toward you, don't question it, you fucking moron. Don't say, "really? why?" just act like you knew it all along and proceed to step 2.
2. get her alone. I mean technically, you can kiss her anywhere, but that's a little more advanced. You're a noob, so take her some place private. This is literally as simple as holding out your hand and letting her take it. Then just lead her somewhere. Like if you're at a party, you're chating her up, you notice that nobody is out by the pool, hold out your hand and say, "come on" and she'll follow you (if you've completed step 1).
Pro tip: don't bother with dates, especially since you're inexperienced. A traditional dinner date is just going to be like an awkward job interview. Instead, cultivate a social circle. Join as many clubs as you can, even if everyone in this is a retard. Get invited to parties. Then when you meet a girl, you can invite her to that cookout at your buddy's house, or that concert your friends are going to. That is so much better than a regular date.
3. maintain physical contact. Stay close to her. Don't sit is separate chairs or whatever. Put your arm around her. It's okay to be nervous, but know that if you don't stay close, you wont get a chance to kiss.
Note: if she's pulling away from you, or just generally resisting you, then you didn't complete step 1 (admittedly, the hardest). Don't act like it's the end of the world, just move on to another girl. There's no magical incantation that will make a particular girl like you. If your game's not working, cut your loses, and don't waste more time.
4. kiss her.
4.a. look for a pause in the conversation.
4.b. look at her.
Note: If she doesn't look back, then she's not attracted to you - and may have just let you put your arm around her to avoid saying "no". No big deal. Just abort and try again with another girl.
4.c. hold eye contact for just about 2 seconds. Look down at her lips, then back up at her eyes. That's all the delay you need.
4.d. move your head in her direction. If you've followed all the steps above, she'll do the same. And you'll be kissing.
Protip: guys who get shot down have skipped a step, or misread a step - I guarantee it. Like guys who go for a first kiss at the door at the end of a date. Lol. Skipped step 3. People who bump heads. Lol. Skipped step 4.c.
If you think this was good advice, then I'll throw this out there: I hang out on plebbit in the /r/askTRP subreddit, and I know that some dudes need detailed no-BS shit that's useful and judgement-free. So, I'm honestly trying to help.