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>How do you know you will get along with a girl?
Because I'd meet her beforehand and see if I got along with her, most likely. Otherwise, because I've been around girls before, and I know I enjoy the activities they typically enjoy, and their company in general.
>Babysitting is not the same as full time parent.
Not completely, sure, but most of it, yes, at least if you do it enough.
Only difference is the child is (supposed to be) less close to you than their parents, and as a result being less likely to listen to you. Then of course, there's more time "on" than "off," unlike with babysitting.
I'd love to "work" more and be "on" more, and I've already had girls I babysit, and boys, who are more close to me than their parents and never cause a fuss, ever since they saw I'm fair and treat them as people too.
>How will you handle her being bullied by mean girls?
It depends.
What does she want to do about it, who is doing it, does she like the school, why is she being bullied, etc.
I'd be willing to move if that's what was needed so that she could go to another school, or of course home school her.
>When she is screaming and crying(?)
Again, it depends.
It'd probably always be along the lines of asking her what's wrong and comforting her.
Kids don't cry and scream for no reason, so I'd probably already know. A simple hug/min-cuddle and either explaining that I can't, or giving her what she wants/needs usually solves any problem.
If it's something more troubling, such as if I adopted an older kid who was abused, then it may depend beyond that, but generally a little genuine care and possibly affection and/or understandings will fix that right up.
>When she starts her period?
I'd teach her about her period, what it means, etc, and be willing to help her as much as she needs. I'd likely have let her know beforehand.
I'd likely want my mother to be a part of her life, at least to some degree, so she could always help out with that if she needs anymore help, or isn't comfortable with mine for whatever reason.
>Wants to talk to an adult woman about feminine issues?
>You aren't a woman and no matter how close you too are you can't replace that as a man.
Such as?
Regardless, like I said, I have a mother who would be joyed to be around her, and also, people whine about me for being a "tranny" for a reason. I act, feel, relate to, etc etc, with females more than males.
Us being close may not make up for some things that a man usually can't give, but me being more in the female stereotype/behavior pattern than the male one certainly will.
>You both and others have fantasy ideas with raising kids and thus don't get how difficult it is.
It's not difficult though. If you actually loved kids and spent time with them you would understand that it's not really difficult. It's time consuming, and "hard work," but it's definitely not difficult. It's probably one of the easiest things you can ask me to do in fact.
You may say "hard work" and it taking up time makes it difficult, but it doesn't, that just simply means you shouldn't have children, ever. It being tiring and "hard work" and taking up your entire day every day should not make it difficult, but rather make it something you really need to understand before committing to. But once you make that commitment, it should be the time of your life. If you aren't sure it will be, you probably shouldn't be a parent as it'll be difficult to you and you'll likely mistreat your children as a result, to try to make it "easier."
>Women get on my nerves but i know kids not having 2 parents fucks them over.
Women don't get on my nerves, I just don't fall for them or want to sex them, so I can't be in a relationship with them without being completely dishonest, but I still don't see why not having two parents, or a man and a woman, fucks a child over.
That shit makes it sound like you're from /pol/.
Your argument for that is "role-models," isn't it?
Sorry to break it to you, but a single woman raising a little girl doesn't need a husband to raise her daughter correctly and show her what a good relationship is like. She just needs to love her daughter, treat her good, and not keep her locked in a box.
Her daughter, if raised properly and cared for, will naturally see good examples of men, friends, get a good "work ethic," and all those other things you may say the little girl needs a male role model in her life for. The same would be true for my daughter if I didn't have a wife to be her mother.
>Also adopting for sexual reasons will fuck you over. These people are trying to sniff out your kind.
I believe you're projecting here, seeing as I certainly didn't suggest that, ever, and the other guy says basically the opposite of that as well.
>Especially if you only want a girl.
>They will ask why not a boy, why not adopt a teenager, etc.
>Also picking cute girls won't look good either.
I want a girl because I've always wanted a little sister, my (lgf) cousins daughter would likely want another girl around, I've always seemed to be better with girls, and girls are typically less aggressive.
It'd depend on what age I'm adopting, but those could be some potential reasons.
They may ask why not a boy, and I can't blatantly tell them I don't enjoy a lot of boy activities, and I really enjoy my time with my (lgf) cousins daughter, who I babysit, and get along with her very well, and I think she'd love to have another girl around to play with.
Alternatively, I can just not have a preference, then find a girl a really like, and say I wanna adopt her.
Lastly, everyone picks cute girls.
That's no big deal. Regardless, unless they're disfigured or have polio or something of such, they'll likely be pretty dang cute.
Little girls always seem to be.
>Who are your references IRL?
Mine would be countless members of my family with children, possibly their children, many people I babysit for occasionally aside from family, etc.
>Who would would be next in line if you become incapacitated?
My mother would definitely do it. If not, possibly her twin or my cousin, although I'd really prefer my cousin not have her, due to her husband being an asshole.
She'd still have my lgf there, so I'd be okay with it though. And yes, all of them have said they would take my child if I ever have one.
>If the girl is curious you will say the traps that other pedosexuals set up "this is our secret" that would expose you.
Only retarded rapists say shit like that, people who are doing it just for their self.
Oh, and I know girls and boys who have been in the adoption system. I used to go to a church where half their kids were adopted, with my cousins, and tons were molested or abused, but none acted out or was mean.
The girls were still the nice angelic lolis you'd figure them to be just looking at them.