>>26097
>it's definitely not fun regardless of age to think you have a genuine relationship with someone only to find out they either weren't being honest with you about why they were touching you, or they were just flat out lying to you in order to bust a nut.
Well of course not.
Personally I think such "relationships" shouldn't be allowed regardless. If someone uses some kid, in my opinion, they should get some of, if not, the largest punishment/"treatment."
I don't think those relationships are good despite your age, and people will nearly always regret them, not to mention they're almost entirely due to society's degeneration over the years and a sex-based culture becoming the norm.
>>26134
>they just decide to randomly whip out their dick to their cousin or something.
I really have begun believing they aren't pedos.
I'd take a hard look at these people and really try to figure out if they are pedos. What I've seen is that they nearly never are. They're usually just classic degenerates or normies with fetishes that went out of control, rather than genuinely just finding the girls attractive physically (or emotionally).
Hebes are somewhat like that, but usually to non-related girls. Pedos aren't from what I've seen, as we still have parental instincts that prevent us from being as vapid about sex.
>>26135
You should love her enough to say no while being nice to her about it, as to not risk the relationship you two have.
If you don't, you shouldn't be around her.
If she starts doing whatever the hell you consider an advance, say, getting on your lap and rubbing back in forth and trying to kiss you, kiss her, give her a big hug and tell her we can't.
She shouldn't be upset. You shouldn't be upset.
>>26139
Seeing as you didn't get what I said, you clearly aren't a native English speaker. I'm guessing you're south American based on how you speak and describe.
Yes, there are cultural differences in such a case, down there little girls, or soon-to-be teenagers are taught to dance in a sexual way and generally try to be arousing to normies. I think it's disgusting personally, I hate south American culture, specifically Brazil, in this sense.
As I said though, the vast majority of girls aren't like that anywhere - wanting to be hurt. Not all are the same, but that 0.01% that like being hurt, if even that, likely aren't that way naturally. They were abused, like you described.
That doesn't mean you should continue that abuse, it means you should try to heal it and be gentle to them, to get them to see there's more than just pain that they think they either deserve or can only be pleased by.