A case for quitting and recalibrating

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A case for quitting and recalibrating Anonymous 08/23/15 (Sun) 15:10:00 No.27200

Hey guys. Forgive me if this topic has been done before, but I couldn't find one on the first few pages, so…

Basically, I've made the decision to step away entirely from young models, hebe, loli, the works. It just seems like a losing battle that only gets worse with time. I'm 25, been looking at youngin's since I was 12, and I don't want it to negatively affect my life any more than it has already.

I'm lucky, I'm not exclusive. I do find women attractive (young women, granted, but anything under 30 is good for me). But I have found myself increasingly less attracted to SUPER hot girls I sleep with. My dick basically all but stopped working for this one chick recently just because she was SLIGHTLY chubby. At the rate I'm going, it's unlikely I'd ever be satisfied with a long term adult relationship, and I don't want that.

For many years I was in the "fuck what modern society thinks, people were fucking young girls for centuries" camp. And this is true. And may be true again in the future. But thinking that way is just inviting frustration into your life, because now that is not the case. History will show that now is a very bad time to be attracted to minors. Sucks for us.

So, I'm about 4 days in. Deleted everything I have. I've relapsed before, and who knows, might again. But this time, I have a clear recognition that this is just gonna cause me so much less strife overall. Also fortunately I live in southeast Asia, so its very easy to hit on 18-20 year olds that look 16, so I'm doing that. Switching back to standard porn too.

Sure, I wish things could be different. It'd be nice to never have taken this ticket out of the genetic lottery. Or, to have lived in a time when things were different. But there's no practicality in thinking that way. So this is where I'm headed. I'd encourage others to join me. No one will ever have sympathy for us except us. Say whatever derisive stuff you want about "normies," but there might just be a way back for us.

Ask yourself if you're TRULY exclusive. Even if you are, I think with the right mindset it would be possible to recondition yourself. And for those of you that recoil at the thought of this, consider this: which is better? Giving this an honest shot, or being doomed to a life of constant frustration and isolation, where the best case scenario is a life of fantasy, and the worst is a prison sentence? Because, fact is… statistically, you're not gonna get a lgf.

Let's do this, guys.

Anonymous 08/23/15 (Sun) 18:33:21 No.27202

That's nice for you, but I enjoy my relationships and am satisfied with my life, so I'll pass. Good luck.

Anonymous 08/23/15 (Sun) 20:07:01 No.27204

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>statistically, you're not gonna get a lgf.

sez the guy with no lgf

i have one

so i say to you…

tfwqt2ptlgf:3 08/23/15 (Sun) 23:12:17 No.27207

I'm definitely exclusive and definitely already tried to change for too long previously, so that's not an option, and will stick to having a lgf.

Just go buy some Chinese qt to cuddle and adopt as your daughter.

Anonymous 08/24/15 (Mon) 03:46:51 No.27215

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I'm pretty confident that I'm exclusive. I've given it an honest try with a couple of women before. The relationships were forgettable, and the sex was difficult. It took a lot of focus to keep going. And really, what's the point if I have to imagine little girls while I do it? I was going to dabble in faggotry, but the whole idea was just offputting so I never even tried.

Well, good luck for you though. I hope you find happiness.

Anonymous 08/24/15 (Mon) 04:03:35 No.27217

>>27215

> The relationships were forgettable, and the sex was difficult. It took a lot of focus to keep going.

This is how many normies feel about sex and relationships.

I vastly prefer little cuties, but I also think many adult women are beautiful and I can get along with them fine, so I have no reason not to try.

Anonymous 08/24/15 (Mon) 10:31:19 No.27220

>>27215

OP here. I've had a bunch of experiences with different women since I was 16, some of it good, some of it not. A few forgettable experiences doesn't mean you can't find one that isn't. Besides, practice makes perfect. Throughout these years, even though loli and young models were my fap material, I still have had a very successful real sex life with women my age. I just think it's time to move on and commit fully to that. Hanging back is just gonna make things worse as I get older.

Granted, I'm hebe through and through. 13+ is what I'm into. I don't really see a huge enough difference between 18 and, say, 15. Especially in Asia, and being a young-looking 25, 18 year olds aren't weirded out by me. Which is a major part of why I think I need to get back on the normie track NOW, while I still can wean myself into normie situations using girls that are still young.

There's nothing to lose from giving it an honest shot. OK, it's not IMPOSSIBLE to have a successful lgf situation. But it's so difficult and unlikely and fraught with peril that I, for one, am not willing to attempt it.

Anonymous 08/24/15 (Mon) 12:19:50 No.27222

if you quit on lgf then the terrorists win

Anonymous 08/24/15 (Mon) 18:05:49 No.27228

I don't think i am 100% exclusive, but I very much prefer prepubescent girls. Frankly women seem like a lot of effort for little reward.

That said, I do see where you are coming from. Sometimes I do desire female companionship. I also sometimes really want to have children - this requires a woman, and I can only see this desire getting stronger in future.

Sadly for me I am not in south east asia, I am in the west, where women are generally less attractive for pedos (they are taller and fatter, at least).

Anonymous 08/27/15 (Thu) 10:02:56 No.27330

>>27200

You'll relapse in a two weeks. There's no fighting your true nature.

Pewpew 08/28/15 (Fri) 08:56:07 No.27350

>>27200

So could you like pass them to me instead of deleting them ?? Hahaha. I'm in SEA too!

Anonymous 08/28/15 (Fri) 09:03:18 No.27351

>>27350

shitskin pls go

Pewpew 08/28/15 (Fri) 09:05:30 No.27352

>>27351

OK tell me where to go I'll bring my HDD.

Haha jk

Anonymous 08/30/15 (Sun) 12:47:42 No.27475

Much respect for anyone using any excuse to get their shit together, but seriously dude…be realistic. Worst case don't be ashamed of who you know you are.

After many years online and many more before that really liking girls 4-9, there's no more shame in who or what I like.

I dunno about the word exclusive. It seems like something invented by idiots thinking they can change or control men. As long as you know who you are and what you want outta life…what's the problem?

Anonymous 08/30/15 (Sun) 20:00:00 No.27492

>>27220

I'm with you OP….all the way.

I just ended a real good relationship cause of the porn mindset. I wish you and I the best of luck. You're one step further than I but we are not the only ones wishing to stop. Many too, read but dont post a reply. Take care and remember there's always a better choice. If you can't do it for yourself than for the sake that your parents raised you and expect better of you if they only knew.