/younglove/ - Pedophilia Discussion

I came out to two women, and was forced to come out to my family.

One of the women was accepting, the other was also into little girls.

As for my family, they weren't happy about it, but they didn't disown me.

It all depends on how you think your family will react if you tell them.

>>28177

How did you say it? I think you did not just say "yo i am a pedophile"

>>28179

I don't remember the exact words I used with the first woman. I think it was along the lines of asking her to shave her pussy (I hate pussy hair) and telling her I like bald pussy because I like young girls. Or we role played her being younger or something. It was so long ago I don't recall.

The second woman actually brought it up in a way. She asked me one night if "daddy needed some love". I asked if she liked that fantasy (she did) and then asked what age she liked to be (around 12).

Then she asked me what age of girls I like and I told her I like girls her daughter's ages (they were 5 & 6 at the time). She admitted she liked being younger than 12 but thought I would think it was gross, then admitted she was turned on by fantasies of little girls too.

As for my family, like I said, I didn't really tell them just for the sake of telling them. It was something I was forced to do.

>>28176

Whatever you may be planning on doing, whatever you hear in this thread,

Do not do it

However well you trust this person, or however the outcome, this information will leak. And even if you're surrounded by the friendliest people in the world, most of the world isn't so nice. You will damage your reputation, you will come under suspicion, and your daily life will be affected.

Take this from someone who's watched many crash and burn on their first step out of the closet.

>>28187

Hmm i even think my family is starting to suspect something so it seems like i should think of a way to hide it better…

But thanks for the advice.

Coming out might be just as bad as being outed. I'd concentrate on making sure your thoughts don't impact your life or anybody else's in a bad way. But if you do come out to friends and family it might work out.

My parents have known for a long time and it's something we don't talk about. A few of my friends had known for years before I officially came out to them, and at first they assumed I was into both girls AND boys. After setting them straight about how I only liked girls it was like they thought "…Oh! OK. So he's stuck in little league, but at least he's on the home team? I think I can live with that."

It's all about how you go about it and how cool your friends and family are.

>>28176

> if it actually is a good idea

It's not. Your family will be angry/disappointed with you. Depending on how much they hate pedos they might disown you, ship you off to rehab or just argue with you for a while then leave it as a taboo topic that lingers on everyone's mind but no one talks about.