>>So would it be okay if she gave me one?
No - 8 is to young. Wait if she is 10 or 12.
0 - 9 to close to that what we name 'child abuse'.
Ask her not us. Cooperate with her not with pedophiles. Deny "advice" from pedophiles, she gives the best advice. Fuck WITH your girl not AGAINST her.
Thank you that you reflect your behavior.
She is your angel, your rainbow.
Talk with the girl about your fear. Don't name it sex if you mean sexual tenderness.