hi guys i really want you to know that you are not alone there are people here in thejudgemental world that support you ,u know u can do some things ,it's just about knowing some pshychology,how to talk to them you can get kisses and action you just have to be patient and make the kid enjoy it so much that they will feel to good guilty to tell their parents anyway i just wanna say that there is only a matter of time before things change i just hope that u live until then!Good luck and freedom is in our hands!