OK, I'm settling this once and for all because all of this autistic shitposting got me fucking annoyed
>TL;DR If you are attracted to children you're a pedo and that's all there is to it, so shut up and give a hand to your brother in arms
So now, it doesn't matter how much you wanna sugar coat pedophilia, it will always mean the same "sexual attraction towards children" it doesn't say it's exclusive, it doesn't say you have to be romantically attached to them, it doesn't say anything else and you wanna know why? because it's a sexual orientation, and as with any other sexual orientation it only deals with the sexual attraction, the other aspects of your child-loving self have nothing to do with the actual definition of what pedophilia is
If non-exclusive pedophilia was a fetish then exclusive pedophilia would be too, because a fetish is when your sexual arousal comes from factors that aren't related to the actual sexual relationship, in this case being the age said external factor. The only difference would be that an exclusive would be like a more hardcore fetishist, but we know this isn't correct, because it's a sexual orientation
Non-exclusive know exactly how it feels being a pedo, because regardless of them being able to hold relationships with older women or not they are still not able to hold said relationships with little girls, and no, being an non-exclusive doesn't make you blind to those aspects of the personality that little girls have and adults don't, which mean they will still long for it as much as you do, even if they have had adult-adult relationships. Non-exclusive have also a lot to deal with, for example, if they get a wife or a girlfriend they will have to lie to them all of their lives because of the fear of them rejecting them, and being rejected by the (allegedly) love of your life just because you have this attraction is a kind of pain you exclusives will never experience(getting caught by their parents and them telling her that you are a monster for being a pedo is not the same, and that could happen to a non-exclusive as well) just as non-exclusives won't necessarily feel that loneliness of yours (which is not really true because being non-exclusive doesn't mean you magically will find a women to like you). The point is that we are different but we all feel the consequences of living in this world that hates our guts
And btw, being exclusive doesn't mean being doomed into loneliness, because you could still find a woman who'd like you that you might find pleasant to be with, maybe not sexually/romantically but you can see them as a closer friend, a partner or even as means to get an lgf, you know, the same kind of relationship you could have with your lgf once she gets older
I know you'll attack me for saying child love is not "inherent" with the word pedophilia but it is the truth, the "philia" in pedophilia is not there to represent the greek meaning of the world but instead it's there so it can be classified as a paraphilia, which in the end are just about sexual desires regardless of what their names actually mean (having "philia" on it doesn't mean an urophilie will fall in love with other people's urine)
And to close this wall of text I'm going to tell you about me, I used to be an exclusive pedo, I used to think everyone out there was evil and bad and only little girls were worth a dime, but then I met a good person and understood that life isn't as black and white as you want to make it to be. I hope you stop this useless fight and understand that we can only get somewhere if we are united as a group