No.14
As this is a pretty new board, thought I'd make a new thread on a fun topic. Anyone else here (unless it's just me and a mod) into having their orgasms controlled? Locked up and told every night that you might get to cum if you're a good boy or simply tied up, stroked and toyed with until she's had enough. Stories welcome, or fetishes/fantasies, thought it'd make a cute first thread
No.15
I have fantasized about having a chastity cage on and do jack off to chastity and ruined orgasms occasionally, but I'm not sure I would like it IRL. I can't really try it out though, because
>tfw no gf
No.16
>>15I had a online mistress for a while (one of my former pets, weird relationship) who kept me in chastity. After the second day I can't think of anything but cumming, it's torturous but so good
No.22
>>16Who paid for the chastity cage?
No.25
>>14Why is she acting like she can feel it?
No.30
Ruined orgasms count as orgasm control, right?
No.36
>>25Fast guess - The harness puts pressure on/around her vag when she thrusts.
No.37
>>22I did, I had one already for one of my male pets so I thought why not
>>36A lot of women strapon-fucking get off just on doing it, even if it doesn't rub them
No.38
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Wish I could find a woman that is into chastity and strapon domination. I probably know loads of them but they hide it well.
No.40
>>38I'm more into the teasing, denial side of femdom but if I hadn't cum in a few days, I'm not sure I could say no to a prostate, strapon milking >.>
No.43
I love this place already :D
No.44
>>43I'm glad :3
I'll keep this thread alive for a bit until it's clear whether this place is going to be awesome or just fall off, it all depends if we get some more people or not
No.45
My only sadness is that "chastity belt" so often means "chastity device". As a proper belt owner, seeing guys in dinky little cages just doesn't cut it for me.
No.47
What counts as a flood?
No.49
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You'd think we could have lost one of the shittier aspects of halfchan.
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Is it merely a case of having some words?
No.51
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word
No.64
>>45I'd never go for a belt, a cage looks cute but a belt would feel way too constricting
I bet you can't deadlift in one either
No.71
I need to find me a domme for a backdoor hammertime and milking sesh
No.75
>>71I'm more into the loving side of it than the Bdsm dungeon, but good luck anyway mate
No.76
>>75That sounds nice as welll
No.82
>>75Only part of submission I'm into on my end
Loving, soft, teasing, controlling~
No.140
Christ, I need a cage. Anybody have any experience with entry level belts? Something lower-end, not meant to be worn long-term. I've been looking at the jailhouse device.
No.142
>>140I wore a cage for a while with an online domme (former pet of mine, weird story). It's infuriating to wear, I normally cum several times a day and not being able to makes me so much more submissive and desperate, it's insane
No.145
>>142A former pet of yours becoming your dom? How did that happen?
No.148
>>145I train sissies as a hobbie, I've got a number right now who I care for deeply. My special little kitty girl (main pet) and I have been together for almost a year now, most of my other pets I took in about 2-4 months ago.
However one sissy boy I'd had for about six months, way back before any of my current subs, started talking to me semi-lately. She's started thinking of transitioning, her tiny little dick was hardly working anyway and she always felt better as more feminine, so it made sense. It also made her more dominant though, and I've got a tiny, rare little part of me that loves sweet, in control women owning me >.>
So yeah, for a little bit she slowly took control and locked up my cock. Fun times and I miss it, I'm mostly dominant but having so much responsibility all the time wears you out a little, just relaxing as someone's hard, throbbing toy and for once, having to ask permission to cum rather than demand it of my pets, really got me going
No.231
I've never worn a cage or belt or anything. Do they hurt? What's the general feeling?
No.237
>>231Nope, they don't hurt, just feel… secure, around your cock. When you try to get hard it just firmly presses down around you so you can't, it feels like being soft but with an ache to cum that builds over time.
It's both infuriating, torture and bliss, and it'll make you so submissive to your keyholder
No.241
>>237I wanted always try one, but doesn´t make this your penis sore over time?
No.245
>>241No idea, I've never tried one for long enough to tell. The cheaper ones pinch at it but the better ones don't, so the only soreness I can think of is the building desire to cum. Your balls will ache, as if you hadn't wanked for days, but that's just natural when you don't cum for a while
No.247
>>245Ok, thanks for the information.
No.272
more dump
No.323
>>272That gif is making me desperate to have my cock locked up…
No.324
No.329
No.361
>>30moar like this? her face and giggling is making my dick diamonds
No.389
>>148Post more stories, pls.
No.390
My mistress wants me to buy a cock cage (she was originally into one that sounds while you wear it but my cock gets really small when soft and is really thick so the tub would be ineffective I think)
I'm very new to this but I don't want to spend alot of money any suggestions?
No.397
>>389About what, my pets or the little I did with that online domme?
>>390Spend money is a good suggestion, so take it. The cheaper ones will pinch and break, putting you off a great kink, so save up and get something good like the CB series, or the Holy Trainer. Good luck bitch, I hope you and her have lots of fun but don't skimp out if you can help it
No.411
Contributing.
No.413
>>411D'aww, tiny little thing looks so cute locked up
No.449
I saw a post somewhere talking about male chastity. It encouraged the female to make life for the male as sexual and arousing as possible, so he doesn't just forget he's in chastity. It even recommended daily sessions in which the male is tied down, released from chastity, and then repeatedly edged. It was probably the hottest depiction of the fetish I had ever seen. It made me really curious.
No.450
>>449>that entire postI'm trying not to cum tonight, I might have to now
I'd love to do the same thing with my subs, tying their hands behind their back, gagging them, getting their cocks out to lube up and stroke. Just as they start physically begging (thrusting into your hand), leg go, cuddle them til they go down and lock it back up, whispering in their ear "Good boy, I might let you cum tomorrow"
Don't know whether I'd prefer that done by me, or done me though…
No.451
>>450Yeah, it's the first I'd ever heard of chastity in a way that made me want to try it. Otherwise I think I'd just completely forget about it.
No.452
>>451Give it a try, it's worth knowing for sure
No.483
>>14>>75>>82>>324Has anyone here actually done pegging while in chastity? Is it enjoyable? (by which I mean, can you cum from it?)
No.490
>>483Never done pegging, but I know it's easy for a guy to cum just from prostate stimulation. Chastity on his cock just makes it easier over time as he learns to enjoy anal play more, and has to rely on it for orgasms, it's partly why those two kinks are so often linked
No.503
>>411I meant to post this one as well, but 8chan ate the other image. I love the woman's expression.
No.506
>>503>tfw far more used to people looking shocked at your cockAnyone else more into people seeing your dick as some sort of toy, to cherish and enjoy, lock up and keep hard when it's taken out of the cage for as long as they want to ride it, rather than something to make fun of?
No.509
No.510
>>509Sure, what do you want to know?
No.511
>switchy
>into chastity
One day. Mark my words, one day I will find another switchy guy/girl who's hopefully into chastity as well.
The idea of taking turns locking each other up for a week or two and teasing each other until we're shivering with lust is such a turn on.
No.512
>>511Hnngg, you're making me shiver with lust
I'd love punishing someone for teasing me, keeping them locked up for days and milking their prostate while caged every night
And then getting
locked up myself and facing you with the key No.513
>>512What Country/State do ya live in?
Not planning to ever meetup or anything, but would be interesting if we lived in the same state.
Also, you have no idea how relieving it is to know that there are other switchy people with chastity fetishes
No.514
>>513England, I bet you're in the US sadly. I'm not that switchy, normally very dominant. It's just when I haven't cum in a while, I get so submissive
>That and pic related No.515
>>514Yup, US here.
>It's just when I haven't cum in a while, I get so submissiveOh god, I know that feel. I imagine it would be like a loop for me if I ever got locked into chastity.
A delicious, constantly horny and submissive, mind melting loop. hnng
No.516
>>515Such a shame
I'd enjoy breaking you down, making you bed, teasing your caged cock and knowing you'd do just as much to me next week. Breaking you til you cum through the cage, taking it off and letting you tie my hands so you can lock it on me
No.517
>>516pls, if you keep talking to me like that I'll have to uncontrollably masturbate!
No.518
>>517No you're not. You're leaving that cock alone, you're cute when you're frisky
No.519
No.520
>>519There's my good boy~
No.521
>>520>good boyI swear, that turns me on so much. It's like some sort of trigger word for "Oh, go into your submissive mode now!"
No.522
>>510Oh, just any cute/hot stories that stand out.
No.523
>>521Well of course doggie, you're cute nice and horny so you are a good boy. Keep your hands off that hard little dick though~
>>522One that I always enjoy is when my kitty girl came without permission, the first time. I wanted to teach her that her orgasms are a treat that I give, so I tied her up on the bed, gagged and blindfolded, and sunk a thick purple vibrator in her ass. Left it there for about 40 minutes while I played on my PC, toyed with it and pinched her nipples every now and then. She came about once every 2-3 minutes the entire time, she was so sore when I pulled it out. So I fucked her, and told her that cumming is a treat I give her when she's good, or a punishment I'll hand out when she's bad. Simply, mine to control, not hers
>tfw cute obedient kittyLove her so much
No.524
>>523>Keep your hands off that hard little dick though~Fine! It's not like I enjoy being teased and not allowed to touch myself by strange anons or a-anything!
>that entire storyMore please! They are making me squirm imagining myself in your subs place.
No.526
>>524Don´t be ashamed, anon. I´m exactly like that. Someone says good boy and i go into full woof woof mode. Good to know there are more bisexual subs here.
No.527
>>526Oh, I'm not ashamed.
That was meant in a teasing, cute sorta way.
No.529
>>527Kinda like how when I'm in a domme mood and teasing a sub, they might blush and wiggle and say 'stahp' but not mean it.
No.530
No.531
>>524So cute~
Sure, one more, about her cumming without permission again :3 This time I wanted to humiliate her a little, make her learn that she's under my control again. So I blindfolded her, stripped her from the waist down and locked her out on the balcony, over a public footpath outside out house. It's pretty busy, so she was desperately crossing her legs and trying to hide her tiny little dick (transgirl). I don't want people seeing my slutty kitten though, so I'd put a massive blanket over the railing after I blindfolded her, it was adorable seeing her struggling when no-one could see anything~
>>526So am I >.>
These chastity gifs are really not helping me stay out of a sub mood
No.532
>>531Oh gosh, what you did to her sounds hot and fun as all hell. You have something precious there, take care of her.
Also, I'm precumming everywhere from those stories and the .gifs. But I promised you anons, I won't cum for at least a day or two and I won't!
>these chastity gifs are really not helping me stay out of a sub moodWhy fight it? There's certainly nothing wrong with fantasizing about being locked up and reduced to a horny fucktoy for someone else!
No.533
>>532I know. She's very lucky to have me and I love her more than anything. I'll be checking in a few days that you haven't cum~
>Why fight it? There's certainly nothing wrong with fantasizing about being locked up and reduced to a horny fucktoy for someone else!Unf, really not helping at all. Though I'm not like most chastity subs, I'd rather have my cock used as the toy, ass perhaps only played with to milk it >.>
No.534
>>533>I'll be checking in a few days that you haven't cum~I'll definitely be waiting~
>Unf, really not helping at all. Though I'm not like most chastity subs, I'd rather have my cock used as the toy, ass perhaps only played with to milk it >.>Aaah. So you would probably get off on some dominant girl/guy/trap tying you down, blindfolding you, lubing your dick up, sliding a cock ring onto it, then using you as a warm, throbbing dildo to fill them up?
Who knows, if you are a particularly good boy and make the domme cum hard, they might wrap their lips around your cock and edge you a few times before locking you up for the night…
No.535
>>534Holy fuck, I'm almost moaning out loud
Hnnggg, god damn you've nailed it exactly….
Blindfold, lubed up, cock ring (huge turn on) and riding me to cum as many times as they can while I moan and beg. I'd do my best to thrust and make them cum, anything to get a little more teasing, trying to cum so badly before I get locked up until tomorrow
Desperately hard right now, unf
No.537
>>535Don't you cum anon! Oh, I know you desperately want to stroke out your load, but you save all that cum and lust for your kittygirl!
Heh, I bet your leaking precum now and almost unconsciously twitching your hips, desperate to fuck and provide service to someone. Well, you're just going to have to wait. After all, dildos don't get to choose when they are used, do they?
>Desperately hard right now, unfI know that feel. I would probably cum in 10 seconds if I actually started stroking. Enjoy being horny and denied too much though.
No.539
>>537I already came an hour ago, this has made me rock hard all over again >.> I'm a horny guy
Sadly she's in LA right now, it'll be a few months til she gets to feel it stretching her out again. We didn't send her toys back with her when she left last time, so it'll take a month after that even til she's ready. A problem few sympathies with but still problem
>After all, dildos don't get to choose when they are used, do they?Y-yes sir.
>tfw no guy/girl/trap to tie me down, make me eat them out and ride me all night No.540
>>539>Y-yes sir. What a good boy.
You may have came an hour ago, but
out of sympathy for that chastity promise I made an hour or so ago itt, and also because shared chastity is my fetish you should wait at least a day before cumming again.
Oh, that doesn't mean you can't look at porn though. If you do, you better be imagining yourself bound and blindfolded, having your cock worked over and over as a meat dildo until you are begging and nearly screaming to cum, only to be locked up again, for another night…
This is great fun, I've always loved making other people over the internet uncontrollably aroused.
No.541
>>540A whole day? If I don't cum every 6-8 hours at least I get really horny, it's always been that way :c
Unf, oh god, please use my cock…
>This is great fun, I've always loved making other people over the internet uncontrollably aroused.You have no idea >.> Do you have an email or something, it'd be fun to do the same to you as punishment for this teasing
No.542
>>541Sure, here's my disposable/lewd one.
>A whole day? If I don't cum every 6-8 hours at least I get really horny, it's always been that way :cOh, I know that feeling. You don't want to be a bad boy though, right? I may not be able to punish you or anything, but if you cum I will wish with all my heart for some dominant person to lock you up for a week or so as punishment!
Although, it wouldn't really be punishment. If anything, it would make you work harder to please whoever is using your hard cock as a dildo.
>Unf, oh god, please use my cock… Maybe. You can feel free to tease and gently rub yourself, but NO stroking. And if you even feel yourself getting close, you better back off.
No.543
>>542>You don't want to be a bad boy though, right?N-no… though some dominant appearing and locking me up for a week wouldn't be a punishment right now, I'd love that >.>
Haha, you get it. Oh god yes, I'd do anything to please them, if they could take it
Hnngg… y-yes master, it's so hard
>>>/cuteboys/431If this works, have a look at what is throbbing in my pajamas right now >.>
No.545
>>543Oh my. You're cock is definitely bigger than my cute thing.
Must be embarrassing, to be bossed around and not allowed to cum, huh? Oh, if I was with you right now you can bet I would put a cock ring on and and ride you until I had had multiple anal orgasms.
Then, to torture you more, I would lovingly clean and suck every bit of myself off your dick until you feel like your mind is breaking me.
Really though, thats an delicious cock. If I wasn't in domme mode right now, you can bet I would be fantasizing about you locking me up and training me to worship that big thing and only get off from it fucking me No.546
>>545>all those grammar mistakes>all those misplaced wordsBeing horny can really fuck with ones mind!
No.550
>>545Mhmm. I'm sure you'd enjoy riding it up and down all night huh slut
A l-little yes. Oh fuck, unnff…
I feel like my mind is already breaking >.>
I love my cock, sadly few people can take it. Normally I'm far more into pinning them down, teasing them til they beg and helping them take every inch, but this tiny sub part of me takes over totally in the right situation >.> >>546Oh yes, so much mindfuck through horniness
No.552
>>550Oh god, much too horny to keep teasing. After seeing your delicious cock, I just want to suck on and service that thing for a few hours.
Trying so hard to not cum, even my underwear is teasing me every time I move.
No.556
>>552Every time I've found someone who's into teasing me, my body, cock and dom side end up making them my slut
part of me loves it, and part is desperate for more teasing Don't you dare touch that tiny little thing baby, but for being so tempted you're getting it out. Put it on your lap slut, out of your underwear, and leave it to twitch. There's a good boy~
No.557
>>556It's out there, drooling precum.
Also, should we move this to the email only? I don't want to bother anyone else by not posting images or anything.
No.559
>>557Good boy, now leave it to twitch so pathetically, I bet it's making a mess on your underwear
Sure, we've taken this thread by storm >.>
Talk to you on there
No.585
>>557>>559/d/iscussions are allowed.
No.586
>>585Not gay /d/iscussions.
No.587
I don't think what most people seem to do with chastity is for me. If I get horny, and something is keeping me from dealing with it? I stop getting horny. Within minutes. The longer I go without fapping the LESS I get horny.
I think, at least for me, if there's no constant stimulation, there's no frustration. And then there's no fun.
Pictures like these, and stories with lots of bondage and teasing and edging, those are what keep me in these threads.
No.588
>>586;_ ;
>>587>The longer I go without fapping the LESS I get horny.Total opposite for me. Being bound, uncaged and teased for hours a night between lock ups is torture for anyone but it's merely being unable to cum that adds even more desperation personally
No.607
>>397The holytrainer seems great but the CB is cheaper. What is good about it?
No.608
>>607I also have a very thick but short cock any suggestions?
No.609
Well, /femdom/ I've sprung for a lower end model. Ordered a jail house device. What should i expect for personal, mid length play?
No.611
>>608No idea, sorry mate. I'm about 6 inches soft so it's almost impossible to find a cage, we might both have to get custom ones if you can't squeeze into the naturally thin market models
>>607It doesn't pinch at all (serious problem with cheaper cages), the material is good quality, it's easy to clean and looks adorable
No.616
>>611know where I can buy a cheaper model?
No.629
>>616Ebay and most sex toy sites will have a fairly good range. Try to save up and get a better one though mate
No.630
No.659
>>616check amazon, dhgate, aliexpress
No.680
>>609I have the one shown in the picture. I'm not that much of a fan. But that is because it takes a fuckton of time to put on comfortably. Getting your balls through that metal ring is a pain and is uncomfortable. Once on it is fine though.
No.717
I've been into chastity for years, but when I didn't find anyone to play with I kinda went off it.
I have my own device, a Cb3000, it's alright, but I'd like something better if I were to go long term chastity.
I started this when I was 17, 22 now. Based in the Uk. Would love to play with someone, i'm a good sub.
No.740
>>717I can play with you, need an email address.
No.749
No.750
>>616http://www.aliexpress.com/item/New-Clear-Male-Chastity-Device-Belt-With-Brass-Lock-Locking-Number-Tags/2008898271.htmlHere is a link to the one I got.
I have not found a cheaper device cost that could also get it to you in <2 weeks AND was a CB6000 knockoff.
It's only 15 bucks with free shipping (shipping is guaranteed to get to you within 2 weeks)
Best deal I've found and I looked ALOT for a cheap ass device.
No.770
>>740chastity1991s@hotmail.com
No.774
No.861
>>774>>749I want those panties
No.876
In case anyone's curious, I do tease and denial trainings/mind breaks.
No.877
No.1168
Time to revive this thread. I just picked up my first chastity belt the other day. What do you guys usually do when you're locked up? I could use some tasks while i'm trying my first longer session.
No.1169
>>876What kind of guys are you into for that? >.>
No.1170
>>1168Oh hey, I got mine on Friday, I've been wearing it since then.
No.1172
No.1174
>>1172Sure, I'm wearing a CB-6000 that I got off of Alibaba. A couple of things, the first is my dick is actually a bit larger then the head of the chastity device so I have to spend a little time to get it to fit in there.
The second is that if you don't get the right sized back ring on the base of your dick something funny will happen, like you will get an erection and the cb-6000 won't stop it and will just move with your erection which will stretch your balls out.
The third thing is that I'm going to take this off before I go to sleep tonight but I'm probably going to stay in chastity until tomorrow evening or possible even later.
The first picture is my dick when I'm trying to get it on, the second and third are a couple hours later.
No.1175
>>1174>The second is that if you don't get the right sized back ring on the base of your dick something funny will happen, like you will get an erection and the cb-6000 won't stop it and will just move with your erection which will stretch your balls out. I had this when I tried a chastity device. Being metal and heavy even standing, soft, it'd sink down enormously and when I got hard it'd pull against it weirdly.
Looks good on you, now browse some porn and tease it
No.1176
>>1175Thanks, I've been teasing it on and off since I put it on.
No.1178
>>1176How's that locked cock feel?
No.1179
All good shit.
No.1181
>>1178A little pent up but otherwise fine.
No.1182
>>1181Oh god, I don't know how you do it. I've been teasing myself in self-chastity for about two days now, and i'm already a horny mess. I can't stop teasing myself..
No.1183
>>1182So I guess that would make the word of the day pics?
No.1185
>>1183Here. God, i need release. I think i'll edge a few times to make this even worse.
No.1194
>>1185My, you can see it swelling up so much there, it looks ready to burst.
I hope you're still good and desperate, locked up and owned
No.1661
Anybody else locked up tonight?
No.1733
>>609>>680I've got one like that, in addition to taking ages to put on, I find it really hurts when I get aroused. Not in a good "cock straining to get out" way, but a really hot, tight burning sensation around the ring.
Is there any way to stop this? Would a plastic CB-6000 be more comfortable?
No.1812
>>1661yea… three days so far…
No.1813
No.1819
>>1812Who's got you locked up and for how long?
No.1832
>>1661I don't get a chastity device, i'm just under an honour system. I maaaay have accidently came while edging tonight. Mistress got rather angry and is still deciding my punishment. I'm going to have to sleep on it now
No.1982
>>1812That second picture. Where the thing is nearly coming off and you can then easily pull out of it. That happens to me as well. How the hell do you stop that? A new device? Some fix?
No.2007
>>1982well, you can make a belt out of a thin steal cable, crimp the ends, and use para cord on the outside so it is not so harsh, also heat shrink tube over the ends with the crimps.
The belt will make it impossible to pull the device forward and down.
Alternatively, you could get various piercings around the pubic area, that would hold the device flush with the skin. I am a fan of this idea, It makes the device seam more permanently fixed and more difficult to tamper with.
It is popular to get a PA piercing, and have the penis secure in the tube, and unable to pull out without ripping your penis. I don't like the idea of piercings on the penis though.
No.2452
>>16>(one of my former pets, weird relationship) Oh, Ss. You guys are funny.
No.2453
>>237Do you have trouble pissing?
No.2511
>get first cage
>too horny to get into it
>boner breaks locking mechanism so I can get right out
Well fuck.
No.2513
>>2453You have to sit to pee, otherwise you'll end up making a huge mess.
>>2511Damn, you broke the cage? What type?
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No.2970
>>2966I so love that whole anklet with chastity key thing…
Too bad the fucking cuckoldry fetishists have all but ruined it. :(
No.2971
>>2970
right!? I love male orgasm control and female sexual dominance. Never letting a guy orgasm ever seems like a waste of that control and sexual dominance without having sex with me completely misses the point. Fuck cuckolding. I wish that fetish would fuck off forever and leave my femdom alone.
No.2973
here's a great post from fetlife on the subject actually:
https://fetlife.com/users/854200/posts/2874047
No.2979
>>2973
Can someone put up a summary here for those who don't have a fetlife account?
No.3416
>>2979
"Chastity is one of my greatest fetishes, and like most things Femdom, I've never seen it depicted in a way that resonated with me—so I decided to write a post about what chastity means to me, and how it plays out in my relationships. ymmv.
Misconception #1: Chastity is about denial
Nope. I let my subs come plenty—when I want, how I want, and where I want. For me, chastity is about control. Owning my boyfriend's orgasms is symbolic of my ownership of him, so we have rules in place that dictate the nature of his (my) orgasms. Here are some examples:
salemswitchtrial is only allowed to masturbate to completion while kneeling on the floor. I let him come in other positions when we're together, but he's usually only allowed to finish on his back if I'm fucking him in the ass. Regardless of whether or not we're together, he can only come with my permission, which he must ask for in the following manner: "may I please come, Miss?" I can grant him permission, deny him outright, force him to edge for different lengths of time, give him challenges to earn an orgasm (e.g. come in 5 minutes or wait 5 days before asking again, fill up a spoon with precum and eat it, or endure various forms of torture and humiliation).
Misconception #2: Dommes aren't sexually interested in their subs
The myth of chastity being about denial fuels the misconception that Dommes only want to torture and cuckold their subs, and don't want any overt sexual contact with them. This could not be further from the truth. Although I'm a sadist and consensual violence/humiliation/etc. turns me on, it does not make me want to go fuck some "alpha" domly douchebag like you see in so many Femdom pornos. Torturing my sub until he's a bloody crying mess makes me want to climb onto his face and grind against his tongue. It makes me want to hold him down and fuck him in the ass. It makes me want to suck his dick. It makes me want him in all ways. Knowing that I own him so completely that he can't even complete a basic human function without my permission only heightens my desire for him. So, while savoring every orgasm he gives me while he's in chastity makes them that much sweeter, finally granting him permission to come and watching him writhe in ecstasy is possibly more satisfying.
Misconception #3: Chastity can be casual
Chastity is deeply sexy to me, but more than that, it is an expression of love. It is a tangible way to manifest my ownership of my sub and his surrendering of control and devotion to me. This is why I feel so repulsed and confused when strangers on here ask me to be their keyholder. I have to want your orgasms in the first place in order to want to control them, and how can you pledge your commitment to me in this way when you don't even know me? I even have a hard time with people I'm dating bringing up chastity before I feel like our relationship is at that point yet.
Chastity not only heightens the intensity of every orgasm, but it imbues each orgasm with meaning. Controlling and restricting something brings that thing into focus. Every orgasm granted becomes beautiful because it is a gift—not just a gift from the Domme to her sub, but from the sub to his Domme. Chastity turns what is usually a self-indulgent act into an offering, not just of the body, but of the soul.
It requires a great deal of trust. Trust that the sub won't cheat (no device is 100% secure) and trust that the Domme won't abuse her power and push the sub past his limits. If my sub is ever not ok with the restrictions we have in place, I need him to be able to tell me, and for us to have an open communication about it. If someone isn't capable of communicating with me, and instead goes behind my back and breaks their chastity, we're done.
So, to wrap things up, these are some of my thoughts on chastity and how it fits into my life and informs my relationships—I'm not trying to dictate how others should practice their kink."
No.3677
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My god, you two don't know how horny you've made me.
I haven't cum for a week, my Domme has forbidden me from even touching myself for another two weeks and I'm currently rock hard and leaking precum.
I don't even know if she'll let me cum when I see her next. The last time I saw her she teased me for two hours then iced down my balls.
This is torture. I don't even know if I can hold out for another two weeks. The only thing keeping me from touching myself is the fear of what she'll do if she finds out I disobeyed her.
No.3693
So I decided to lock myself up until the weekend, any suggestions on what I should do while locked up?
No.3696
>>3693
Why don't you sort your porn collection?
No.3697
>>3696
That might take a while, I download things in batches to a folder.
Anything more?
No.3698
>>3697
Try your hand at writing fapfiction?
No.3704
I made it to the weekend but I'll let /femdom/ decide if I get out of chastity or keep it on through the weekend.
No.3714
>>3704
Why stop here? Keep going for another week.
No.3717
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No.3832
>>3704
Here
Back in chastity again for a week probably starting yesterday.
No.4015
We got a good community going around here good guys, now i'm new to all this i'm male wanna be a sub where can I go online to do all these and meet a dom female. no money please. Please is there any place like that I wanna try it.