/cuckquean/ - Women Sharing Their Men

>>1864

Yeah can we refrain from antisemitic shitposting thanks

>>1884

Of course they were. Most men that are going to cheat on their SO's are usually going to do it with someone they know/someone that is easily available to them: co-workers, exes, friends, and prostitutes mostly.

On top of that men that use websites like this are the overly sneaky, non-confrontational betamales that don't even have the balls to meet the person they're going to cheat with face to face in an everyday environment.

>>1859

Honestly it's purely sickening how low and pathetic these "men" really are. If I want to fuck another woman I'll tell my girl and she'll fetch one of her friends/co-workers for me. I swear most people just make life more difficult for themselves than it actually has to be.

Paying for dating sites is the betas game. Either learn to flirt in normal social interaction, or cruise craigslist for a cheap fuck. Don't give some money to do the legwork for you

>>1892

Dating sites in general are a hilarious scam meant to prey upon the betas and the used up lonely sluts. Most people on those sites are just betas that want someone to fuck but think themselves so "Deep, philosophical, and wise for such base emotions" to actually just go find a woman and screw her. Hell, they try to be so high and mighty to make up for their own insecurities that they go as far as paying for dating websites like this bullshit here just to keep up the image of "Nice guy that just wants to hold hands and find love."

Now, I'm not saying that all the people on dating sites are like this, but I am saying that a large majority are. People should just figure out what they REALLY want and be honest about it. If sex is the goal, which it usually is, then they should just cut the bullshit and get straight to the fucking without putting up a front.

>>1896

Dating sites are a scam for multiple reasons but I think the "nice guy" you describe is a strawman that doesn't really exist in real life.

>>1897

A lot of what I was saying was hyperbole and exaggeration for effect. I'm not saying that all they want to do is hold hands and find true love I'm just making fun at the fact that many of them are dishonest about their interests and intents on dating sites. It's the old joke of "Enjoys long walks on the beach and giving back massages" that so many people used to make fun of on dating sites and profiles.

Though you do make a good point of my hyperbole getting in the way of my overall message. I shall refrain from going as far next time.

>>1898

To put that in perspective, the vast majority of male dating site profiles will never be looked at by a women.

It would be interesting to see an honest dating site though. Salary, number of previous partners, STDs, criminal record, mental health status, etc.

>>1899

I doubt we would ever see anything like that. I can only see that working if it was hooked up to some government data base or something like that. Besides most people that are on dating sites aren't likely to be very honest to begin with or at least not as forward as they should be. But if such a site did exist I could easily see it being loved by women all over. It would be one of the very few dating sites that actually have a woman population above 15%.

>>1900

Even those that do, like FetLife or OKCupid, tend to still screw over the betas.

Most betas such at socializing. They're mostly obsequious, meaning they're not assertive enough to really stand out from the crowd. And I think we can all agree women aren't attracted to guys who aren't assertive.

Add this to the fact that on these sites, even unattractive women can get dozens of messages. This means that your unassertive beta is competing against dozens of men, some of whome are going to be Chads looking for an easy fuck.

Also, the women tend to be dishonest too. They don't mean to be, but so few women seem willing to just put "Looking for a good fuck" in their status. They say things like "Just looking for friends," or whatever. Your average beta is going to take them at their word, because betas never learned that most people don't know WHAT they want.

All this combines to make a beta on a dating site is in even deeper shit than he would be just hitting the gym. But he won't, because he's beta.

>>1932

I said nothing like that. I didn't say that women want to be slaves. What I said was that women don't like doormats. There's a difference. You don't have to be an asshat to stand up for yourself.

>>1932

Easy there, Anon. Preferring assertive and attractive men to obsequious ones doesn't resolve to "must therefore prefer slavery".

>>1938

>But I get it now.

Not yet you don't. Anon, you managed to accidentally stumble across a few grains of truth but then you picked yourself up, dusted yourself off and continued on like nothing happened.

You don't get anything yet. You're still muddying the thing with projection and revisionism (implying that timid whipped husbands weren't a common stereotype for hundreds of years, for starters) because your own problems require you to do so. You're still thinking of women as collections of rules instead of people. That's a fundamentally dysfunctional foundation, so anything you try building on it will fail until you fix the foundation, i.e. you. (That's why you feel being assertive is draining - because you're projecting it as a facade instead of changing into an assertive person.)

You are being lied to, by yourself.

>>1938

>I get tired of always having assertive

Assertive is not a thing you do, it's a thing you be. That it tires you out tells me that you still view being confident as an act.

>if all men are superior to women, then all men are alphas

But that's wrong. Beta-ness isn't about some kind of granted position in the social hierarchy. It's about understanding how to interact with people and displaying confidence. You could be son of a 14th century Japanese Shogun and still be beta as fuck.

>women want a man to break the rules

Alpha does not mean to be some kind of rebel without a cause. Rebels are sexy because they're assertive, but you can be assertive without being needlessly rebellious. The key is to maintain your perspective and stance in the face of adversity.

You aren't going to get a cucky gf if you're still stuck in this mindset. Put your desire for a gf in the background, cultivate confidence, and for the love of Hotwheels don't use this board to look for a gf.

This is the last I'll say on this, but if you really want to attract chicks, try out /fit, /pua, or /improve. Thank you, can we get back to the board topic now?

>>1941

>and for the love of Hotwheels don't use this board to look for a gf

This.

Use it to find two gfs.

Back to the topic at hand I really wonder what kind of things these guys think while they're signing off for a site like this. Is their relationships so empty/joyless/sexless that they feel like they have to resort to this kind of thing? Is it the "rush" of cheating and dishonesty that makes them do it?

Why not just fuck and ex or co-worker if you want to cheat as I mentioned before >>1886

? Why risk your credit card and other private info when a cheap prostitute can get the job done more easily?

Perhaps the answer is that they weren't thinking at all to begin with.

>>2051

>Is it the "rush" of cheating and dishonesty that makes them do it?

In a word, yes. Ashley Madison, with their "Life is short; have an affair" bullshit just made infidelity look so damn inviting. Inviting, that is, if you and your spouse are already on the skids.

But I think the convenience of it also influenced their decisions. To these men, the convenience of just making a profile outweighed the risk of being turned down by their secretary and having her spread the gossip.

Male here. Most of Ashley Madison males were not "Betas", it would imply having an affair, a Beta couldn't have an affair (cheat) even if he wanted, Betas do not often even get Married, so yeah, there is the real face of "Alpha Chad Thundercock" for you, or guy who is used to clubbing is the average customer for Ashley Madison, falls for such an obvious scam ruining his life and guilt tripping himself.

To be honest todays "Alphas" are told by everyone they should accept every possible sex chance or they are gay, so Ashley Madison website creators probably knew this conditioning and made a huge amount of cash thanks to the idiocy of what's considered "Alpha Male" today.

>>2051

because the people there are "modern alpha males", for them going to a prostitute would be a disohonour that would "Kill" his alpha pride.

>>2074

It depends on how you define beta. You have omega and beta mixed up, in my opinion. The majority of men are betas and they do get married. They cheat because they make bad and impulsive choices all the time (drugs, drinking, eating too much, being lazy at work, etc). Just like their beta wives do.

Signing up for that dumb site is yet another impulsive choice like >>2051 and >>2056 have said.

>>2076

well to be fair beta alpha and omega definitions change a bit from person to person.

point is, they represent average hedonistic male who "scores" ocasionally at clubbing (most of the times it's the female fishing him), who were told their entire lifes that being hedonist is Heroic and saying no to a female is being Gay and Weak.

This type of males are not very smart (you can see by the amount of stupid risk left behind in said act) but it's what considered as normal and acceptable. Who the heck would leave credit card and confidential information in some random website to openly cheating?

hope it was more clear now.

>>2078

Yes that applies to some men I'm sure. It's arguable of course but I think the idea of that stereotype exists more in the mind of feminists than it does in real life men.

>>2078

>male who "scores" ocasionally at clubbing (most of the times it's the female fishing him)

And to add this bit is very true.

>>2075

>>2074

>>2076

>>2078

>>2080

It's worth noting that the behaviour often mislabelled as "alpha" is more characteristic of a class of male mammalian behaviour known as "itinerant" males. These are males who belong to no particular pack hierarchy, usually hanging around together with other itinerant males.

This is why people who use phrases like "a pack of alpha males" demonstrate that they understand neither packs, nor males.

>>2085

>On the internet, we don't have the chance to rape you.

Tumblr would like a word with you /monster/

>>2094

That post is talking about real life monster rape whereas tumblr is just a retarded fantasy world.

>>1886

why is a normalfag on an NTR board?

no wait, this just explains things.

>>2102

bizarro tumblr everyone!

>>1865

You're joking, right?

>>2835

Well, technically we are not, /pol/ still the comment was kinda silly.