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Humiliation or something else? Anonymous 12/09/14 (Tue) 06:46:33 No.215

There aren't that many cuckqueaning blogs or discussions out there but usually when I see them they tend to always be the type that thrives on being humiliated by the act.

I'll admit that while some small part of me enjoys the idea of being degraded by my boyfriend having better sex with another woman that isn't the main reason I became a cuckquean. I find that as long as my boyfriend is being pleasured I can totally get off on that, regardless of if it is by me or another girl. I want him to go out and enjoy himself however he possibly can and if I get to watch that is even better.

I've been considering perhaps trying a more degradation based dynamic just to see what the fuss is about but I really don't know if I would like it with respect to another woman being involved. Strangely enough I'm quite a jealous person, I like being number 1.

Are there others out there who drift from what appears to be the usual humiliation dynamic or is that the major aspect of the fetish for you?

Anonymous 12/10/14 (Wed) 18:57:37 No.242

>>215
Do you ever do things like hide while another girl has sex with your boyfriend and doesn't know you're watching?

Anonymous 12/11/14 (Thu) 05:16:19 No.248

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>>242
In reality I have not had many opportunities to actually witness my boyfriend having sex with other women (yet) however in all cases so far where I could watch I was visible and known to both parties.

I actually don't fantasise about being hidden, sometimes I might be in a different room or perhaps I am back at home while he is out but hiding myself to watch just doesn't come up for me. I mean.. if neither knew I was there I can kinda see that being hot (like walking by the door and seeing or something) but it isn't something I actively considered and I certainly can't see myself planting myself somewhere in the room to wait for them or anything like that.

My boyfriend and I talk about plans for him to fuck other girls before it happens so in reality the only person I could "hide" from is the girl and I'd feel like we were tricking her if my boyfriend and I knew I was watching but she didn't. Not my thing.

Anonymous 12/15/14 (Mon) 03:23:48 No.279

>>215
>I've been considering perhaps trying a more degradation based dynamic just to see what the fuss is about
How would you want to go about "trying" such a dynamic?

Anonymous 12/22/14 (Mon) 14:40:16 No.355

>>279
I tried to actually think of ways but honestly none come to mind right now. I'd probably have to go about reading more humiliation based cuckquean experiences to see if anything clicks at all but I haven't had anything do so yet.

Like.. I vaguely considered being put down or punished due to my boyfriend having infinitely better sex with another girl but that just isn't enjoyable at all. I love hearing about how great the sex and the time I watched I could tell the girl was likely better than me but I wasn't humiliated by it, just thrilled he got to experience it. Putting me down would probably kill the joy I get from it so it would have to be something else..

Anonymous 02/13/15 (Fri) 05:57:47 No.519

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>>242
As >>248 points out, watching the sex while the other two are unaware is kind of wrong unless the other woman knows she might or might not be peeped on while she's fucking the guy.

It's hot to imagine being locked in the closet while your unfaithful husband brings home his newest squeeze while he thinks you aren't there… but reality means we gotta make some compromises if we aren't going to be jerks.

Anonymous 02/23/15 (Mon) 02:09:01 No.626

My 'quean is completely non-humiliation. She's just really excited that I get to experience such a variety and that I enjoy it so much.

I think that maybe the humiliation-driven girls are just more likely to publish their experiences to others, as telling people about it afterwards gives the humiliation that extra kick.

Anonymous 04/05/15 (Sun) 01:02:36 No.954

>>626
>I think that maybe the humiliation-driven girls are just more likely to publish their experiences to others, as telling people about it afterwards gives the humiliation that extra kick.
I've heard this theory before, though it seems hard to prove or disprove.

Anonymous 04/05/15 (Sun) 20:19:03 No.983

I'm mostly compersive. I want the girl he's fucking to be better, but not because I get off on being "worse", just because I like him getting to feel so good and have so much fun. The rundowns he gives me after playing with a girl almost always include some exclamation about how good she felt, how hard he came for her, how much she turned him on, etc, but it's never in a way that disparages me. More like a thank you for being the awesome girlfriend who will lovingly stay home and make cookies for when he comes back tired and hungry after some awesome playtime. I find him so cute when he's worn out and just wants to cuddle and snack after getting his balls drained by a sexy girl who can give him better orgasms than me.

Anonymous 04/05/15 (Sun) 22:43:17 No.984

>>983

You're so hot.

Anonymous 04/08/15 (Wed) 03:19:48 No.1002

>>983
This is exactly how I feel! Though for me, there is a certain voyeuristic element to it as well.

Anonymous 04/23/15 (Thu) 08:36:24 No.1079

You know, I repeatedly see the assertion that the humiliation cuckqueans are more common than the compersive type - but every cuckquean that's chimed in on this board seems to be compersive!

Where all you humiliation-driven gals at?

Anonymous 08/01/15 (Sat) 23:44:07 No.1801

>>983

Dam, thats really sexy. Wish my girlfriend was more like this.

Anonymous 08/25/15 (Tue) 18:35:59 No.1876

>>983

How do you deal with jealousy?

Anonymous 08/25/15 (Tue) 19:18:42 No.1879

>>1876

Compersives, for the most part, don't get jealous. That's what makes them so special.

Anonymous 08/25/15 (Tue) 23:56:41 No.1881

>>1876 I don't really get jealous, as >>1879 correctly assumed. I genuinely love him getting the best there is. When it comes to sex, for most guys the fact is you can't really beat having a hot new partner to try. That and it's pretty ridiculous to think you're going to be the best your BF/husband has ever had for everything. We have great sex, but there are always going to be girls out there who have something - a look, a way they touch, a tightness - that I don't have that can make him feel better in that moment than I can and that's ok. I want him to have that and enjoy himself.

Anonymous 08/27/15 (Thu) 09:11:06 No.1883

>>1881

sounds like you would make a good gf

Anonymous 09/02/15 (Wed) 07:23:09 No.1909

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>>1876

Echoing >>1879 - I get off on him getting off! I understand how one could get jealous at that, but I don't. It isn't like he isn't going to come back to me.