/cuckquean/ - Women Sharing Their Men

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>>912

I've been in a similar situation for some time, except she doesn't give me money and until recently I was still fucking her reasonably often. It's nice to see someone else with the "cucking an ex" dynamic here though.

Specifically, when we were officially together we were very much into domination and submission, and some relatively light bondage. In general our rule was that I could do whatever I wanted to her as long as I had the balls to make her. It definitely played into the cuckqueaning dynamic later on. It's the kind of thing, common with us, that she would never explicitly agree to, but really got turned on by.

I've tied her up in an adjoining room and made her listen to me have sex with a new friend, made her listen over the phone, made her wash the clothes and sheets from a romp the night before, and so on. She has a strange aversion to masturbation which makes the whole thing more delicious.

Now I live in another state, so I'm limited to things very much along the lines of

> He tells me how I ruined any chance of us ever getting back together as boyfriend and girlfriend and that I'll never feel his cock in my cunt again but that someday i can watch it happen with somebody else if I'm lucky. And a million other things.

>>912

Perfect. Love financial domination. I prefer taken women though who would normally be using that money for their husband or family. I used to do it online a lot. It sustained me as a NEET for over a year.

I had one make videos begging me to accept her money while she degraded herself and insulted her family. She got off on extreme blackmail. She loved that I was a lazy, selfish pervert who only used her for money. Nothing has come close to that one since.

>>1088

>I had one make videos begging me to accept her money while she degraded herself and insulted her family. She got off on extreme blackmail. She loved that I was a lazy, selfish pervert who only used her for money.

I have the strangest boner right now. How did you find these women? What kind of thing do they look for in a financial domination relationship, anyway?

>>1089

They are hard to find. Most women are just casually into submission and don't want the deep soul crushing humiliation I enjoy giving.

Look on collarspace and fetlife.

I'll talk to you more about it if you want:

sirlambdadelta@cyber-wizard.com

Have any of you ever been put away?

I have this fantasy of a cuck that's the perfect housewife bordering on slave attending to her boyfriend's every need. She cooks, she cleans, handles all his affairs, and all of the above for his fling of the moment as well. But when it's time for sex, she's tied up, gagged, maybe caged, and left in the bedroom closet to listen to her man have a good time.

Maybe add chastity play, so she can't masturbate to it during or after.

>>258

First off I would just like to say that I love this board even though I've only been lurking for a very short while. Second off I'm not a femanon but my gf discovered that she was a cuckquean through our shared love of BDSM. She was always really into being dominated and used as a glorified sex toy by me and eventually she just came to the conclusion that this was the natural next step for our relationship. At the time we didn't even know that there was a specific term for this type of fetish, by the way I would like to thank /monster/ for pointing me in this direction, but now that we have a name for this and that we know other people out there enjoy this as well has just made things wonderful for both of us. We love combining bondage and cuckqueaning together: she absolutely loves being unable to move or say anything as she watches me fuck another woman and when we're done she eagerly eats my cum out of the vixen's pussy. Usually after cucking her I will reward her by whipping her ass and fucking her hard.

Sorry for my newfagness, and also sorry if I ended up butting into a conversation I wasn't welcomed to. I just really love this board so far and want to keep it alive and possibly contribute to it.

>>1467

I get put on a seat or in the corner nearby, if I'm really lucky! I don't masturbate while I watch, even though I'm not in chastity.

>>1468

We love you too, Anon.

It's good to hear that our friendship with /monster/ continues.

>>1518

What a good girl~

>>2596

>What's the heaviest bondage you've ever been put in?

Full-body rope, involving a chest harness with my arms bound behind my back, my legs in a forced cross and my chest lashed to my ankles to put me in a forced bow with my wrists forcefully raised behind me.

>Were you being punished? Was it just because your dom likes it?

No. Yes.

>Do you try to resist (even playfully), or accept it?

I accepted it. Not that it would have done me much good to struggle.

>Have you ever been presented as a toy for use in the cucking itself?

Does being under the vixen and watching while periodically cleaning my master's cock off count? No, it doesn't. I didn't feel like a toy and I wasn't presented that way.

>How would you feel about being completely restrained, forced/allowed to watch, then made to clean her off of him and him out of her with your tongue, and left like a piece of furniture while they move on to have the rest of their evening together?

I don't like being forcefully abandoned. I love being an observer on the sidelines but being deliberately treated with contempt as part of the play itself doesn't tickle my fancy at all.

>The only person I know personally who is into the most extreme fetishes gives rationales for why they make her feel good that line up perfectly with many of the reasons people here cite for being a cuckquean. Do any of you have other fetishes that end in or center around extreme self-effacement, depreciation, or exploitation, such as vore/snuff/being used as livestock, furniture/decorations, or similarly dehumanizing roles?

I love being used as an onahole from time to time but deprecation, livestock and other more extreme dehumanisation either doesn't do anything for me or turns me off.

I'm what seems to be referred to as a compersive cuckquean rather than a humiliation type. The things you describe often sit side-by-side with the humiliation type cuckqueaning drive.

>>844

>A BDSM relationship is not necessary for cuckqueaning but it makes it much easier because of the level of trust that is (hopefully/usually) already present.

This. I've noticed that BDSM relationships that make it into the "long-term" category tend to be really strong and resilient because there's such a strong level of trust and openness involved as a prerequisite to the BDSM.

>>2610

Uh, I recognize this doesn't hold true for all of /monster/, but I love both monster waifus and cucking.

My only problem with the bicorn is the simple fact that horse-pussy is not JUSTICE.

>>2612

>this doesn't hold true for all of /monster/, but I love both monster waifus and cucking

Same here, anon. I'm one of the few people that will defend cuckqueans on /monster/ but it's pretty hard going. It's weird, I remember monstergirls and cuckqueaning used to go hand in hand but it doesn't really seem to be the case anymore. Actually now that I really think about it cuckqueaning hate and one waifu4lyfufagging started getting more apparent roughly around the same time Femdomfags started getting more vocal.

I'm pretty sure the Maledom part of /monster/, like me, still absolutely adores the 'queans. But the betamax femdom side can't stand the idea of being outside of a completely monogamous relationship and fall easily to oneitis waifuism.

But this is just a theory of mines so take it with some salt.

>>2617

>Maybe part of it's down to just not understanding the compersive cuckqueaning dynamic

That seems very likely from what I've seen. Add that in with the fact that most users here(as in on 8chan in general) can't seem to distinguish the difference between male cuckolds and cuckqueans and you have yourself a recipe for disaster.

>Sweet loving story about a bicorn carefully selecting and cementing her husband's harem never ever

Maybe one day, anon, maybe one day. If that day comes I'm not sure if it'll be on here or on /monster/ but it'll be a glorious day nonetheless.

>>2616

>monstergirls and cuckqueaning used to go hand in hand

That only applies if harems are equated with cuckqueaning.

I mean, plenty of people like Monster Musume, but view Mero as one of the worst girls, if not the worst.

I've noticed among beta males a curious tendency towards over-romanticizing relationships. All this One True Waifu nonsense seems to stem from their basic inexperience in relationships.

>>2622

Looking at it this way is pretty ass-backwards. Ideally you wouldn't need to experience the fact that you fall in and out of love and go through partners as a matter of fact, ideally you'd find an as-close-as-possible to perfect partner and just stick with them for the rest of your life.

Of course, this does not translate to real life, since the chance of this happening is incredibly small, but when you're already in the realm of fiction and provided an enormous number of "partners" to pick from that have fairly stable personalities, there's no reason not to stick with it. With that said, I'm fairly confident that a harem can work as long as it only contains one male and the participants are decently intelligent people, but it also very much depends on the exact circumstances.

There's another, completely unrelated reason for it, and that is that people who change waifus often, or have many of them, are typically newfags straight outta /v/ who think that "waifu" stands for "character I like".

>>2641

I disagree. Considering that the human brain finishes developing long after puberty (early 20's), your personality can change drastically. This means that two people can start out perfect for each other and then grow radically different. Experimentation in relationships is perfectly fine and normal.

But it seems that those men without lots of relationship experience don't recognize this, and instead believe your First should be your Only.

Also, perhaps I wasn't clear. Preferring or striving for a One True Waifu is fine. What is not fine is placing women on a pedestal and believing that they should be perfect angels. That's how you wind up typing '3dpd' in all caps. People tend to idealize those things they're ignorant of, and betamax men are woefully ignorant of how women really act and think.

>>2643

I've married the perfect woman for me.

I'm on the fourth, now.

>>2643

>This means that two people can start out perfect for each other and then grow radically different

I was accounting for that, it was simply a hypothetical

>experimentation … is normal

Indeed, I said so as well

>placing women on a pedestal and believing that they should be perfect angels

3DPD is a general statement about how most women are shit, and it is true. Not because women are inherently shit, but because most people are shit.

The people you're talking about are already largely outside the dating pool anyway, in that they are people most women would refuse to date, or even if not that, they're just incapable of making a move on any of them. Even if we assume that 3DPD is incorrect, it doesn't make a huge difference.

>>2643

that was not correct but not wrong either. practically, There are no people that can start out perfect for each other. they start out fits to each other, and grow radically different or perfectly the same

from your way of talking you implies as if your first relationship will not work, while there are couples who married and stay together without problem despite being each other's first. of course you can just said you didnt.

i am not trying to be mean. i have some self study towards relationship. when people grow, they didnt grow in just 1 aspect in 1 way, humans are complicated. some grows too apart, some grows even closer

as for the First should be your only. i think it is possible if both party prioritize each other and help each other honestfully (of course its deeper than that, but i am not trying to be moremouthful than i already am). however with how the society works now, its almost impossible. why? because nowadays society make a lot of us cant even prioritize ourselves over job, or achievement and society itself, how can we prioritize others?.

btw actually alphas and betas male are just myth,for your information in animal life Alpha males usually are the one who got cheated on by the females. while beta is the other way around. in human life, wether you are a beta or an alpha you can get any woman, as long as the woman is interest in you. and you can still get cheated on

>>2643

that was not correct but not wrong either. practically, There are no people that can start out perfect for each other. they start out fits to each other, and grow radically different or perfectly the same

from your way of talking you implies as if your first relationship will not work, while there are couples who married and stay together without problem despite being each other's first. of course you can just said you didnt. experimentation is normal but its not fine either, dont simply date someone just because you think she is cute…though i can understand people who prefer to do this to understand the kind of person they really want

i am not trying to be mean. i have some self study towards relationship. when people grow, they didnt grow in just 1 aspect in 1 way, humans are complicated. some grows too apart, some grows even closer

as for the First should be your only. i think it is possible if both party prioritize each other and help each other honestfully (of course its deeper than that, but i am not trying to be moremouthful than i already am). however with how the society works now, its almost impossible. why? because nowadays society make a lot of us cant even prioritize ourselves over job, or achievement and society itself, how can we prioritize others?.

btw actually alphas and betas male are just myth,for your information in animal life Alpha males usually are the one who got cheated on by the females. while beta is the other way around. in human life, wether you are a beta or an alpha you can get any woman, as long as the woman is interest in you. and you can still get cheated on