/cuckquean/ - Women Sharing Their Men

Send her a link to here and a couple of CQ tumblr s and let her figure it out for herself.

>>3163

I don't think she can possibly be doing this unintentionally. Girls will send pictures of themselves, but why would she go out of her way to search for other girls pictures that you might like? She's giving you condoms when she's on the pill? Does she even ask for you to use them with her?

She is acting this way because she is giving you the signal to go ahead and take the lead. This is how women like to show it's okay.

I would take her out somewhere and meet some girls. Progress normally, see how she reacts. If she responds badly, stop. Either you will go all the way to the finish, she will have to acknowledge it in some way, both what she liked and/or didn't like.

>>3166

>Does she even ask for you to use them with her?

Nope.

She's a very stubborn person. If I were to try to do something like that with her, she'd refuse out of embarrassment.

She's someone that needs to be warmed up to new things very slowly. I think that's why she's having so much trouble.

I've been thinking about buying a pair of panties, cumming in them and leaving them somewhere obvious in my apartment. So when she comes over and sees them, it should be obvious to her that I slept with another girl. Yet, when asked, if I simply told her "yeah, I did" she'd feel ashamed for being into it and fake exaggerated anger. So if I lie and say, "I bought them for you" she'll pretend to accept the obvious lie.

Plus, I could make her try them on. My cum would make it abundantly clear that I didn't buy them for her and I'd be sure to get some a different size than what she wears. Yet I think she'd still pretend to believe it. Part of that is some sadism on my part, though.

Maybe I should start slow, though. I think if I were to flirt with another woman in front of her, she'd just stand there and not even attempt to intervene and convince herself, "nothing's going on, he's just being friendly".

Thoughts?

>>3167

I'm saying to start with the flirting because at some point she will have to react or respond. If she doesn't, you're going to go home with the girl, so if she stands there watching and doing nothing, she has accepted it. I wouldn't play games like the panties and beat around the bush. Maybe the panties might be fun, but for real, after you've actually started seeing other girls.

Again, the point is you need to put yourself in a situation where you know she's okay with it. The best possible scenario is to do it right in front of her and observe the reaction. If she reacts badly, just say straight out, "How you were acting made me think you wanted me to do this. I'm sorry if I hurt you, I just wanted to do something I thought you liked."

Some other ways to start could be to just tell her when you think another girl is attractive and see her reaction, or have a threesome with another girl. See how she responds in these situations. If she is really into the other girl, or really enjoys when you focus on the other girl during the threesome, you are on the right track.

>>3170

Thanks for the advice.

She's brought up threesomes before, long before I started to catch onto any of this, much earlier in the relationship. The way she brought it up, I was very cautious. I'm not a cuck, you understand. I told her I'd be willing to, mostly as a test to see if she was thinking mmf so I could drop her.

Instead, she wanted to know what kind of woman I'd want the other one to be. I was caught off guard so I said I didn't know. She went on to say that she could never participate so the other girl would have to be more dominant than her.

Of course, it's only in retrospect now that I understand what she was talking about. I suspect my obliviousness led to her suppress her desire and now she's afraid I'll hate her.

I think you're right. The best way is to just test the waters. If I can open her up a bit more so she doesn't suppress it so much, I think we'll both be much happier for it and less sexually frustrated.

>>3171

Slow and deliberate is the way to go, Anon. As >>3170 says, you should start with small and straightforward things. Don't go straight to flirting in front of her, though. You want to give her the opportunity to warm back up and show her that you understand and approve. You also want to have the opportunity to feel out exactly how her fetish (if she actually has one) works. You probably want her to explain herself, to tell you exactly what she wants and what she means by the things she does - this is not how she, or women in general, work.

Try this: When she next sends you texts of naked women so you can 'feel good', tell her you do. Tell her that the girl in the picture looks great, that her sending it to you made you happy and you think it's sexy that she sent it. Be genuine. If the picture made you hard, say so. If you feel a rush of affection for your girlfriend as a result, say so. Make her feel safe and loved for doing it. Continue this pattern of praise for a while to let her get used to it, so any uncertainties she has melt into comfort.

When she gives you condoms, kiss her and tell her that you're happy that she's looking out for your health and safety - because you are, right? You're not outright saying that you'll use them, but you're sending a more important message: That you like and appreciate what she's doing.

A good next step might be to let her see you checking out other women. Turn it into a shared thing between you - discreetly point out a girl and murmur what you like. "She's got a great butt, doesn't she?" Think of it like sharing parts of a meal - you like it and want to share that you like it. Do it right and she might start pointing out girls for you to look at.

Carefully watch her reaction and make sure she's comfortable at each stage before pushing more. Don't go too quick but don't get spooked and back off if she gives an ambiguous reaction the first few times. The key is that you're not just doing this for you, you're doing this for both of you.

Report back and let us know how it's going!