>>531For my husband and I it started after we had our first baby. During the pregnancy the way our hormones were I was really horny all the time and he was really super not horny. After the baby was born, that inverted itself entirely: I stopped having a sex drive and his revved back up into high gear. He kept pawing at me for sex and and I felt bad for saying no all the time, so one night I got really fed up and said in a way that could have been taken as a joke "why don't you just go to a prostitute?" He stopped and narrowed his eyes at me for a minute and said "Do you mean that?" and I said "I guess I do." kind of surprised I had meant it.
So he started seeing hookers, but that didn't last very long. He hated it, probably because they weren't very good hookers, and they just weren't acting like they were into it, so he went on being unhappy about the situation and I was unhappy because he was unhappy.
Now, when this started, it started for him, or at least that's what I was telling myself, but pretty soon I realized it was exciting me. Whenever he left the house to go have sex with a stranger it gave me this weird kind of "first date" nervous anticipation (in a good way). So I was really let down when it stopped.
Anyway, I've been trying to get him to "date" but he's pushing back from it, and I'm not sure why. Anybody know what I need to do to get him more interested in this?