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If you fall off the wagon, get back on.

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 No.1322[Reply]

help

I am only 5 days into nofap

I am feeling the urge, I can't resist watching porn

how do I stop this

 No.1323

>12 hours ago

what helps me is that watching porn isn't even animalistic, it's lower.

animals don't look at porn


 No.1326

>>1323

op here, I failed my nofap


 No.1327

Reosting my post from a sticky thread because no one responded to it, not to hijack your thread OP.

I've been reading a lot about nofap recently and rebooting and all that. I've decided that easing off by first eliminating porn will be the best way for me. The problem is that I frequently don't fap to porn, so getting rid of it isn't much of an issue. Another thing I'm having a problem with is that in a lot of the stuff I've read, it seems to be a lot about regaining "normal sexuality." I don't want normal sexuality, I want to eliminate sexual desires, and all relationship-type desire in general. I've pretty much gotten over the "tfw no gf" problem, but I feel like continuing to masturbate will make it impossible to completely eliminate such desires. Is there a way to simply eliminate my libido with nofap?

Update: I'm five days porn free, but still masturbating to things I imagine.




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 No.1324[Reply]

Shoot rock salt at my dick and balls from an elephant gun

Throw my cock and nuts into an active volcano

Force my dick and balls to construct the transcontinental railroad

 No.1325

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3D-print an incredible, detailed, to-scale, life-size copy of my dick and balls only to tear it apart




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 No.1312[Reply]

>tfw hentai addict

it's even worse when you know there's new doujins coming out every hour and you're not reading them

 No.1321

What I tell myself when say that I want to just check for updates is, first I'd ask myself what would I use it for, and is it used for? Sexual pleasure and that's something I CAN'T have artificially.

Once you've gotten down the only use of it, you'd probably realize that it doesn't have any benefits or reason rather than what you just tried so hard to quit.




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 No.1145[Reply]

Neuroscience Speaks: How Using Porn Destroys Your Brain

Neuroscience now knows that willpower is a function of the prefrontal lobes of the brain. Scientific studies have also confirmed that using porn over and over actually reshapes these areas of the brain, literally eroding our willpower and our moral compass.

Neuroscientists call it hypofrontality. Hypofrontality is a state in which there is decreased blood flow to the prefrontal lobes of the brain. Hypofrontality is observed in schizophrenia patients and is also observed in all manner of addictions.

“Compulsiveness is a good descriptor of hypofrontality. Many porn users feel focused on getting to porn and masturbating even when a big part of them is saying, ‘Don’t do this.’ Even when negative consequences seem imminent, impulse control is too weak to battle the cravings.”

The porn-addicted brain has trouble thinking logically. When impulses and desires come from the midbrain, instead of being moderated, the brain feels these desires as compelling needs. The prefrontal region is supposed to be able to weigh consequences and situations and judiciously shut down cravings, but hypofrontality means the addict’s ability to do this is impaired.

The more one masturbates to porn, the more dopamine is released in the brain. Eventually dopamine receptors and signals in the brain fatigue, leaving the viewer wanting more but unable to reach a level of satisfaction. The viewer becomes numb to things once considered pleasurable. “To escape this desensitization, people, and men especially, expand their pornographic tastes to more novel stimuli,” Black writes. This leads, again, to more fatigue.

To bring the prefrontal lobes back into working order, a two-pronged attack is needed: (1) the old neural pathways must be starved, and (2) new neural pathways must be built and fed, increasing dopamine levels in a way that build up the prefrontal cortex.

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 No.1280

>>1145

Thank you for posting this, this was the kick in the ass I needed to drop that degenerate habit.


 No.1282

>>1145

Director Seymore Butts tells you the Truth about what really happens in Porn

http://www.menshealth.com/best-life/director-reveals-horrifying-truth-about-directing-porn


 No.1290

>>1267

Maybe it should be.


 No.1310

>all this withdrawl shit

I'm scared anons


 No.1311

>>1310

It's more scary when you don't do anything about it.




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 No.1286[Reply]

So, I have a question nofap

I started on the 17th, today WAS my fifth day without fapping, usually a once a day guy (general touching at times, but not really full on fapping). I have no fucks to give about porn addiction or fapping addiction, this is PURELY for the benefits from testosterone increases

But today, I decided fuck it, and full on fapped for about 20m but never let myself get to the end, not really edging at first, because I wasnt going TO the edge, I just wasnting fapping in a way that gets me there quick at all (I guess after 16 years of practice, I have stamina, meh). Then finally did hit the edge and decided to mess around there for a little bit, maybe 5-10 minutes of back and forth between lazy fap that doesnt really do much but feel good but will let you back away from the edge, then sorta go full hammer mode right back to the edge. Kind of fun really, especially after 5 days with nothing.

But, unfortunately I went to far, I started to cum at one point, but, as I've done before, I can stop myself at will and did so before the first shot even happened. Of course the result of this though is that a small amount of semen does end up in the pipes, but not even a full shots worth (at least not after not fapping for 5 days, maybe if its my second fap of the day to completion). Wasnt sure what to think for awhile, took a breath, then messed around for a bit (meh, jizz makes a helluva lube) then decided to quit.

So my question is this, as far as the hormone side of things, did I completely fuck up the whole thing? Meaning even though I didnt actually have an orgasm, and certainly didnt ejaculate anywhere NEAR fully, did I screw up the whole 7 day cycle? Am I basically reset to day 0 now?

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 No.1298

>>1295

Funny enough, I've actually done that before. Edged and then just stopped. I dont really get the whole blue ball thing. When other guys talk about it I laugh along with them, but frankly have no idea what that feels like cause its never happened to me.

Ever see that episode of seinfield where they all talk about kramer having sex but stopping before he came and said "i'd had enough, that was good and I wanted to to go sleep." same concept only actually true, and about fapping not sex.

But thank you for the image link none the less


 No.1299

>>1298

maybe you don't get blue balls because you have low testosterone already, have you had your levels tested? Arousal is one of our most basic instincts, being able to stop fapping and feel no need to finish is akin to having a big angry you shouting at you and not feeling any fight or flight response.


 No.1300

>>1299

I didnt say I dont feel the need to finish. I said I've never had physical pain associated with it.

Meaning, you have that voice screaming to finish in your head and your dick tingles like no tomorrow begging to finish. But if I control it and stop, theres no pain in my nuts afterwards.

And no, never been tested, but like I said, low levels run in my family. So frankly, I wouldn't doubt it. Hence why I asked here bout the test level part of all this.

But fuck it, I'll try the whole damn kit and kaboodle this week, no porn no touching, and see what happens. I might as well, like I said, I know HOW to control myself, and theres no pain associated with any of it, just lack of desire.

But if >>1295 's hypothesis (the image) is right, its the whole thing thats a problem for test levels, not just orgasms. Which I guess if tahts the trophy I'm after, I'll have to deal with stopping the whole thing together

Fucking sucks though, I LIKE tits..


 No.1302

>>1300

I didn't mean physical pain when I said blue balls, I don't really get that either, it's just an intense desire, it's like really needing to piss and there are no toilets around and if you keep looking at porn the desire grows and grows.


 No.1303

>>1302

Desire yes. Intense desire to grab some bitch and fuck her brains out and blow a massive load inside of… thats pretty much what runs through your head when you try to stop fapping that close… but it doesnt hurt, its just will power




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 No.1291[Reply]

>come across dirty images

>feel the desire strike me

>realize that I can save myself

>immediately turn off my internet, get up and walk around

>sit down at my computer to read a book I have been going through

>the feeling & ideas are still faintly there, but I ignore them and focus on the book

>my affliction dissipates

>tomorrow is day 9 of my freedom from this animal sickness

Feels good.

 No.1296

>>1291

YES! KEEP GOING DUDE!


 No.1297

>>1296

Succeed. SUCCEED


 No.1301

>>1296

>>1297

Thanks fam, it is truly possible




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 No.1265[Reply]

When I'm demotivated, I look at pics of hot girls.

When I look at hot girls, I get motivated, but I also get horny and have to concentrate on not fapping.

lmao

 No.1273

body weight exercises on the spot


 No.1284

>>1273

this and weight lifting. The only problem is that it makes me more horny


 No.1285

>>1284

We gonna get through. I'm starting today.




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 No.1071[Reply]

Ever given yourself a braingasm by thinking about non-erotic things while bored/waiting? It feels pretty close to an orgasm, complete with all the body feels.

Unrelated, but I find that listening to music can greatly help nofap.

 No.1143

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>>1071

Yea, I have no clue what the fuck it is. I have searched the internet and found nothing. I hope this is a regular thing…

I've noticed it's when my opinion or perceptions on things change.


 No.1227

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>>1143

>>1071

pls respond


 No.1253

sounds like either ASMR or meditation. Very normal responses.


 No.1283

>>1071

>>1253

I was able to do this once when I first got into meditation. I think it was largely to do with the flow of breathing. It was almost like a headrush from all of the extra oxygen




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 No.1274[Reply]

Who here is keeping strong this new year? Day 10 for me, 3 day head start.

>It's about to get hard

>Usually fail at day 7

>avoiding all porn

>saw a girl get topless in a webm

>my brain lit up

>felt the dopamine surging from seeing it

>Nothappening2016isouryear.jpg

>Instantly started doing 2 sets of pushups 25 and 15 mixed with pull ups 2 sets of 10 then 8

Fellow white men, physical activity is the only comfy way of dealing with your horny body. You must go for a run daily if you have a very hard time. Soon, that won't be enough (and don't run like a mile a day unless you're crazy. I run 1/3rd of a mile every day.) You gotta do something.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jJAV5EVP_fk

If you failed, get back up. We must save the white race. Masturbating is rewarding yourself for not reproducing.

Do not go for the first women who makes herself available. Let her answer to the question "do you want to have kids?" be the answer. Don't ask it right away, but ask it on the first date or whatever, so you both are clear on what your intentions are.

DO NOT FAP, DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH DEGENERATES. SPEARHEAD YOUR LIFE. WRITE DOWN BUSINESS IDEAS, while the populace complains and begs for socialism and entitlements, you can pick up where the zombies are completely futile.

BE A HARD WORKER, I am no hard worker, but I value it, and whatever I do I know I am meant to be a hard worker, because no one else will do the work for me.

>Carpentry

>Fighting and arms training > Bodybuilding

>Aviation

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 No.1275

One of my pictures has a Jewish caption. I don't know why I screen capped that before. That's interesting. Such things kinda piss me off now. DO NOT RACEMIX, THINK OF THE CHILDREN, AS IS THE GOAL OF EUGENICS


 No.1276

>>1274

Inspirational post man, thanks. Indeed, it's starting to get difficult, day 8 here. With quite shame I say that I saw something which wouldn't give me a boner years ago and did it (I was browsing halfchan's /pol/), but well. I can say proudly that I did not let it dominate me.

It's hard to acknowledge the years of slow brainwashing (by the porn industry), but it is necesary to do it and start changing. It's been said that it takes 21 days on average to build a habit; we can be sure it takes a lot more to unbuild a non-healthy one, but we can also be sure the long-term reward is far more meaningul than the short-term one.

Let us keep going into an unstoppable force!


 No.1277

>>1276

>browsing cuckchan

Have some standards. I bet you watch mainstream media too.


 No.1278

>>1277

Nah, I don't even have TV man. I just enjoy shitposting there way too much, kek




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 No.1261[Reply]

Can long term fapping (I'm talking 3-5 years) affect penis size?

 No.1270

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You can cause scar tissue build up which leaves you small and bent. Sex is even less safe.




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 No.1231[Reply]

So I wonder, how difficult is not fapping for someone who masturbates every day or two, but doesn't watch any porn? I know this is different for everyone, but I'm looking for anecdotal responses anyway. I've gone without for maybe a week maximum, but hearing that people have panic attacks and whatnot is admittedly spooky. So I wonder, is that related to the intense visual stimulation they've become reliant on (video porn?). I've always just closed my eyes and imagined shit, sometimes maybe using a picture or whatever, but I've only watched porn a few times. I'm wondering if that gives me a psychological advantage, and I wonder if any physical withdrawal is a manifestation of stress/psychic shit rather than physiological nonsense.

So tl;dr – how much of the withdrawal from daily masturbation is related to porn addiction

and a side note, my prostate isn't going to get fucked, right? I feel like I should still do it once every few weeks just for that reason.

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 No.1233

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I'm the opposite, actually. I still have major urges to watch hentai and, while I'm not really proud of it, I still continue to watch it. I'm 37 days fap-free so far though, and I can say for sure it helped made me feel better; more stable and relaxed, psychologically.

I believe the reason people stress the need to avoid porn is that usually masturbation follows it for many men out there. It will also screw with the rewards circuitry in your brain, causing you to feel less attracted to other things in life (ex: real women, working on your projects, etc.) and making you end up easily distracted, much like people with their hand-held social media nowadays. Basically porn is just mental junk food which is best to avoid entirely if you can.

Fapping follows the same reasoning because your brain gets flooded with endorphins after a discharge and, just like a drug, your body will scream to get its fix since it's so used to it. Your symptoms of withdrawal can even be exacerbated if your habit of fapping is tied to certain habits and memory triggers (ex: sitting down at your computer and finding out you're alone…). So yes and no, fapping is not necessarily tied to porn/hentai, but yes it can be a trigger. The biggest trigger, actually.

As for the prostate cancer thing, I don't really believe in it. If that were true, where are all the reports of dead Buddhist monks that died from abstaining? You'd have better chance to avoid cancer by watching what you eat and drink, than from expelling all the man-juice which your body recycles anyway and sends back to the bloodstream along with all the good nutrients (like zinc) that's in it.


 No.1237

>>1231

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7oFVOJf0TzY

http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/sep/26/brain-scans-porn-addicts-sexual-tastes

The main problem with porn is that it's an addiction: It stimulates your reward system and over time your brain gets a dependency.

There's also an added disadvantage because your sex drive is a part of survival (as is eating), and the post-withdrawal is often reported to be harder than actual drugs. If you've been watching thousands of girls in Internet porn for the past decade, you're going to feel something after abruptly stopping it, similar to the death of a loved one.

Some people get addicted, some people don't. It all depends on how you self-medicate. If you feel slightly depressed and you start using to deal with your problems, you're going to have a harder time. You might experience low energy, lack of motivation, anxiety, because your brain is trained for incorrect dopamine usage. It's funny, but people have been hospitalized for gambling addictions because they built their entire lives around it. The brain easily fucks itself when it comes to extreme levels of reward.


 No.1239

>>1233

FYI: Fapping is easier to quit than porn. There's no medical evidence that masturbation or sex is bad for you. On the other hand, it's proven that porn causes neurological changes.


 No.1246

>>1239

>There's no medical evidence that masturbation or sex is bad for you.

Frequent ejaculation is tied to low levels of testosterone, the latter of which you need for motor coordination, reflexes, risk-taking, etc. Also, there exists such a thing as sexual exhaustion in men…


 No.1252

oh hey i havent' been bad on the porn lately. still use but don't spend HOURS at a go anymore. yesterday was a binge 4x but today doing well, maybe 3 today. less of a desire though but it still seems like part of a going to bed ritual. still havent managed to sleep yet woke up at 11 last night. heres hoping




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 No.1229[Reply]

Ok so I installed a pornblocker and set time restrictions on my computer and wrote the password down on a piece of paper.

Now I'm just wondering where's a good place to put this paper so that I don't just use it to disable to pornblocker instantly but can still get to it when I need to. Any Ideas?

pic related is me

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 No.1240

A porn blocker isn't going to help. The problem is inside your mind, changing the outside world isn't going to do anything.


 No.1243

>>1240

Ok how do I change my mind then dude


 No.1244

>>1243

Do something you enjoy/would enjoy that doesn't involve porn. Start exercising and eating properly. There's no easy way out of fixing your reward system.


 No.1249

>>1229

Outside of your house, never inside. Unless of course you have a stash of boxes and you put it safe in the deepest one (like matryosha dolls). In that case it would be wise to surround the other boxes with messages of reinforcement, motivational quotes or just stuff that makes you think of other things you could be doing/why you should not do it.

(What porn blocker are you using?)

>>1240

Baby steps, this could work for him.


 No.1281

A porn blocker isn't realizing that porn is worthless and having the free will to watch it, but choosing not to.




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 No.1234[Reply]

I just started fapping and then I stopped.

Become an edge lord. I have been smoking weed and had a 5 hour energy. I just couldn't force myself to masturbate to orgasm. I am not satisfied with worldly porn.

 No.1235

pic related is brother he lifts


 No.1241

>getting your reward fix from weed to replace your previous addiction

If you can't function sober, then you're not functional.


 No.1245

>>1241

Good one.




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 No.1236[Reply]

Pretty much every porn blocker I experimented with is utter shit.

Half of them are so dumb, it's comical (for example: blocking "nofap" but not blocking "femdom". Yes, this happened with several programs and extensions).

Others block virtually everything. Some of those do have whitelists but I whitelist so much it's ridiculous.

The fact that these programs got good reviews makes me believe the reviewers were bots, and that virtually all these programs are by company's hoping to make a quick buck selling shit-tier software to tech-illiterate parents.

For now, all I have is a long list of URL's blocked in my host files, but that's very far from a real porn blocker.

Did anyone come across a porn blocker that works?



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 No.1208[Reply]

What is the best daily brain workout?

 No.1209


 No.1226

Breathe to your maximum capacity, have a long inhale through your nose to your stomach. Then exhale slowly in the same amount of time. Repeat.

Mindful breathing will eradicate stress after you get into the habit of using it.




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